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Old Sep 12th 2011 | 7:10 pm
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Originally Posted by cricketman
Nothing to do with Islam and everything to do with Catholicism. You'll find it is the same in Italy

If a woman got caught having sex before marriage 60 years ago in Spain then they got disowned by the family and would probably end up working as a prositute.

If a single woman got pregnant 35 years ago then it would cause a disgrace in the family and there may have been a cover up where the woman and her mum disappeared for 9 months and then came back with a "little sister"

If it happens now (and it rarely does) then it causes some embarrasment among the grandparents, but thats that.
It certainly does happen frequently where I live!

A couple of years ago there was a high proportion of young, single mothers pushing their prams in our village - don't see so many now that the €2,500 'cheque bebe' has been stopped

The family next door to us consist of grandparents - in their 80s, their son & daughter - 40s, grand daughter & boyfriend - 20s and great-grand daughter, just turned two.

The grand daughter is unmarried, as was her mother, and she recently became pregnant again and had an abortion. The abuelos appear to take it all in their stride!
 
Old Sep 12th 2011 | 7:41 pm
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It certainly does happen frequently where I live!

A couple of years ago there was a high proportion of young, single mothers pushing their prams in our village - don't see so many now that the €2,500 'cheque bebe' has been stopped

The family next door to us consist of grandparents - in their 80s, their son & daughter - 40s, grand daughter & boyfriend - 20s and great-grand daughter, just turned two.

The grand daughter is unmarried, as was her mother, and she recently became pregnant again and had an abortion. The abuelos appear to take it all in their stride!
IMHE these things run in families...
if mother has baby young it will follow on down the generations
if mother has baby in say late 20's early 30's it will follow on down the generations

I know - I am generalising again but think about it
there is always the exception
but I remember Butlins (?) used to do glamourous granny and a woman I knew won it aged 38. I remember this well as I very nearly became her SIL

 
Old Sep 12th 2011 | 7:48 pm
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Yes - but that doesn't explain the high number of single mums in our local village does it? And I was replying to the statement that 'it rarely happens'

Plus it was all about them being unmarried - not young!
 
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Yes - but that doesn't explain the high number of single mums in our local village does it? And I was replying to the statement that 'it rarely happens'

Plus it was all about them being unmarried - not young!
Of course it's nonsense, why do some imagine Spain is so different to everywhere else, some sort of puritanical stronghold in sea of unwanted pregnancies. They might be a bit behind, but they are catching up fast. And the fact that there aren't the financial supports in place in Spain as in UK, makes it even more regrettable.
“El número de hijos nacidos fuera del matrimonio ha experimentado un enorme incremento en los últimos 30 años en España. Eran dos de cada cien en la década de los 70 del siglo pasado, y podrían convertirse en uno de cada tres cuando termine este 2009.
Un informe muestra que cada vez son más los niños que nacen fuera del matrimonio: uno de cada tres.
El dato es del Instituto Nacional de Estadísticas de España (INE):
"España se ha colocado a nivel de sociedades como la inglesa y como la belga",

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Old Sep 12th 2011 | 9:02 pm
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Originally Posted by lovingthesun
Yes - but that doesn't explain the high number of single mums in our local village does it? And I was replying to the statement that 'it rarely happens'

Plus it was all about them being unmarried - not young!
how can anyone here explain the high number of single mums in your local village ?
something in the water ?
something in the air ?

do they all look like the same father ?
(do you know the father ?)

people only post here what they see and know. in their experience it is rare. perhaps the women have all been sent away as fallen women. perhapps your village is where they are being sent to.

Eire had a long line of pregnant women queueing to visit relatives in the uk so they could get a termination. Eire had a very low figure of out of wedlock births.
 
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Originally Posted by lovingthesun
It certainly does happen frequently where I live!

A couple of years ago there was a high proportion of young, single mothers pushing their prams in our village - don't see so many now that the €2,500 'cheque bebe' has been stopped

The family next door to us consist of grandparents - in their 80s, their son & daughter - 40s, grand daughter & boyfriend - 20s and great-grand daughter, just turned two.

The grand daughter is unmarried, as was her mother, and she recently became pregnant again and had an abortion. The abuelos appear to take it all in their stride!
Sure it does happen, especially in the long lost villages.

However, teenage pregnancy rates in Spain are much much lower than in the UK and US. The UK has twice the EU average of births from teenage mothers while the US has even more.

Last time I looked at the data, Spain had one of the lowest rates of teenage pregnancies in the whole of the EU
 
Old Sep 12th 2011 | 10:32 pm
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Out of interest I have looked up the teenage pregnancy rates in Western Europe, I cannot vouch for the figures but this is from The Independent.
Lowest
Denmark 1.28%
Sweden 1.59%
Italy 1.69%
France 1.96%
Spain 2.83%
Ireland 4.15%
UK 7.09% second only to the USA.

Don´t know whether this helps the discussion or not.

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Old Sep 12th 2011 | 10:42 pm
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Originally Posted by cricketman
Sure it does happen, especially in the long lost villages.

However, teenage pregnancy rates in Spain are much much lower than in the UK and US. The UK has twice the EU average of births from teenage mothers while the US has even more.

Last time I looked at the data, Spain had one of the lowest rates of teenage pregnancies in the whole of the EU
Statistics,statistics...... C'man.
Maybe if it were possible to factor in all the many thousands who had a brief "holiday" inthe UK for termination you might get a nasty shock.
The fact that most forms of birth control were frowned on and discouraged for so many years, maybe still are in some backward villages, certainly didn't help.
On a sidenote, I was quite surprised at the huge amount of inbreeding in some of those remote inland villages in Andalucia.
 
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Originally Posted by Dick Dasterdly
Statistics,statistics...... C'man.
Maybe if it were possible to factor in all the many thousands who had a brief "holiday" inthe UK for termination you might get a nasty shock.
The fact that most forms of birth control were frowned on and discouraged for so many years, maybe still are in some backward villages, certainly didn't help.
On a sidenote, I was quite surprised at the huge amount of inbreeding in some of those remote inland villages in Andalucia.
Sure, don't believe the stats, believe DD

How do you spot inbreeding btw? You go around doing genetic tests or spotting people with 6 fingers?
 
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Originally Posted by Dick Dasterdly
Statistics,statistics...... C'man.
Maybe if it were possible to factor in all the many thousands who had a brief "holiday" inthe UK for termination you might get a nasty shock.
The fact that most forms of birth control were frowned on and discouraged for so many years, maybe still are in some backward villages, certainly didn't help.
On a sidenote, I was quite surprised at the huge amount of inbreeding in some of those remote inland villages in Andalucia.
Like the East Anglian fens? Inbreeding and bestiality.
 
Old Sep 12th 2011 | 10:52 pm
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Originally Posted by Dick Dasterdly
Statistics,statistics...... C'man.
Maybe if it were possible to factor in all the many thousands who had a brief "holiday" inthe UK for termination you might get a nasty shock.
The fact that most forms of birth control were frowned on and discouraged for so many years, maybe still are in some backward villages, certainly didn't help.
On a sidenote, I was quite surprised at the huge amount of inbreeding in some of those remote inland villages in Andalucia.
I find it strange how many married people with kids have an age gap of 6 to 10 years between the children. Also the fact that so many only have 2 children. Before moving here I thought that they would have smaller gaps and more children. This is probably because there are no benefit incentives.

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I find it strange how many married people with kids have an age gap of 6 to 10 years betwwen the children. Also the fact that so many only have 2 children. Before moving here I thought that they would have smaller gaps and more children. This is probably because there are no benefit incentives.

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It changed when women had to start to go out to work full time just like the men.

My OH has three siblings. The oldest is 40, most of his friends also had 2, 3 or 4 siblings. My OH is 30 and most her friends had only one sibling. Now most children in Spain only have one sibling or are an only child.

As you say, the benefits for having children arent good, certainly not good enough for the mother to choose to stay at home, so families have less children and the grandparents in Spain (bless them) do an incredible amount of work bringing up the children

Take a look around on the street in the week. You'll see most children are walking around with their grandparents rather than their parents.
 
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Like the East Anglian fens? Inbreeding and bestiality.
HEY !!
WATCH IT !!
 
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Originally Posted by cricketman
It changed when women had to start to go out to work full time just like the men.

My OH has three siblings. The oldest is 40, most of his friends also had 2, 3 or 4 siblings. My OH is 30 and most her friends had only one sibling. Now most children in Spain only have one sibling or are an only child.

As you say, the benefits for having children arent good, certainly not good enough for the mother to choose to stay at home, so families have less children and the grandparents in Spain (bless them) do an incredible amount of work bringing up the children

Take a look around on the street in the week. You'll see most children are walking around with their grandparents rather than their parents.
are you sure they aren't a late blow ??
 
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Originally Posted by Domino
are you sure they aren't a late blow ??
Yes, the secret is when they call them abuelo/abulela/toto/tata etc
 


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