Cities in America that make you feel at home?
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Moving to a new country can be an exciting life experience but it also comes with a variety of changes to what we're us to. One of those challenges is finding a town/city in America which make you feel like you're at home. Where the people are friendly and there are things of interest to do. Where in America do you want to call home that has most of the attributes you want?
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Where I live in eastern Kentucky, it's a lot like East Anglia (well, except for the weather)... but if I was moving from London I wouldn't be at all satisfied.
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Hmm... tough to answer. Most people arrive in the US via a family-based or employment-based visa... so they live where the family or employment is based. That means there's no real choice in the location. Only those who enter the US on an investment-based visa can truly choose where to live.
Where I live in eastern Kentucky, it's a lot like East Anglia (well, except for the weather)... but if I was moving from London I wouldn't be at all satisfied.
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Where I live in eastern Kentucky, it's a lot like East Anglia (well, except for the weather)... but if I was moving from London I wouldn't be at all satisfied.
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Does a city make you feel at home or do you make a city feel like home.
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In my experience, yes. The entire region has some of the friendliest people I've ever met. People are very polite and respectful here. I'm not sure if it's necessarily genuine, but it does seem to be deeply ingrained in the local culture. There is a culture of helping and of assisting that is quite refreshing compared to some of the larger regions in the US. Neighbors here are genuine neighbors... not just "hello" or "good day" when passing each other.
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I have lived in 14 different cities in 10 different states, and I never found people unfriendly. In one place though, Lakewood CO, people did keep themselves very much to themselves. Not that it bothered me all that much, as I was gone a lot of the time.
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Very interested in answers to this question.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
I love the thought of a close community and an atmosphere of friendliness, giving a sense of security.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
I love the thought of a close community and an atmosphere of friendliness, giving a sense of security.
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The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
I love the thought of a close community and an atmosphere of friendliness, giving a sense of security.
This has been my experience in the 3 houses we've lived in in the UK - in fact, one of my ex-neighbours from our last house is now a very close friend and I'm godmother to her daughter!
I'm curious, do you live in a city? As I've always lived in villages where perhaps there is more community spirit?
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Very interested in answers to this question.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
I love the thought of a close community and an atmosphere of friendliness, giving a sense of security.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
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Very interested in answers to this question.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
I love the thought of a close community and an atmosphere of friendliness, giving a sense of security.
I know there are areas of the US that are very friendly and welcoming and have a culture of community and good neighbours. Just not sure where!
The UK is very different to this, at least in my experience. Although people are kind and lovely, they keep themselves to themselves and are almost fearful of making any form of contact. I find this very sad (we only have one life) and rather dull.
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My experience is the opposite. Lovely friendly neighbours (turned up with cakes and casseroles the day we moved in and other clichés!), and a great community spirit. Whether its street parties for a royal wedding/jubilee/Olympics or other occasions, there's certainly nobody that is 'fearful of making any kind of contact'!
This has been my experience in the 3 houses we've lived in in the UK - in fact, one of my ex-neighbours from our last house is now a very close friend and I'm godmother to her daughter!
I'm curious, do you live in a city? As I've always lived in villages where perhaps there is more community spirit?
This has been my experience in the 3 houses we've lived in in the UK - in fact, one of my ex-neighbours from our last house is now a very close friend and I'm godmother to her daughter!
I'm curious, do you live in a city? As I've always lived in villages where perhaps there is more community spirit?
Britain and the Brits are known to be "cold" socially, although as said previously, are very kind and sweet.
I have lived in cities and a couple of villages, in the South East most of my life, but also in Scotland for a short period.
Do you mind me asking which three places you have lived in?
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It's really lovely to hear postitive experiences of friendly communities in the UK. That hasn't been my experience at all, nor my friends.
Britain and the Brits are known to be "cold" socially, although as said previously, are very kind and sweet.
I have lived in cities and a couple of villages, in the South East most of my life, but also in Scotland for a short period.
Do you mind me asking which three places you have lived in?
Britain and the Brits are known to be "cold" socially, although as said previously, are very kind and sweet.
I have lived in cities and a couple of villages, in the South East most of my life, but also in Scotland for a short period.
Do you mind me asking which three places you have lived in?
I've lived all over the UK, from Birmingham to Oxford, but I was specifically thinking of the three places I've lived as a 'grown up' with my husband. Which were Middlesex, Bucks and now Berkshire. The last village we lived in, in Bucks, we were in a cul de sac of maybe 25 houses, and everybody knew everybody else. We all exchanged Christmas cards, went to each others drinks parties, and 5 of the ladies that lived there were great friends of mine - we were always in and out of each others houses for coffee etc.
Now I live far more rurally in Berkshire and only have 2 near neighbours but again, we're very friendly and go for Sunday lunches at each others houses etc.
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