What a Dilema
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What a dilema...
A couple of years ago a relative of my wifes borrowed money from another relative. One lived in Spain and the other in the UK.
The one in the UK needed to borrow 2k pounds, the money was sent from Spain directly into her bank account. (nearly 3 thousand euros)
Now the borrower wants to pay the money back and has given 2k back, as it was the original amount borrowed.
It has been changed back into euros, and of course the amount is short.
This has caused no end of problems within the extended family, we are trying to stay out of the row.
It is a dilema though, I know what I think (that the lender should not lose out money wise through doing a favour) but I am just interested to know if anyone has heard of a similar case, due to the low exchange rate and what the outcome was.
Our lot are just going round in circles.
A couple of years ago a relative of my wifes borrowed money from another relative. One lived in Spain and the other in the UK.
The one in the UK needed to borrow 2k pounds, the money was sent from Spain directly into her bank account. (nearly 3 thousand euros)
Now the borrower wants to pay the money back and has given 2k back, as it was the original amount borrowed.
It has been changed back into euros, and of course the amount is short.
This has caused no end of problems within the extended family, we are trying to stay out of the row.
It is a dilema though, I know what I think (that the lender should not lose out money wise through doing a favour) but I am just interested to know if anyone has heard of a similar case, due to the low exchange rate and what the outcome was.
Our lot are just going round in circles.
Last edited by JLFS; Oct 16th 2009 at 12:56 am.
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What a dilema...
A couple of years ago a relative of my wifes borrowed money from another relative. One lived in Spain and the other in the UK.
The one in the UK needed to borrow 2k pounds, the money was sent from Spain directly into her bank account. (nearly 3 thousand euros)
Now the borrower wants to pay the money back and has given 2k back, as it was the original amount borrowed.
It has been changed back into euros, and of course the amount is short.
This has caused no end of problems within the extended family, we are trying to stay out of the row.
It is a dilema though, I know what I think (that the lender should not lose out money wise through doing a favour) but I am just interested to know if anyone has heard of a similar case, due to the low exchange rate and what the outcome was.
Our lot are just going round in circles.
A couple of years ago a relative of my wifes borrowed money from another relative. One lived in Spain and the other in the UK.
The one in the UK needed to borrow 2k pounds, the money was sent from Spain directly into her bank account. (nearly 3 thousand euros)
Now the borrower wants to pay the money back and has given 2k back, as it was the original amount borrowed.
It has been changed back into euros, and of course the amount is short.
This has caused no end of problems within the extended family, we are trying to stay out of the row.
It is a dilema though, I know what I think (that the lender should not lose out money wise through doing a favour) but I am just interested to know if anyone has heard of a similar case, due to the low exchange rate and what the outcome was.
Our lot are just going round in circles.
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I bet they would of settled for paying 3000€`s if the exchange rate had swung the other way.
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Thats an odd one.
My position would be if the person wanted to borrow £2,000 and received £2,000, then they repay £2,000.
It wasn`t there fault the Euro was high and since dropped.
It should have been disscussed before.
One option though would have been to pay the money back but into a savings account and wait for the exchange rate to return.
My position would be if the person wanted to borrow £2,000 and received £2,000, then they repay £2,000.
It wasn`t there fault the Euro was high and since dropped.
It should have been disscussed before.
One option though would have been to pay the money back but into a savings account and wait for the exchange rate to return.
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Thats an odd one.
My position would be if the person wanted to borrow £2,000 and received £2,000, then they repay £2,000.
It wasn`t there fault the Euro was high and since dropped.
It should have been disscussed before.
One option though would have been to pay the money back but into a savings account and wait for the exchange rate to return.
My position would be if the person wanted to borrow £2,000 and received £2,000, then they repay £2,000.
It wasn`t there fault the Euro was high and since dropped.
It should have been disscussed before.
One option though would have been to pay the money back but into a savings account and wait for the exchange rate to return.

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And I've thought about it again, and I'd be pissed off whatever side of the fence I was on!
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£2000 was borrowed, £2000 paid back...
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We are lucky that we are not in the thick of it, as the whole family is at war over this, and both sides have a point.

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This is where the problem is.....the borrower "apparently· asked for "enough euros to make 2k, which was over 2800euros, so as far as the borrower is concened that is what should be paid back.




