Cities in America that make you feel at home?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Granite_Dells
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lynx_Lake_%28Arizona%29
Both are within a few miles of the center of Prescott.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prescott,_Arizona
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Re: Cities in America that make you feel at home?
Sure:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Granite_Dells
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lynx_Lake_%28Arizona%29
Both are within a few miles of the center of Prescott.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prescott,_Arizona
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Granite_Dells
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lynx_Lake_%28Arizona%29
Both are within a few miles of the center of Prescott.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prescott,_Arizona
Anyway, I'm from Georgia, so therefore very comfortable around lots of trees. Would be nice to see features like the Granite Dells, though. We hope to make it out west one day, especially to see places like the Grand Canyon.
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Interesting. I always imagine desert when I think of Arizona. In fact, I saw a film not too long ago set in Arizona (Phoenix, maybe, although I can't remember) and was actually surprised to see leafy suburbs!
Anyway, I'm from Georgia, so therefore very comfortable around lots of trees. Would be nice to see features like the Granite Dells, though. We hope to make it out west one day, especially to see places like the Grand Canyon.
Anyway, I'm from Georgia, so therefore very comfortable around lots of trees. Would be nice to see features like the Granite Dells, though. We hope to make it out west one day, especially to see places like the Grand Canyon.
The leafy suburbs in Phoenix come from irrigation. The natural landscape is more like this:
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Oh yes, there is no question about it.Smaller towns in certain regions of America is the place to find a community spirit.But in my experience certain states have that spirit in abundance compared to others. Washington,North Carolina,Wisconsin are a few states that come to mind as being very friendly places. And the smaller the city the more likely you will know your neighbors on a personal level. The less transient the city residents are the more likely people will be friendly and welcoming. That might rule out towns known to be vacation spots,military towns or large cities with a fast pace of life. I hate to say this(because my brother doesn't like this point)but the northeast has a faster pace of life and many people there are less trusting and not as friendly. If I was looking for a friendly community feel, I would skip the northeast all together.Especially NY state,NJ,Conn, and much of New England.Too many people there have either lived near Ny city or the fast pace of the Tri-state area bigger cities. The mentality of the people in that region has more of a fast pace feel. When ever I say that to my brother,he tell me that friendliness is not everything.
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Hmm I don't know. Small places can be very insular and set in their ways. I wouldn't want to take a chance on a redneck town miles from anywhere.
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I can say that we have been pleasantly surprised by DC and we're now in our third year. The factors that make it work for us include:
1. Neighbours - everyone gets along very well; our children play with others in the alley. We have impromtu BBQ's / lunches / drinks all year round. "Communal" parenting when someone has a problem.
2. Type of people - a great mix of Americans and internationals with a general well-rounded view of life and interesting, diverse, perspectives
3. Ability to walk to schools/shops/restaurants/Metro
4. World class museums (Smithsonian) 25 mins away
5. Ability to use DCA (National airport) to get to most places in the US.
6. Proper seasons
1. Neighbours - everyone gets along very well; our children play with others in the alley. We have impromtu BBQ's / lunches / drinks all year round. "Communal" parenting when someone has a problem.
2. Type of people - a great mix of Americans and internationals with a general well-rounded view of life and interesting, diverse, perspectives
3. Ability to walk to schools/shops/restaurants/Metro
4. World class museums (Smithsonian) 25 mins away
5. Ability to use DCA (National airport) to get to most places in the US.
6. Proper seasons
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What the hell is with all these people who actually want to talk to their neighbours? Give them an inch and the freeloading bastards will be after a mile, making you help them with shit.
I kept to myself in the UK and continue that tradition here. F*** people
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Re: Cities in America that make you feel at home?
Oh yes, there is no question about it.Smaller towns in certain regions of America is the place to find a community spirit.But in my experience certain states have that spirit in abundance compared to others. Washington,North Carolina,Wisconsin are a few states that come to mind as being very friendly places. And the smaller the city the more likely you will know your neighbors on a personal level. The less transient the city residents are the more likely people will be friendly and welcoming. That might rule out towns known to be vacation spots,military towns or large cities with a fast pace of life. I hate to say this(because my brother doesn't like this point)but the northeast has a faster pace of life and many people there are less trusting and not as friendly. If I was looking for a friendly community feel, I would skip the northeast all together.Especially NY state,NJ,Conn, and much of New England.Too many people there have either lived near Ny city or the fast pace of the Tri-state area bigger cities. The mentality of the people in that region has more of a fast pace feel. When ever I say that to my brother,he tell me that friendliness is not everything.
A warm community can make a HUGE difference to life quality. I have no doubt this applies to everyone, but especially to me and my daughter who are suddenly left with very few true people in our lives.
How long have you lived in the US? Where? Are you happy there? Don't have to answer, I'm nosy, I know!
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I can say that we have been pleasantly surprised by DC and we're now in our third year. The factors that make it work for us include:
1. Neighbours - everyone gets along very well; our children play with others in the alley. We have impromtu BBQ's / lunches / drinks all year round. "Communal" parenting when someone has a problem.
2. Type of people - a great mix of Americans and internationals with a general well-rounded view of life and interesting, diverse, perspectives
3. Ability to walk to schools/shops/restaurants/Metro
4. World class museums (Smithsonian) 25 mins away
5. Ability to use DCA (National airport) to get to most places in the US.
6. Proper seasons
1. Neighbours - everyone gets along very well; our children play with others in the alley. We have impromtu BBQ's / lunches / drinks all year round. "Communal" parenting when someone has a problem.
2. Type of people - a great mix of Americans and internationals with a general well-rounded view of life and interesting, diverse, perspectives
3. Ability to walk to schools/shops/restaurants/Metro
4. World class museums (Smithsonian) 25 mins away
5. Ability to use DCA (National airport) to get to most places in the US.
6. Proper seasons
Again, whilst people are very polite and lovely, it's a slightly cold environment - I want something different for my daughter. And, I think, for me too.
Would you say you were immediately welcomed as a Brit? Or have there been issues re feeling like an outsider or accent etc.?
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Any takers for a lady with an English accent, a young daughter and a cautious interest in the US??
Kidding of-course!
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Lol. Now THIS did make me laugh!
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I recommend a trip up into SW Wisconsin. Head to Spring Green/Dodgeville direction (home of my favourite semi-local attraction The House On The Rock; as well as the Cave of the Mounds). Your son, if he's anything like mine will love those but, more importantly - there is some actual change in elevation. Far more interesting than flat, boring Illinois.
What the hell is with all these people who actually want to talk to their neighbours? Give them an inch and the freeloading bastards will be after a mile, making you help them with shit.
I kept to myself in the UK and continue that tradition here. F*** people
What the hell is with all these people who actually want to talk to their neighbours? Give them an inch and the freeloading bastards will be after a mile, making you help them with shit.
I kept to myself in the UK and continue that tradition here. F*** people
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I'm much happier in solitude than I am in multitude ...
It's worth it. About a 3 hour drive for me, add an hour for you I guess - but once you get well up towards Madison, the scenery gets more interesting than you'd ever see in IL.
The House on the Rock is cool though; we plan to go back in June when my parents are out as they liked it last time as well. I have some photos at home I can send/post of that and the caves.
The House on the Rock is cool though; we plan to go back in June when my parents are out as they liked it last time as well. I have some photos at home I can send/post of that and the caves.