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Union Jack Oct 24th 2008 5:29 am

Initial impressions of Florida
 
Hi,

Just a few comments from a brit who has just landed in Florida (a month)

That's right, I live up the road from Disney and laugh at holiday-ing brits as they succumb to the delights of International Drive.

But the honeymoon period is over and 2nd stage culture shock is creeping up, i'm craving certain English things like crazy. The job hunt is frustrating and driving is a pain. But I know things will be better in the long run :)

In short my wife is from here and gave it a good crack of the whip in England but missed the US a lot and could not settle. 3 years and a lot of money later we are here and i'm positive about things.

So how do you stay conected to English-ness?

As a creative i miss Englsih/European style. I know New York is up the road (ish) but Florida is a laid back holiday state, with bad taste. Any tips on getting UK clothes shipped cheap?

Also I really don't want to loose my accent, anyone got weird anglo-american ones going down?

TV and Football. i just give up on these. TV here is so bad I just have to leave the room.

Driving. Is anyone else shocked at how easy it is for young americans to get a license and then drive a huge dodge ram?

Food. I love it here, but my body took weeks to adjust with stomach aches, anyone else get that?

Ray Oct 24th 2008 5:43 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906741)
HiAlso I really don't want to loose my accent, anyone got weird anglo-american ones going down?

TV and Football. i just give up on these. TV here is so bad I just have to leave the room.

Driving. Is anyone else shocked at how easy it is for young americans to get a license and then drive a huge dodge ram?

Food. I love it here, but my body took weeks to adjust with stomach aches, anyone else get that?

Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

Janek66 Oct 24th 2008 6:05 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6906788)
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

Ray's right......however, to soften the blow a bit. You can get football, most of the good games and some bad ones on a combo of Setanta and Fox Sports....Direct TV.
Clothes....suck it up and buy the US rubbish and save your money till you go home on a visit.
Tea? The larger finer grocery stores sell PG Tipps and the most obvious sweets and snacks.
But the deal is you really have to sink your teeth in here if you are to stay here for any length of time. Join a gym, club anything to immerse yourself for a while.
I have been here 16 years and sometimes its good, sometimes I struggle and eventually I will go back to the UK.

Good luck with a job. Once you get that secured everything else will come.

Union Jack Oct 24th 2008 6:26 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Janek66 (Post 6906854)
Ray's right......however, to soften the blow a bit. You can get football, most of the good games and some bad ones on a combo of Setanta and Fox Sports....Direct TV.
Clothes....suck it up and buy the US rubbish and save your money till you go home on a visit.
Tea? The larger finer grocery stores sell PG Tipps and the most obvious sweets and snacks.
But the deal is you really have to sink your teeth in here if you are to stay here for any length of time. Join a gym, club anything to immerse yourself for a while.
I have been here 16 years and sometimes its good, sometimes I struggle and eventually I will go back to the UK.

Good luck with a job. Once you get that secured everything else will come.

Thank you, that helps a lot :) and your both right. I guess I saw my wife go through the same things first so I knew what was coming. But being in the middle of it is different to knowing!

I'm doing ok, just a few minor niggles. Job hunting is never fun and tends to bring out the frustrations even more.I had a decent job high up and now have to prove myself again. My wife is incredibly understanding and has been through it!

The hard part is that friends back home are starting to forget me a lil, which is to be expected. But I plan on throwing myself into the culture and usually make friends easily, i'm laid back so should be ok.

Clothes, yeah...I think i'll foot the shipping bill ;)

tamms_1965 Oct 24th 2008 6:29 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906924)
Clothes, yeah...I think i'll foot the shipping bill ;)


Shop at better stores.

Octang Frye Oct 24th 2008 7:10 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 
Ha ha. Been there. Done that. With me, I was going to educate the masses over here on Britpop etc. Now I think back on my clothes and arrogance, I shudder.

British fashion is naff, mate. You'll get over it.

As a creative, try to seek out urban hipsters.
Just get some retro glasses, a bike messenger bag, sit and spin pants, grow a goatee, purchase and learn to ride a fixie, and wear old canvas sneakers.

Dan725 Oct 24th 2008 7:22 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6906788)
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

Yep; that's about it....

Poppy girl Oct 24th 2008 7:24 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906741)
Hi,

Just a few comments from a brit who has just landed in Florida (a month)

That's right, I live up the road from Disney and laugh at holiday-ing brits as they succumb to the delights of International Drive.

But the honeymoon period is over and 2nd stage culture shock is creeping up, i'm craving certain English things like crazy. The job hunt is frustrating and driving is a pain. But I know things will be better in the long run :)

In short my wife is from here and gave it a good crack of the whip in England but missed the US a lot and could not settle. 3 years and a lot of money later we are here and i'm positive about things.

So how do you stay conected to English-ness? Your in Florida there's enough Brits thereAs a creative i miss Englsih/European style. I know New York is up the road (ish) but Florida is a laid back holiday state, with bad taste. Any tips on getting UK clothes shipped cheap? LOL Why would you want to look like a typical Brit on vacation, when you live here :)
Also I really don't want to loose my accent, anyone got weird anglo-american ones going down? You won't lose it you will be reminded of that every dayTV and Football. i just give up on these. TV here is so bad I just have to leave the room. Learn NFL

Driving. Is anyone else shocked at how easy it is for young americans to get a license and then drive a huge dodge ram?

Food. I love it here, but my body took weeks to adjust with stomach aches, anyone else get that?

Carry Imodium with you :

Seriously it takes time, you will adjust give it a chance :D

Union Jack Oct 24th 2008 7:43 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Octang Frye (Post 6907061)
Ha ha. Been there. Done that. With me, I was going to educate the masses over here on Britpop etc. Now I think back on my clothes and arrogance, I shudder.

British fashion is naff, mate. You'll get over it.

As a creative, try to seek out urban hipsters.
Just get some retro glasses, a bike messenger bag, sit and spin pants, grow a goatee, purchase and learn to ride a fixie, and wear old canvas sneakers.

ha ha..sage like advice, which i'm working on ;)

as for learning NFL? Not yet, I plan on educating them on the importance of the 4-4-2 in football. It's funny that only a few people here actually remember the world cup in 94!

I've also found a few TV chanels that run faulty towers, although my US mother-in-law is still to get it I think.

Octang Frye Oct 24th 2008 7:48 am

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Seriously... get a fixie.

Ridski Oct 24th 2008 7:52 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6906788)
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

Unfortunately this.

another bloody yank Oct 24th 2008 7:52 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6907158)
ha ha..sage like advice, which i'm working on ;)

as for learning NFL? Not yet, I plan on educating them on the importance of the 4-4-2 in football. It's funny that only a few people here actually remember the world cup in 94!

I've also found a few TV chanels that run faulty towers, although my US mother-in-law is still to get it I think.

You're about as green as they come!:lol:

Thydney Oct 24th 2008 8:09 am

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Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 6907192)
You're about as green as they come!:lol:

Learn NFL FFS! Get someone to tape it and send it over. Why do you want to dress like the scruffy feckers over here? Get a loud shirt shorts and flip flops I did

meauxna Oct 24th 2008 8:25 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Octang Frye (Post 6907061)
As a creative, try to seek out urban hipsters.
Just get some retro glasses, a bike messenger bag, sit and spin pants, grow a goatee, purchase and learn to ride a fixie, and wear old canvas sneakers.

Now *there's* your karma-worthy post of the day!
(I didn't realize you are already in Portland, you should've said so)

TruBrit Oct 24th 2008 8:29 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 6907192)
You're about as green as they come!:lol:

:lol:

and the best of luck to the OP....

Ridski Oct 24th 2008 8:50 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6907158)
ha ha..sage like advice, which i'm working on ;)

as for learning NFL? Not yet, I plan on educating them on the importance of the 4-4-2 in football. It's funny that only a few people here actually remember the world cup in 94!

I've also found a few TV chanels that run faulty towers, although my US mother-in-law is still to get it I think.

Yeah. I think they showed couple of games on Lifetime from that one. Didn't drum up much interest.

The 2002 and 2006 world cups were pretty popular over here, though, but teh time difference is weird.

Seriously, though, learn NFL. It's well worth it.

Janek66 Oct 24th 2008 9:44 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ridski (Post 6907420)
Yeah. I think they showed couple of games on Lifetime from that one. Didn't drum up much interest.

The 2002 and 2006 world cups were pretty popular over here, though, but teh time difference is weird.

Seriously, though, learn NFL. It's well worth it.

Huh American clothes are naff, badly made cheap looking!
Football....I get more football games than my dad in the UK. As for NFL....Love it. There is also college basketball, particularly in March during March Madness. Your friends won't forget you when they realise where they can come stay on the cheap!
The american music scene is a bit lame in my humble opinion. However, I got XM Radio and they play loads of English stuff. Sirius radio I believe has Radio 1 if you are still young enough to enjoy that.

Bill_S Oct 24th 2008 10:29 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6906788)
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

Exactly. The OP needs a Tommy Bahama shirt, Sansabelt trousers, flip-flops, and a yellow Cadillac. Instant Floridian.

Ray Oct 24th 2008 10:30 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Bill_S (Post 6907664)
Exactly. The OP needs a Tommy Bahama shirt, Sansabelt trousers, flip-flops, and a yellow Cadillac. Instant Floridian.

You forgot the Semi-auto ...

Bill_S Oct 24th 2008 10:45 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6907667)
You forgot the Semi-auto ...

:ohmy: You're right. Add a Glock 26 and a Galco holster.

Ray Oct 24th 2008 10:49 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Bill_S (Post 6907692)
:ohmy: You're right. Add a Glock 26 and a Galco holster.

Prefer a high noon holster in horsehide myself

Dogbyte Oct 24th 2008 12:59 pm

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Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6907701)
Prefer a high noon holster in horsehide myself

Have you become a ' Sky Marshall ' ,so soon ? LOL

frrussre Oct 24th 2008 2:22 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ray (Post 6906788)
Adapt, Improvise, Overcome.

As an addendum to Ray's good advice, "Don't fight it, the more you fight, the more you will hate it".
You have not told us how old you are or type of clothes you are looking for. Or maybe I missed it.

Good luck.
Reg. Frank R.

anotherlimey Oct 24th 2008 2:42 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Janek66 (Post 6907559)
Huh American clothes are naff, badly made cheap looking!
Football....I get more football games than my dad in the UK. As for NFL....Love it. There is also college basketball, particularly in March during March Madness. Your friends won't forget you when they realise where they can come stay on the cheap!
The american music scene is a bit lame in my humble opinion. However, I got XM Radio and they play loads of English stuff. Sirius radio I believe has Radio 1 if you are still young enough to enjoy that.

Morning: Football :beer: -> Afternoon: American Football :beer: :beer: -> Evening: Baseball :beer: :beer: :beer:

Giantaxe Oct 24th 2008 2:54 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Ridski (Post 6907420)
Yeah. I think they showed couple of games on Lifetime from that one. Didn't drum up much interest.

The 2002 and 2006 world cups were pretty popular over here, though, but teh time difference is weird.

The 1994 World Cup was the best attended ever even though the number of finalists subsequently was increased from 24 to 32.


Originally Posted by Ridski (Post 6907420)
Seriously, though, learn NFL. It's well worth it.

Absolutely. By far my favourite US sport.

DDL Oct 24th 2008 5:23 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906741)
TV here is so bad I just have to leave the room.


Do what we do - DVD's from Amazon! You can find a lot of British television shows on Amazon. My god, we've got the entire series of Upstairs Downstairs; Sherlock Holmes (Jeremy Brett); Little Britain; Men Behaving Badly; Only Fools and Horses...you'll also find loads of great DVD's at BBC America shop online. We have more than enough great stuff to watch.

You might also look into UK Nova.

Cheers and enjoy all that Florida sunshine!:shades_smile:

markyj Oct 24th 2008 6:53 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906924)
Thank you, that helps a lot :) and your both right. I guess I saw my wife go through the same things first so I knew what was coming. But being in the middle of it is different to knowing!

I'm doing ok, just a few minor niggles. Job hunting is never fun and tends to bring out the frustrations even more.I had a decent job high up and now have to prove myself again. My wife is incredibly understanding and has been through it!

The hard part is that friends back home are starting to forget me a lil, which is to be expected. But I plan on throwing myself into the culture and usually make friends easily, i'm laid back so should be ok.

Clothes, yeah...I think i'll foot the shipping bill ;)


It is definately kinda weird at first .... I struggled at the grocery store ... tv was different ... but rather than miss what I had ... I began to realise what I have ... ok I miss kebabs and fridays chippy night ... but I now have huge steaks ... nice weather ... even if the nice weather lasts too long ...

as for clothing fashion .... its t shirt and shorts in the south ... New York would just frustrate you ... expensive ... and still not find the fashion you had back home ...

I have been here 3.5 years ... and I am glad I am here

Thydney Oct 25th 2008 1:25 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by markyj (Post 6908383)
It is definately kinda weird at first .... I struggled at the grocery store ... tv was different ... but rather than miss what I had ... I began to realise what I have ... ok I miss kebabs and fridays chippy night ... but I now have huge steaks ... nice weather ... even if the nice weather lasts too long ...

as for clothing fashion .... its t shirt and shorts in the south ... New York would just frustrate you ... expensive ... and still not find the fashion you had back home ...

I have been here 3.5 years ... and I am glad I am here

Winn Dixie do OO'Pa Gyros or something like that it makes a very passable donna kebab

TruBrit Oct 25th 2008 2:55 am

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Originally Posted by anotherlimey (Post 6908135)
Morning: Football :beer: -> Afternoon: American Football :beer: :beer: -> Evening: Baseball :beer: :beer: :beer:

now it's the world series....which countries are playing in that i wonder :rofl:

Kaffy Mintcake Oct 25th 2008 7:52 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 6909313)
now it's the world series....which countries are playing in that i wonder :rofl:

Has a better ring to it than North American+Japan series.

tinaflorida Oct 26th 2008 3:12 am

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Originally Posted by anotherlimey (Post 6908135)
Morning: Football :beer: -> Afternoon: American Football :beer: :beer: -> Evening: Baseball :beer: :beer: :beer:

That's my day today!

9.30am: Chelsea v Liverpool, with bacon and egg sarnie and hot sweet tea.

1pm: Bucs game, while cooking beef and Guinness stew.

8pm (ish): Rays game, drinking the rest of the Guinness that didn't go in the stew.


I hated American football when I moved here but once I learned the rules, I grew to love it! Baseball has taken me a bit longer, but I'm getting there.

I was never into fashion anyway, I've always been a jeans and T-shirt kind of girl. That's evolved into capris, flip flops and Tshirts but still... lol

Good luck with the transition, I really love it here now but yes, I do get homesick, and there will always be things I miss about England. :)

tinaflorida Oct 26th 2008 3:15 am

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Oh, and sign up online for Netflix or Blockbuster. We have Blockbuster and have seen a TON of British shows on DVD!

Publix has a little section of British food, usually on the ethnic food aisle. I found Fry's Turkish Delight there yesterday! They also have Maltesers, Cadbury's Flake, Crunchies and Penguin bars.

SueW123 Oct 26th 2008 4:35 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by tinaflorida (Post 6911956)
Oh, and sign up online for Netflix or Blockbuster. We have Blockbuster and have seen a TON of British shows on DVD!

Publix has a little section of British food, usually on the ethnic food aisle. I found Fry's Turkish Delight there yesterday! They also have Maltesers, Cadbury's Flake, Crunchies and Penguin bars.

OH wow!! Malteasers.. They are my fav? Which Publix did you find them in? I haven't seen any british food in any of the publix around my area, I am in the Tampa area too. I have seen some bits in Sweetbay, bisto, teabags, beans etc but not seen any chocolate/ sweet stuff.

DDL Oct 26th 2008 6:21 am

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World Market carries a good assortment of British food stuffs as well. Candy, Heinz Baked Beans, Pickled Onion, Tea, etc. :thumbsup:

Also, do a Google search for British tea rooms/tea shops in your area. I think there are quite a few in Florida, you lucky devils. :)

Last resort, of course, would be online British shops. Expensive but sometimes - it's worth it. (Especially where Malteasers are involved. :lol:)

tinaflorida Oct 26th 2008 6:48 am

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I'm in Wesley Chapel, and I've seen an assortment of British choccies in the various WC and New Tampa area Publix. Maltesers have been a recent addition though, I've only seen them the last couple of times I've been in.

Also, there are a couple of pretty good Brit shops around Dale Mabry. One's in Northdale, called Brittans (I think) and they have a great selection of Brut stuff. The other one is on Himes near Hillsborough; I haven't been in there but it's close to my OH's office and he gets my beloved Cheese & Onion Walkers from there.

Dan725 Oct 26th 2008 12:20 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Union Jack (Post 6906741)
As a creative i miss Englsih/European style. I know New York is up the road (ish) but Florida is a laid back holiday state, with bad taste. Any tips on getting UK clothes shipped cheap?

Talking of English "Style" I've just been to Busch Gardens theme park today. There were tons and tons of Brits there; more noticeable than usual I'd say, must be the "winter sun" crowd.

What I really noticed a lot were the amount of English blokes wearing capri pants. In my opinion its the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen, and if that's what English "Style" has become - I'm glad I left the UK before that became fashionable.... ;):lol:

yorkshirelass Oct 26th 2008 12:58 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Dan725 (Post 6912915)
What I really noticed a lot were the amount of English blokes wearing capri pants. In my opinion its the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen, and if that's what English "Style" has become - I'm glad I left the UK before that became fashionable.... ;):lol:

I had to laugh at you saying that as my hubby says the exact same thing! :rofl:

Ash UK/US Oct 26th 2008 6:21 pm

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 
I remember coming on holiday to Orlando... they cater a lot to British tourists esp around I-drive. I remember there was a British pub at the Mercado, and many shops on I-drive/Disney World (Epcot) that sell English goods.

Just googled it... the pub is called The Cricketer Arms (8445 International Drive)

another bloody yank Oct 27th 2008 12:10 am

Re: Initial impressions of Florida
 

Originally Posted by Dan725 (Post 6912915)
Talking of English "Style" I've just been to Busch Gardens theme park today. There were tons and tons of Brits there; more noticeable than usual I'd say, must be the "winter sun" crowd.

What I really noticed a lot were the amount of English blokes wearing capri pants. In my opinion its the most ridiculous thing I've ever seen, and if that's what English "Style" has become - I'm glad I left the UK before that became fashionable.... ;):lol:

You've got to be kidding. :blink: I really don't think I could respect a man wearing Capri pants.

Janek66 Oct 27th 2008 12:14 am

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Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 6914143)
You've got to be kidding. :blink: I really don't think I could respect a man wearing Capri pants.

Oh I don't know. If he has good legs, a bit of a tan.....


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