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Texas Mom Mar 26th 2007 5:09 am

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by ScillyBrit (Post 4563208)
It depends on what is happening at home!!! If my folks are doing well, then everything is fine... if not, I worry and feel very isolated.
I am lucky enough to go home every other year for about 6 weeks... but on the chopper leaving the islands I am an absolute mess :cry_smile: ... but once I get home (Texas) all is good...

Howdy neighbor, welcome to BE.
I am exactly the same as you, if all's well with the family back home then all's well with me. Lately my grandpa has been in and out of hospital (cancer) so I have been up and down like a yo-yo, take the good days with the bad at the mo!

ScillyBrit Mar 26th 2007 6:25 am

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Thanks for the welcome... though I'm sorry to hear about your Grandpa...

Tracym Mar 26th 2007 6:27 am

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Originally Posted by Texas Mom (Post 4563510)
Howdy neighbor, welcome to BE.
I am exactly the same as you, if all's well with the family back home then all's well with me. Lately my grandpa has been in and out of hospital (cancer) so I have been up and down like a yo-yo, take the good days with the bad at the mo!

Awww sorry to hear about your Grandpa, that is SO hard.

Texas Mom Mar 26th 2007 8:18 am

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Originally Posted by Tracym (Post 4563818)
Awww sorry to hear about your Grandpa, that is SO hard.

It is hard not a day goes by that I don't phone to get the latest on how he's doing. Sometimes I can tell that they keep things from me so as I won't sit here and be a wreck. I'm doing ok about it all lately, focusing more on getting things organised for the new arrival. Sounds a bit brutal but the show has to go on and I've made my bed and I have to lie in it. Hubby is very supportive, I have my moments when I just sit and cry and he knows why.

Good news though, my mum and my niece get here on the 20th of July in time for the big event on the 27th. Dad is staying home to get some piece from mum, only kidding he's got a few large home improvement projects to undertake. I'm a bit gutted he won't be coming but that's life.

loopylorns Mar 26th 2007 9:18 am

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by Texas Mom (Post 4564337)
It is hard not a day goes by that I don't phone to get the latest on how he's doing. Sometimes I can tell that they keep things from me so as I won't sit here and be a wreck. I'm doing ok about it all lately, focusing more on getting things organised for the new arrival. Sounds a bit brutal but the show has to go on and I've made my bed and I have to lie in it. Hubby is very supportive, I have my moments when I just sit and cry and he knows why.

Good news though, my mum and my niece get here on the 20th of July in time for the big event on the 27th. Dad is staying home to get some piece from mum, only kidding he's got a few large home improvement projects to undertake. I'm a bit gutted he won't be coming but that's life.


So hard for you dealing with such upset and delight at the same time.

You will have a fab time with your mum and niece and of course your new arrival, try to focus on that event and keep your chin up.

Absence from loved ones is so very hard I saw my family 4 weeks ago but it feels like forever now.

Tracym Mar 26th 2007 9:20 am

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by Texas Mom (Post 4564337)
It is hard not a day goes by that I don't phone to get the latest on how he's doing. Sometimes I can tell that they keep things from me so as I won't sit here and be a wreck. I'm doing ok about it all lately, focusing more on getting things organised for the new arrival. Sounds a bit brutal but the show has to go on and I've made my bed and I have to lie in it. Hubby is very supportive, I have my moments when I just sit and cry and he knows why.

Good news though, my mum and my niece get here on the 20th of July in time for the big event on the 27th. Dad is staying home to get some piece from mum, only kidding he's got a few large home improvement projects to undertake. I'm a bit gutted he won't be coming but that's life.

Awww that is sad.

But of course the show must go on - this baby is a huge part of your future, and I'm sure your grandpa would agree, and rejoice with you.

Keep your chin up

Triumphrob Mar 26th 2007 9:48 am

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by Maz (Post 4563250)
I'm so sorry to hear this Rob. :( Find a way to get yourself back pronto!

Thanks. Im going over end of April for 2 weeks, job hunting and visits to Nat insuarance people a priority.
And then theres Pubs, REAL mates, and Pork Pies
Rob

Jerseygirl Mar 26th 2007 11:33 am

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by Triumphrob (Post 4564769)
Thanks. Im going over end of April for 2 weeks, job hunting and visits to Nat insuarance people a priority.
And then theres Pubs, REAL mates, and Pork Pies
Rob

I've been following your posts...all the best...I hope Blighty lives up to your expectations. I loved the 3 weeks I spent there in January. :thumbsup:

Triumphrob Mar 26th 2007 11:37 am

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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl (Post 4565125)
I've been following your posts...all the best...I hope Blighty lives up to your expectations. I loved the 3 weeks I spent there in January. :thumbsup:

Ive been going back so often in the last few years (twice last year) it probably wont be such a culture shock.
I even saw Paul Weller, AND Status Quo last time, bands that are not heard of here!

DollyLlama Mar 26th 2007 11:38 am

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Originally Posted by Triumphrob (Post 4565141)
Ive been going back so often in the last few years (twice last year) it probably wont be such a culture shock.
I even saw Paul Weller, AND Status Quo last time, bands that are not heard of here!

Good luck, hope it goes well for you :)

Partystar Mar 26th 2007 12:17 pm

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Originally Posted by Triumphrob (Post 4563072)
Im so homesick its not funny. I have really hated the last 5 years of US life. I dont care how wet/cold/poorer ill be, I have to find a way to get home.
Sorry, not having a good day!

I sent you some karma, I really hope you are feeling better soon. You're trip home should be nice, I too shall be back home then! Where are you from in the UK? I'm from the Cotswolds area, summer there is the best, I can't wait! Chin up matey!

Rushman Mar 26th 2007 12:19 pm

Re: How homesick are you?
 

Originally Posted by Triumphrob (Post 4564769)
Thanks. Im going over end of April for 2 weeks, job hunting and visits to Nat insuarance people a priority.
And then theres Pubs, REAL mates, and Pork Pies
Rob

LUCKY BASTARD

Jerseygirl Mar 26th 2007 12:22 pm

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Originally Posted by Rushman (Post 4565227)
LUCKY BASTARD

Sometimes you say the nicest things.;)

Triumphrob Mar 26th 2007 12:33 pm

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Originally Posted by Partystar (Post 4565225)
I sent you some karma, I really hope you are feeling better soon. You're trip home should be nice, I too shall be back home then! Where are you from in the UK? I'm from the Cotswolds area, summer there is the best, I can't wait! Chin up matey!

Thanks
I am from Farnham Surrey although my parents lived in Malvern..

Triumphrob Mar 26th 2007 12:34 pm

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Originally Posted by Rushman (Post 4565227)
LUCKY BASTARD

Especially if I stay!


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