Joint Accounts
#91
Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by snowbunny
http://www.visalaw.com/96apr/4apr96.html
There is no minimum residency requirement. "Psychological abuse" is mentioned, though not well defined. Proof that returning to the person's native country would result in "extreme hardship" is required. I don't know that a return to the UK would result in "extreme hardship."
There is no minimum residency requirement. "Psychological abuse" is mentioned, though not well defined. Proof that returning to the person's native country would result in "extreme hardship" is required. I don't know that a return to the UK would result in "extreme hardship."
#92
Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by Ray
A VAWA will not get you citizenship ...
#93
Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by snowbunny
But it could get one permanent residency.
if she gets divorced ..she can apply for the removal of condition immediately after ...
#94
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by Ray
She already has a GC due any day .......
if she gets divorced ..she can apply for the removal of condition immediately after ...
if she gets divorced ..she can apply for the removal of condition immediately after ...
#95
Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by ImHere
And then would it be a 3 year or 5 year wait? Since its a 5 year wait for a non-marriage GC.
#96
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by Ray
It would be the 5 years
#97
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Well from what I've seen of Sibsie (virtually speaking of course), she's a strong character and I think she'll sort it. Bullying only works if the victim is prepared to be a victim, and I don't think Sibsie's that sort of person at all.
#98
Re: Joint Accounts
She needs to be back to the bossom of her family, safe and away from boiling rabbits bloke...
#99
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Re: Joint Accounts
Sibsie, just wanted to add my best wishes whatever happens. My husband and I have a joint account and always have, but it was a mutual decision. However, over the past few years I've inherited some money and my husband always insisted that it should be in my name only. I think you need to go with your gut feeling -- if it doesn't feel right, then it probably isn't. None of us (I don't think!) know your husband, so you alone are in the position to know if what he's asking is unreasonable. I wish you good luck and hope things work out for you the way you want.
#100
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by ImHere
Um she can't unless she's been permanent resident through marriage for 3 years or more.
of divorce here. with inheritance it may be another matter. my understanding is in case the guy dies that is.. in the absence of a will the wife gets it all, if they are a US citizen...but otherwise???
#101
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by fatbrit
Also, looking at the town on Google and the fact that hubby and the inlaws are presumably well entrenched in the local social scene, would seek an attorney away from the immediate area.
Also, make sure you clear the cache regularly on your computer. This is as good a program as any to do it: http://www.ccleaner.com/
Also, make sure you clear the cache regularly on your computer. This is as good a program as any to do it: http://www.ccleaner.com/
#102
Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by ImHere
I get the feeling from her posts that right now London is where she really wants to be, without some power crazed loon insisting the towels are folded just so.... Screw it Im mad now thinking about it...lets have an ex-pats trip to Rockport and square a few things with this dude.
The thought..... the word.... the deed....
It takes a while to even realize what's going on. Once you firmly recognize the problem you start doing a sort of mental and emotional inventory. What you need to hold on to and what to let go of, so to speak (and I'm not just talking about material possessions here). Sibsie has started talking about it now, that means she halfway there.
#103
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by Leslie66
It pisses me off too. But, she is a survivor and she's already making her plans. I can see her processes and I recognize them very well.
The thought..... the word.... the deed....
It takes a while to even realize what's going on. Once you firmly recognize the problem you start doing a sort of mental and emotional inventory. What you need to hold on to and what to let go of, so to speak (and I'm not just talking about material possessions here). Sibsie has started talking about it now, that means she halfway there.
The thought..... the word.... the deed....
It takes a while to even realize what's going on. Once you firmly recognize the problem you start doing a sort of mental and emotional inventory. What you need to hold on to and what to let go of, so to speak (and I'm not just talking about material possessions here). Sibsie has started talking about it now, that means she halfway there.
#104
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Re: Joint Accounts
Originally Posted by Leslie66
It pisses me off too. But, she is a survivor and she's already making her plans. I can see her processes and I recognize them very well.
The thought..... the word.... the deed....
It takes a while to even realize what's going on. Once you firmly recognize the problem you start doing a sort of mental and emotional inventory. What you need to hold on to and what to let go of, so to speak (and I'm not just talking about material possessions here). Sibsie has started talking about it now, that means she halfway there.
The thought..... the word.... the deed....
It takes a while to even realize what's going on. Once you firmly recognize the problem you start doing a sort of mental and emotional inventory. What you need to hold on to and what to let go of, so to speak (and I'm not just talking about material possessions here). Sibsie has started talking about it now, that means she halfway there.
Aye. I have been on more than one job in the past where we helped a woman (and in one instance a bloke) get away from a violent relationship. They had to make the moves, legally all we could do was give support and prevent any more domestic violence occuring, especially if there were kids involved. Some of the bravest people I've had the honour to help were those that had the guts and determination to get out of a nasty and potentially violent relationship. It takes one hell of a strong will I would imagine. I hope theres no violence here for sibsies sake, but it still aint easy to throw it all in on a relationship, no matter how bad it is. This is when she needs real friends.
#105
Re: Joint Accounts
So whats yours is his and whats his is his own. Yeah right.
Protect yourself sibs put your savings in your families name....
alan
Protect yourself sibs put your savings in your families name....
alan