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Old Dec 4th 2012, 4:17 am
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Originally Posted by thinbrit
My neighbor in the example I gave. She is fit to work, but chooses to work small cash jobs. As a result, she is 'poor'. She is happy to live a 'poor' lifestyle, so long as it is supported by welfare and not having to work a real job.
By your logic .... you, by paying her cash for something you would probably pay a lot more for a service to do, are exploiting the welfare system as well.

I actually find this hypocrisy to be jaw dropping.

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My neighbor in the example I gave. She is fit to work, but chooses to work small cash jobs. As a result, she is 'poor'. She is happy to live a 'poor' lifestyle, so long as it is supported by welfare and not having to work a real job.
Perhaps the only real jobs she can get don't pay enough to live? Not every welfare recipient is abusing the system. As for your neighbour, you seem to have no problem with paying her to clean your home, even though she is also claiming benefit.
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By your logic .... you, by paying her cash for something you would probably pay a lot more for a service to do, are exploiting the welfare system as well.

I actually find this hypocrisy to be jaw dropping.
Ugh you beat me to it by seconds.

Yes, very hypocritical, just like Walmart "encouraging" their employees to claim food stamps, etc so they can justify paying them crappy wages.
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By your logic .... you, by paying her cash for something you would probably pay a lot more for a service to do, are exploiting the welfare system as well.

I actually find this hypocrisy to be jaw dropping.
I find your assumptions to be equally jaw dropping. I pay the going rate. She is the best cleaner we have had, I have no intention of finding anyone else. It is not for me to police her. I'm not the IRS.
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By your logic .... you, by paying her cash for something you would probably pay a lot more for a service to do, are exploiting the welfare system as well.
Of course, it would be the same, or worse, even if the cash job brought in as much as or more than the same as a service would charge.

As a database analyst, I know full well that any system can be manipulated and exploited, and no two people are likely to interact with it in the same way. A welfare system is no exception. An immigration system is also no exception. Creative people will always find loopholes. The task of the system engineer is to make those loopholes rare, difficult to find, and unrewarding to exploit. Even then, systems are only as good as the people who design and use them. Fallibility of a system is no reason, by itself, to condemn the whole system as useless. In the case of welfare, the common good trumps the uncommon evil.
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Perhaps the only real jobs she can get don't pay enough to live?
She told me she gave up her previous job because she didn't like the commute. It paid enough.
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Not every welfare recipient is abusing the system.
I didn't claim they were. Don't put words in my mouth.
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As for your neighbour, you seem to have no problem with paying her to clean your home, even though she is also claiming benefit.
She does an awesome job of the tiled floors, very thorough.
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Originally Posted by thinbrit
She told me she gave up her previous job because she didn't like the commute. It paid enough.

I didn't claim they were. Don't put words in my mouth.

She does an awesome job of the tiled floors, very thorough.
But yet you turn a blind eye to the welfare fraud that you seem to be so vehemently against. No different from firms who knowingly employ illegal immigrants under the table. If you were true to your principles, you would not employ her cash in hand to clean your floors, but I am guessing that she is still cheaper than an actual cleaning firm would charge you.

Just pointing out the hypocrisy, which still stands.
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But yet you turn a blind eye to the welfare fraud that you seem to be so vehemently against. No different from firms who knowingly employ illegal immigrants under the table. If you were true to your principles, you would not employ her cash in hand to clean your floors, but I am guessing that she is still cheaper than an actual cleaning firm would charge you.

Just pointing out the hypocrisy, which still stands.
She is not cheaper, we shopped around first to make sure we were paying the going market rate. This is not about getting a cheaper deal, which I agree would have fit your argument more to your pleasing. As I've already stated, I can't police what she does. I have no evidence other than her self confession, which I believe would be heresay, unless she would substantiate my accusation. I'll mention it on Thursday when she cleans.
The floors sparkle when she has been. She also folds the toilet paper, nice touch
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Originally Posted by HarryTheSpider
My understanding is that higher education (HE) here in the US, if you go 'in state' is in the $5-10k bracket for most states. In the UK, most universities are charging £9k, the max allowed, or around $15k. I am given to believe the quality of HE in the UK is, on average, higher, more useful, than in the US.

Our history is different - the US is perceived as having been built by people who pulled themselves up by their boot straps, penniless immigrants with a dream and a lot of grit, etc etc. the fact that they had to work together seems loston most. In the UK, once we got over our Civil War, and set about building an empire, it was farmers, then the industrial revolution etc - we didn't have to tame a huge land, and we had the organising and civilising input of the Romans, as did the rest of Europe... While the US was still figuring out how to be racist in a more industrially efficient way, and began to see the rise of the 'Robber Barons' we had schools emerging as we currently know them, public libraries, the beginnings of what we would know as the Factories Act (working conditions), the Enlightenment, then the Victorian era. The US has largely missed out on this, jumping from frontier land to world superpower in around a century.

I also note how the effects of directly experiencing WW2 permeates society - the US was effectively untouched by WW2 - no direct bombing of consequence, no blackout, limited rationing, etc etc. the peoples of Europe have a shared experience of being caught in the middle of a vicious war. I am half German, and have roots in Plymouth (the original one ) and Kiel (N Germany) - both centres 85% destroyed by bombing. When I tell people this they just can't comprehend beyond the facts, and why should they... My point is that the peoples of Europe have directly experienced things that make us less trusting of powerful individuals (we had robber barons too, but I refer more to Lenin, Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini etc), and more likely to choose a solution based on interdependence rather than independence, hence more of a social democrat leaning.

I think we're still seeing growing pains in the US. It is a young country and frequently acts like it. As allegedly said by the Chinese Ambassador to France at the 200 year celebrations of the French Revolution, when asked what he thought about the revolution, replied that it was to early to tell... I think the same can be said for the US...

I said elsewhere that the US is an experiment, unique in the world. It is a work in progress. The first 250 years have been interesting, sometimes turbulent. The next 250 will also be...but I have hope...I just might not see too much change in my life time... Mind you, in 1988 I said the Soviet Union could not last more than another 70 yrs... 3 yrs later it was history, so what do I know?
All valid and intersting points Harry. Western Europe suffered a major war in its own backyard. The US was heavily involved of course and many American servicemen were killed and wounded too, but to have rationing, aerial bombing and in the case of our continental neighbours, full on occupation. Then you had the aftermath of WW2, in which Europe was crippled economically for many years afterwards, while America prospered in the 50's and 60's (that's when the suburbs really grew and the American dream must have been at least more of a reality than it is today).

As for bettering yourself, I somewhat disagree with you, but I can only go on my UK experience from 2003 and prior. Take my profession for example: accounting. If I wanted to become an accountant in the UK, I could pursue AAT, ACCA or CIMA without having to go to an actual university. Many companies even pay for this. There are few non-core subjects, except for perhaps a basic level of IT in the syllabus and health & safety at work...and all at a fraction of the cost of an average 4 year degree at a university. I don't know if this is still the same case now, or if things have changed since I left.

Off back to work...
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It seems to be universal that people extrapolate their disdain for the lumpen within their society to all the poor around them. Look at how chav is used dismissively by many in the UK. To some chav is synoptic with lumpen, but many will use it to talk dismissively of any one working class.

It is impossible to look at class and race in America in isolation of each other, the issue at hand seems to keep changing, to avoid actually having to address anything. People will talk about 'race' when it is class, and the 'poor' when it is race. But in America, largely due to its history, they are so often one and the same.
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Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
As for bettering yourself, I somewhat disagree with you, but I can only go on my UK experience from 2003 and prior. Take my profession for example: accounting. If I wanted to become an accountant in the UK, I could pursue AAT, ACCA or CIMA without having to go to an actual university. Many companies even pay for this. There are few non-core subjects, except for perhaps a basic level of IT in the syllabus and health & safety at work...and all at a fraction of the cost of an average 4 year degree at a university. I don't know if this is still the same case now, or if things have changed since I left.

Off back to work...
Ahhh..that explains your (confessed) not so great job! My father is a bookkeeper/accountant. All he has is an 18month certificate that he received about 25yr ago, and he has complained bitterly about the lack of pay and benefits that companies give to accountants. He said many of them barely want to pay a living wage, and they definitely don't want to pay him for his years of experience. He's deeply concerned he will soon be out of a job because complications from his diabetes has him off work for another 2weeks at least, and he has no remaining vacation or sick days.

Sorry for taking the thread off topic..
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On a slightly different tack, I was brought up thinking that a "servant" was a fellow human being, just as good as anyone else, who happened to be paid to do various household and service duties. My parents made me be civil to and thank wait staff and reward them with the appropriate tip for adequate or better service, to pick up after myself so as to not make the maid's job harder, to appreciate the tasks these people do for me that I can't or prefer not to do for myself.

However, in a US-based forum a couple years ago, I referred to wait staff in a restaurant as "temporary servants" and promptly got my rear end handed to me in a paper bag. No, they are not "servants", I was told with outright rage, as if I was saying the word somehow meant I thought people with those positions were inherently inferior. It was as though they thought that I didn't know that I was just as much a "servant" when I had a job cooking and waiting tables. I was singularly incompetent at the waiting tables part, moreover, and I have tremendous respect for people who are efficient and cheerful at it while doing a good job.

Honestly, this is the USA and we are all equal here, and everyone is just as good as anyone else, and we are supposed to live in a classless society. Right? Right?
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..... "servant" .....
Does not have the best etymology.
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Does not have the best etymology.
You mean "connotation", don't you? After all the word only means "server", not "slave". Am I missing something? (Yes, probably. lol)
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So is the distain towards poor people, or those abusing the welfare system. Anecdotal, but in my instance it is the latter.
I think they're lumped together. Everyone likely can think of anecdotes of people who abuse the welfare system. Ergo, many people make the leap that anyone that is poor is by definition a scrounger etc. It's a sad assumption given that most poor people don't want to live on welfare. You see the same kind of logic play out with healthcare where it's the fault of the sick and uninsured that they are in that position. Sure, some people in that position likely have had a lifestyle that has impacted their health, but not all.

Bottom line is that I will accept that some people will abuse the system, because the help it brings to others way outweighs that.
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