Foreign cultures
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Yeah,
I do think some people are just too quick to 'take umbridge' on this forum. It's an Expat Forum. Anything that interests Expats in or interested in Spain is fair game for discussion. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and it's not offensive to ask if British culture is still alive and Kicking or, perhaps whether people prefer the Spanish way of adhering more firmly to their traditions. I notice Anonimouse likes to start threads like this, which may or may not interest other people. As he/ she says. If you aren't interested... Just ignore the thread. It really is that easy!
I do think some people are just too quick to 'take umbridge' on this forum. It's an Expat Forum. Anything that interests Expats in or interested in Spain is fair game for discussion. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and it's not offensive to ask if British culture is still alive and Kicking or, perhaps whether people prefer the Spanish way of adhering more firmly to their traditions. I notice Anonimouse likes to start threads like this, which may or may not interest other people. As he/ she says. If you aren't interested... Just ignore the thread. It really is that easy!
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This site is is an Expat site, have a look here but is divided into countries so that people, say on the Spanish forum don`t have to read crap from Oz, USA, or UK.
Anything off Spain topic should go in Siesta time or the Lounge or even better TIO.
Anything off Spain topic should go in Siesta time or the Lounge or even better TIO.
I put it under Spain so that anyone but an idiot (read into that what you will) might think it was aimed at the Ex pats in Spain.
It wouldn't allow me to change the title as I have already explained to you once.
Me thinks you and a couple of others on here just like taking a pop and trying to be clever, carry on by all means, it's quite entertaining and hurts me not, it simply shows your selves up for what you are

Sorry forgot this one too..
You mean you read only half a post then take a pop?
Don't worry I have found already in my short time posting here, that you're not alone in reading only what you want to and taking pops.
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If you start threads with such sweeping statements as ".. Britain has lost its identity" then I'm afraid you are gonna get opinions you don't really like... sorry.
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Who said I don't like the opinions here?
Don't be sorry, Show me an example please.Maybe you mean my opinion of the opinion made about me rather than my post? That I wasn't keen on no, and it was out of order.
I'm interested to see everyone's opinion but not so keen on them taking petty pops just to try and be clever though.
In fact I actually said in my OP.. " I THINK".. Britain has lost its identity" , there is a huge difference to your half statement above.
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You may well be right, but in my opinion they should be careful what they wish for.....land, family life, fresh own grown food and living to work rather than working to live without the so called luxuries that do not on the face of it bring happiness, has got to be better than what many of us think is wealth, when in fact it is not.
Obviously there should be no budding Richard Bransons and such in Spain, they should all be contented to drink milk from the family cow and have no further aspirations than to eat a fresh duck egg every day.
What a nice slap in the face for all the Spanish students who are working their way through UNI and such. It seems you are a follower of chairman Maos thinking, or you are now, now that you have made enough money to be able to relocate and live in a foreign country,
And while we are it it, what luxuries are you talking about? Could it be a car, hot running water, washing machine, mobile?
Are these the things you are SERIOUSLY advocating that the Spanish youth give up, before they all go to hell in a hand cart? GET REAL.
It really gets my goat when "incomers" think they know whats best for the local population. They dont want progress, they would rather things remained quaint and "typically Spanish", usually for one of 2 reasons. Fisrt is they can be reminded everyday that they escaped the ratrace, and secondly so that they can brag to the folks back home about the "cute" little customs of the locals.
Yeah, but the world isnt like that anymore. The latest fashion, music, fast cars...... They do work to live, but they want to "live" a different kind of life and want to work in a trendy profession! Very few youngsters want to live in a village eating home grown produce, in fact there are few financially supporting jobs in the "old world" to be had anymore!
They're no different to most other european kids or people. I have to say that if living a village life meant that I had to do my washing in a stream or by hand instead of a washing machine, I wouldnt want it in any country! Progress may not sound nice and cosy, but overall it has improved lifestyles, living standards, poverty and hard graft for no rewards
Jo xxx
They're no different to most other european kids or people. I have to say that if living a village life meant that I had to do my washing in a stream or by hand instead of a washing machine, I wouldnt want it in any country! Progress may not sound nice and cosy, but overall it has improved lifestyles, living standards, poverty and hard graft for no rewards
Jo xxx
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Wow, what a condescending post to the Spanish population. I just love it when we are treated as slightly simple. The way of life you describe happened all over europe a few years ago, even in the villages in the UK, it wasnt enough for them, why do you think that is should be enough for us?
Obviously there should be no budding Richard Bransons and such in Spain, they should all be contented to drink milk from the family cow and have no further aspirations than to eat a fresh duck egg every day.
What a nice slap in the face for all the Spanish students who are working their way through UNI and such. It seems you are a follower of chairman Maos thinking, or you are now, now that you have made enough money to be able to relocate and live in a foreign country,
And while we are it it, what luxuries are you talking about? Could it be a car, hot running water, washing machine, mobile?
Are these the things you are SERIOUSLY advocating that the Spanish youth give up, before they all go to hell in a hand cart? GET REAL.
It really gets my goat when "incomers" think they know whats best for the local population. They dont want progress, they would rather things remained quaint and "typically Spanish", usually for one of 2 reasons. Fisrt is they can be reminded everyday that they escaped the ratrace, and secondly so that they can brag to the folks back home about the "cute" little customs of the locals.
Hi Jo, thank you for treating us like rational people and not a species apart or whatever.

Obviously there should be no budding Richard Bransons and such in Spain, they should all be contented to drink milk from the family cow and have no further aspirations than to eat a fresh duck egg every day.
What a nice slap in the face for all the Spanish students who are working their way through UNI and such. It seems you are a follower of chairman Maos thinking, or you are now, now that you have made enough money to be able to relocate and live in a foreign country,
And while we are it it, what luxuries are you talking about? Could it be a car, hot running water, washing machine, mobile?
Are these the things you are SERIOUSLY advocating that the Spanish youth give up, before they all go to hell in a hand cart? GET REAL.
It really gets my goat when "incomers" think they know whats best for the local population. They dont want progress, they would rather things remained quaint and "typically Spanish", usually for one of 2 reasons. Fisrt is they can be reminded everyday that they escaped the ratrace, and secondly so that they can brag to the folks back home about the "cute" little customs of the locals.
Hi Jo, thank you for treating us like rational people and not a species apart or whatever.
It is often said that expats shouldnt come to Spain and try to change it, but nor should they come to Spain and try to keep it the same
Jo xxx
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#38
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JLFS You do seem to like this word "incomers" and use it regularly.
Is it a put down? How is it any different from the word immigrants? Do you consider yourself an incomer?
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For your info:
incomer a person who comes to live in a place in which he was not born
immigrant a person who migrates to another country, usually for permanent residence.
incomer a person who comes to live in a place in which he was not born
immigrant a person who migrates to another country, usually for permanent residence.
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I still think they are two words with pretty much the same meaning as used by JLFS. Unless the first one is being applied where people are moving specifically within the country, Sorry if I'm being dense, but can you explain the niceties of this for me.
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.incomer is someone who comes to live in a place whilst immigrant is someone who comes to a country with the intention of permanent residence.
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It is what you are, it is not a put down, but it is what you will always be seen as, just like everyone else, depending on where they live in Spain
When I talk about an incomer that is what I mean, they were not born there.
And for all your understanding of the Spanish mentality Angie, I think you should understand that the Locals dont like people, not only foreigners, but anyone not born in the area, to stick their oar in in a too obvious way.
wether they are British or Spanish from the next town, you are an incomer.
I would be regarded as in incomer in Andalucia, but not an immigrant.
An incomer also sees life with new eyes and may find the lack of services, public transport, etc as quaint and choose to live there because of the"idylic lifestyle".
The locals might not see it that way.
The old orange grower with hardly any riding his donkey teeth, may have novelty value, non materialistic way of life may seem heaven on earth, but if that was said to most of the younger generation by an incomer the would find it equally as galling coming from someone form New York, Frankfurt of MADRID, because they are all incomer.
This seems to be a parralell thread with the another that is running right now, which is basically brought down to the opinion that some posters have, that the peasants should be kept as peasants, for their quaintness and novelty value.
They dont realise that the younger Spanish want to be like the rest of the world, and have it all, right or wrong, its their choice.
#43
Well put JLFS 
I was amazed when on a visit my mother expressed a view that spain was no longer a backward country. I was shocked and very pleased that none of my spanish friends heard her say that
I was amazed when on a visit my mother expressed a view that spain was no longer a backward country. I was shocked and very pleased that none of my spanish friends heard her say that




