can anybody tell me how to pm sum1 on this site plz

Teri

If you look at the top right hand corner of your screen when in this forum,where it says welcome etc. then it says private massages. If you have recieved a private message it should say so. If you want to pm someone then just click on their name where they have posted, a drop down nenu appears.

Good look

JD

Hi Teri,

Yes - you just click on the person's name, and various options will appear.
Click on "send a private message to..........." and a blank area will appear for you to write in (just the same as when you post onto a thread)

Hope that helps?

Sam.

thanx that help a lot well of to bed naw lets see wat to moz brings

Yeah i knew by posting that terri wasnt coming would have her on here.
The reason for the 8 minute difference between a happy post from terri and me is because i actually posted that on here at about the same time terri found out that I knew what she had been up to. The evidence i have is fully conclusive and Terris attempts at trying to worm her way out of it with lies is just making things worse.

Decision has been made, shes lied about other things too and I dont want to know her anymore. Going to be out of contact for the next few days as going on a Business trip.

So ill close the matter here. Im just very hurt and upset.

Me Too??

Andrew,
Have just caught up with all on this thread, so sorry to hear your news, It really surprised me as you both seemed so positive, but as you said right at the beginning there had been some doubts. I think all that you have said is enough, and we all support anything you do, just as we have been rooting for you all along.
You have come this far and knowing you this will not pull you down, you may seem upset at the moment and feel very hurt by it all, but you have all your life to look forward to . try and sort things out amicably as possibly for dylans sake, and then just keep plodding on, things will get better as you have already found out just in the short time we have all been following your adventures! Must say though " never a dull moment with you"!
Have a good business trip, nice for you to have your brother with you and I am sure he will be a big comfort, give you support and be there to keep you company. All the best, chin up,
Luv and hugs,
Eve
xxxx

Terri,
hi I feel so sad that this is not going to work out the way you both were planning it. For whatever reasons, that is something only the two of you know and this, as has been said is not the place to have a domestic. We all feel for you, but you know sometimes it takes a big knock back to make you think your path in life out and it will often lead to better things. If there was uncertainty between you at the beginning it may not have worked anyway. But try and talk things through with Andrew, end on a good note and think positive with your life. You have Dylan, who you obviously adore and you still have a home, it would have been awful for you both if you had made the move and then things didn't work out. So maybe for the best. All the sentiments to you that I gave to Andrew, keep in touch and good luck, thinking of you.
Luv Eve

thank you y i love andrew to bits but as he says i dont want to turn it into a dimastic so i wil just keep off hear and let him get on with his life without us as he clearly dosnt wanta naything to do with me ur dylan again

Well been in Lisbon these last couple of days. Quite why i had to go to lisbon i dont konw. Just to take some pcs to a new office. Yet the new office is still actulaly being built. So it was more of a delivery job more than anything else. We're driving back tonight. Been out there with my brother and my work collegue matt. We went out round the baro altoa area last night. Weired place it is. Looks kinda run down, graffiti everywhere. So ill be glad to be back in the costa. The weather has been light england too. hehe.

The whole terri thing is really taking a toll on my happiness now. At first it was kinda. well its not going to affect me much coz ive already moved away. But now it is affecting me. Im having to put brave face on for the lads. Both my bro and my work collegue come across with all the lads confidence. And my collegue managed to pull last night. I wasnt really out to pull. I think i was out to see if i could pull. Was tlaking to an american girl who lives in new york. She ended up going off to the other side of the bar as far away from me as possible and my collegue had her mate back to his room. Really dont know how he does it hehe.

Just feeling really really really sh*t now. I cant get rid of the feeling. Just been having to bottle everything up. My bro flies home tomorrow but my other friend Jo is flying in at the same time. Got a couple of days off work. So that should be OK.

Terri is still persisting that she hasnt done anything. And despite all the evidence prooving otherwise, you sometimes think... hmmm well what if she didnt actually do anything? I could throw away everything here. Im just hurting lots and feel so upset. I hate feeling like this. Terris also trying the guilt trip on me saying Dylan misses me loads and the thing i hate most about this is the fact that im missing them both like crazy. And its just hard. part of me just wants to say, no forget it come. But i know its not right, i dont trust her. I wouldnt be happy with her when she did and then it'd be harder and more uglier 6 months down the line when it all goes wrong again.

Its just the way im feeling and i have no one to talk to. So sorry for going on a bit on here

No probs Andrew, glad to hear from you.
Just going out , friday night girlies night , off to Competa on Sunday.
Take care.
Luv Eve
xx

Hey Andrew ,keep it up,better than Corrie.........talking of which Im off to watch........

Hi Andy

Just got back from my house finding mission and catching up on whats what . sorry to hear your dilemna mate , but well my post made when you first came on here stands .. If you lose trust it will never be the same as i said ..
So chin up you have a new life opening up and will have the pick of all them sexy senoritas and make your own Bambino or even Bambinos So dont let it bother you in the slightest

1 time you could if you are desperate forgive , 2 times well i think the term taking wee wee comes to mind . So think positive your young and have the world at your finger tips , dont need excess un grateful baggage