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Old Oct 6th 2010, 7:43 pm
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I have been housebound for 2 weeks with a broken foot & today was my first day I have been allowed out on crutches.

Well after a completely non scientific survey of a half day out struggling round the bank, farmacy, supermarket, cafe I have to say people here in Spain are ever so helpful. Not just the people who know me but strangers in the street offering help, can you believe it.

It is so nice when struggling down the street to be smiled at, everyone says something, doors opened, shopping trolley pushed. I have to stop for a rest every 100 meters to sit down (I am useless on the crutches) & people stop & ask if you are ok.

So against the run of nearly of all the threads on here re doom & gloom I have to say I find everyone really helpful - not all Spanish but all nationalities I met today on my hobbles.

Thanks to everyone who helped - it's massively appreciated. I have to think if I were the in the same position in the UK whether I would get the same reception.
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Old Oct 6th 2010, 7:51 pm
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speak for yourself,pooley mate. i was in the bank today and had to wait ages for a fella with a pair of crutches to get served. went to the pharmacy next and blow me,he was in front and monopolizing the staff again...so i tried my luck in the cafe,,,you guessed it, bloody crutch boy was there before me,legs akimbo,staff fawning all over him. makes me sick. I bet he was faking it.
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Old Oct 6th 2010, 7:59 pm
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Gotta have a swift look on Ebay,see if I can grab a cheap pair of S/H crutches before they're all gone.
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huh, he's started "a run" on crutches...
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Old Oct 6th 2010, 8:04 pm
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cheeky sods - you can have mine in 1 month!!!!

they are 15e at a pharmacia in case you want free priority boarding on Ryanair.

seriously guys, everyone has been brilliant. You don't give much thought when you are fully able for the people not so lucky. Completely changed my view now.
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Get well soon Poolboy.
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Old Oct 7th 2010, 10:33 am
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Originally Posted by poolboy
cheeky sods - you can have mine in 1 month!!!!

they are 15e at a pharmacia in case you want free priority boarding on Ryanair.

seriously guys, everyone has been brilliant. You don't give much thought when you are fully able for the people not so lucky. Completely changed my view now.
Took a Ryanair flight from Malaga a few weeks ago and there was a woman on crutches totally outraged that she wasn't being given priority boarding. "I can't stand up for long in queues" she said. Staff just said to sit down and she could board after everyone else.
Thing is, she could have paid for priority boarding, then when the usually small priority queue has almost gone, she could have stood up and gone to the gate. But no, she obviously expected to be given priority just for being on crutches.

Whilst I have every sympathy for anyone with a disability, people shouldn't play on it and just expect priority treatment.
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Originally Posted by michaleen oge
speak for yourself,pooley mate. i was in the bank today and had to wait ages for a fella with a pair of crutches to get served. went to the pharmacy next and blow me,he was in front and monopolizing the staff again...so i tried my luck in the cafe,,,you guessed it, bloody crutch boy was there before me,legs akimbo,staff fawning all over him. makes me sick. I bet he was faking it.
I can only walk with crutches, have had to do so for seven years. I find that most people are kind and helpful although they never give up their place in the queue nor would I expect them to. The worst hazard is the highly polished floors in Spanish banks/shops etc., you have to walk slowly, especially after a downpour, otherwise you will end up flat on your face. I tell you what - I'll gladly come over to you and break both your bloody legs and then, when you are able to hobble about on crutches, you will see what it is like.
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Originally Posted by St. John
I tell you what - I'll gladly come over to you and break both your bloody legs and then, when you are able to hobble about on crutches, you will see what it is like.
Do crutches mean you lose your sense of humour too? Try reading the post again
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Old Oct 7th 2010, 11:31 am
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Originally Posted by ShinyAndy
Do crutches mean you lose your sense of humour too? Try reading the post again
I did not consider the post I commented on to have any humour.
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Originally Posted by St. John
I can only walk with crutches, have had to do so for seven years. I find that most people are kind and helpful although they never give up their place in the queue nor would I expect them to. The worst hazard is the highly polished floors in Spanish banks/shops etc., you have to walk slowly, especially after a downpour, otherwise you will end up flat on your face. I tell you what - I'll gladly come over to you and break both your bloody legs and then, when you are able to hobble about on crutches, you will see what it is like.
Blimey! You've got a right chip on your shoulder haven't you?
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Blimey! You've got a right chip on your shoulder haven't you?
Not at all.
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Old Oct 7th 2010, 1:03 pm
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Originally Posted by billgates
Took a Ryanair flight from Malaga a few weeks ago and there was a woman on crutches totally outraged that she wasn't being given priority boarding. "I can't stand up for long in queues" she said. Staff just said to sit down and she could board after everyone else.
Thing is, she could have paid for priority boarding, then when the usually small priority queue has almost gone, she could have stood up and gone to the gate. But no, she obviously expected to be given priority just for being on crutches.

Whilst I have every sympathy for anyone with a disability, people shouldn't play on it and just expect priority treatment.
On the other hand ... I was at Valencia a few weeks ago and was near to the back of the queue for a flight which was obviously fully booked. A man and his 5 year old daughter started queuing behind me, as Easyjet hadn't 'pre-boarded' people travelling with young children - he didn't have the nerve to go up to the front of the queue and ask so that he could be sure he and his daughter would be able to sit together
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On the other hand ... I was at Valencia a few weeks ago and was near to the back of the queue for a flight which was obviously fully booked. A man and his 5 year old daughter started queuing behind me, as Easyjet hadn't 'pre-boarded' people travelling with young children - he didn't have the nerve to go up to the front of the queue and ask so that he could be sure he and his daughter would be able to sit together
I've seen that situation often enough. Usually though, most people will be happy to move to a different seat to allow young children to sit with a parent. The cabin crew will also sometimes ask if anyone would mind moving to provide two or three seats together for a young family.

Likewise for someone on crutches who really could use a seat with a bit of extra legroom - I, and many others, would happily swap.
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Old Oct 7th 2010, 2:18 pm
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Originally Posted by St. John
I did not consider the post I commented on to have any humour.
I often have to use crutches

occasionally a wheelchair


I thought it was hilarious
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