Pulaski

Well if you want the best for them, dumping them into the Florida public education system is not what they deserve. .... In fact it isn't what any child deserves!

Guindalf

The problem is not WHERE you live, but HOW you live!

IOW, you'll have the same problems wherever you are!!!

Dorothy

Really? You live in a first world country with all the perks that go along with that...healthcare, freedom of choice, social services, etc. Think about living somewhere like Afganistan or Syria then come back and tell us that life can't be half as bas as it is where you live right now.
And maybe gain some perspective.
What is it you think your boys "deserve"? Children deserve to be fed and housed and educated. Beyond that anything else is a bonus.

Trow1982

Right can I just get this straight I want advice regarding help on getting a visa for US only, I'm not on here for comments of how bad Afgan is I understand I'm privileged for the life I have compared to others but does that mean I stay in one house for the rest of my life cause others don't believe u should have better?!
I'm sure you've not lived in same house & got bigger or better so give me a break pls

Thank you for the comments off people who are trying to help I appreciate it

mikelincs

I think the way forward for you is to find what, if any, visa your partner can get, and remember that to go on that visa you would HAVE to be married. once you have established that, then start to worry about getting permission, because without the visa there is no point in spending money in getting a court order, but you really do need, once the visa bit is sorted, to have a chat with your ex because there is NO guarantee that a court order will be given, particularly if he is actively involved in the kids lives.

Trow1982

Yes thank you. I'm due to see a family solicitor next week & still to do more research on visa's

SanDiegogirl

You should be asking the questions regarding work visa of your partner's company.

Since they have offered him a job they should know what visa they intend to apply for for him.

london_calling

You've been asked repeatedly on this thread which visa the company's lawyers intend to apply for, but you keep refusing to answer the question. I also offered to help advise you on the child law aspect, as I did specialise in this area once upon a time. You've ignored all of the above.

Give a little more info and we can help you.

Trow1982

It's his close friends private business so would his business partner still have to apply too?

Trow1982

I've not answered cause I haven't a clue I don't understand it all that why I'm asking for help and advise on it all.
We've not applied for a visa as of yet

Jerseygirl

Sorting the visa out should be your priority. If your partner cannot obtain a visa...then you will have caused a lot of problems, wasted a lot of time and money trying to sort the issues out with your ex. That advice has been given to you time and time again. I now feel this thread has run its course.

Please come back and let us know how you go on sorting a visa out. Good luck.

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