Kids?
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Yes. I walked to school, both primary and secondary. At one point I had to catch the school bus, a conscripted double decker, not the yellow 'special' bus they have over here. All my friends did too. Both modes of transport where essential parts of the day and allowed for all manner of hijinks and mischief. Yes, they were fun. The only occassion anybody was DRIVEN to school was when they were incapacitated, with a broken leg, for instance, and the unfortunate victim cringed with suitable embarrassment at being seen with their parents in public.
I also relished the Saturday morning trips to the newsagents where I would buy 20p worth of penny sweets. I hate even talking about it 'cause it always sounds like some "it-were-grim-up-north-when-I-were-a-lad" comedy sketch, but it's true, dammit! It's all true! That kind of childhood really used to exist!!! Even up into the eighties, it used to exist.
I also relished the Saturday morning trips to the newsagents where I would buy 20p worth of penny sweets. I hate even talking about it 'cause it always sounds like some "it-were-grim-up-north-when-I-were-a-lad" comedy sketch, but it's true, dammit! It's all true! That kind of childhood really used to exist!!! Even up into the eighties, it used to exist.
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When I was at primary school every child walked to school and back, mainly because their Dads had gone to work in the car and none of the Mums had their own car. My Mum used to give me some money and I used to call at the 'paper shop' and buy our playtime snack on the way. It didn't matter what the weather was like we had no choice but to walk and during the winter we had to wear flourescent armbands so the few cars that were about could see us. By the time I went to the local comp it was considered uncool to get a lift to school and everybody either walked or got the bus.
My son went to the same primary school as I did and no child lived more than half a mile away but about half of them used to arrive by car. Here we live 3 miles from the schools and both my children get the school bus and in the 3 years we have been here they have missed the bus once and I had to take them in the car. When I got to school there was a line of about 40 cars waiting to drop their kids off but it all seemed so much organised than in England.
My son went to the same primary school as I did and no child lived more than half a mile away but about half of them used to arrive by car. Here we live 3 miles from the schools and both my children get the school bus and in the 3 years we have been here they have missed the bus once and I had to take them in the car. When I got to school there was a line of about 40 cars waiting to drop their kids off but it all seemed so much organised than in England.
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Originally Posted by Dant3
I also relished the Saturday morning trips to the newsagents where I would buy 20p worth of penny sweets. I hate even talking about it 'cause it always sounds like some "it-were-grim-up-north-when-I-were-a-lad" comedy sketch, but it's true, dammit! It's all true! That kind of childhood really used to exist!!! Even up into the eighties, it used to exist.
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Originally Posted by AdobePinon
Know what you mean. I too remember the obligatory penny sweets. And I think it was 5p for one of those fruity ice stick things (can't recall what they were called).
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I walk my daughter to and from school everyday. It is our together time and as it is a 20 minute walk, we talk about all sorts of things. I was astonished to see one day when it was raining and hubby took us to school, a child who lived opposite the school come out of his house with his mother, they got in the car, she drove across the road and into the school, the child got out and she drove back across the street into her driveway..... that is what I call sheer laziness and one spoilt little brat!!!
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Originally Posted by Guelder Rose
I had to pay all the money for my first bike ... and I cherished that bike because I had to work for it, another lesson in life (i.e. the value of money) that so many of us had to learn, but so few are expected to learn today! Besides which, in this Country ... a bike !! :scared: ... most just get given a motor!
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Yeah, it's like every kid in college thinks he/she is going to make a $100,000 starting salary.
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Originally Posted by AdobePinon
Yeah, it's like every kid in college thinks he/she is going to make a $100,000 starting salary.
At lunch time, the seniors in the High School near me all scream out of the gates in their Mercedes and BMW. I've been here nearly 2 years and still can't afford a second hand ****ing Jetta.
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Originally Posted by Guelder Rose
I was driving the kids to school this morning and was telling them how when I was a kid in England I would walk to school. I said that I would call for my friends on the way and we would all walk together there and back ... I also mentioned how it was fun to spend that time chatting with my mates before/after school! The eldest (13) said in a very sarcastic tone, "So you thought that was fun?" I asked him what he meant, but he declined to answer.
I'm wondering whether children in this Country even know anything beyond being driven to school and back by Mom or Dad? Is it really that hard for them to comprehend that walking to and from school with your mates can actually be fun?
This might have nothing to do with this Country, maybe it's the same in the UK now too ... and I'm just out of touch?
I'm wondering whether children in this Country even know anything beyond being driven to school and back by Mom or Dad? Is it really that hard for them to comprehend that walking to and from school with your mates can actually be fun?
This might have nothing to do with this Country, maybe it's the same in the UK now too ... and I'm just out of touch?
I walked to and from school, with the exception of riding the bus when school was too far away. I think most kids here in the US would probably ride a school bus, especially if parents worked. However, things being as they are nowadays and bigger neighbourhoods, longer distances to schools, I guess some parents find it necessary to drive their little ones. I should add that when we lived in Harrogate the roads were always jam packed at school times "school run" is a phrase I learnt when I lived in the UK. When it was school holidays it was much easier to get around town.
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I keep telling my 12-year-old that hanging out with mom and dad was tremendously uncool when I was a kid.... we walked to the bus stop; I begged to be *allowed* to walk all the way home from school (my mom wouldn't let me cos she was scared).... we stayed out-of-doors with our friends until the yelling to come indoors got to be unbearable .... etc. (all this during the 70s in the US).
I think that kids are given so much independence early that there's no innate drive for it later, in the sense that they can very easily entertain themselves with video games/telly, microwave food of their choice, etc. Add in a car and what incentive is there for them to ever leave home? :scared:
I think that kids are given so much independence early that there's no innate drive for it later, in the sense that they can very easily entertain themselves with video games/telly, microwave food of their choice, etc. Add in a car and what incentive is there for them to ever leave home? :scared:
#26
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Looking back I loved the time's of walking to school, then up to the chip shop at lunch time's, the much longer walk home from school because it was "Boy time and gossip" then back againe in the evening's for Youth club, oh happy day's
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Originally Posted by AdobePinon
Know what you mean. I too remember the obligatory penny sweets. And I think it was 5p for one of those fruity ice stick things (can't recall what they were called).
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Originally Posted by britvic
Looking back I loved the time's of walking to school, then up to the chip shop at lunch time's, the much longer walk home from school because it was "Boy time and gossip" then back againe in the evening's for Youth club, oh happy day's
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I walked to school with my mates. How else were we suppose to steal peoples milk off the doorsteps. I use to walk home for lunch also and I remember shattering a bus stop window with a rock on the way back one day, when myself and some idiotic mates thought it would be fun to throw rocks at the bus stop to see who could get closest without breaking the windows. Duh!
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Originally Posted by Pimpbot
I walked to school with my mates. How else were we suppose to steal peoples milk off the doorsteps. I use to walk home for lunch also and I remember shattering a bus stop window with a rock on the way back one day, when myself and some idiotic mates thought it would be fun to throw rocks at the bus stop to see who could get closest without breaking the windows. Duh!