spouse of scouse

That sounds worrying. Best of luck Editha.

Editha

Thanks. I don't want to go into details because my symptoms might turn out to be nothing major, and I don't want to cry wolf.

spouse of scouse

Perfectly understandable. Do talk with those close to you though, they'd be nothing but delighted with a good result. A worry shared, and all that

michali

Hi Editha, just adding my good wishes and hope that your symptoms do indeed turn out to be nothing.

BEVS

Whatever it is causing concern, I hope it turns out to be completely nothing much at all.

Best wishes to you Editha & bugger the driving lessons for now.

Novocastrian

I have my fingers crossed for you Editha.

Editha

Just an update.

I have problems with movement which are getting worse. i need a stick to walk, and I also have difficulty getting out of a chair and turning. I'm also experiencing pain and discomfort in my back and legs. But, the cause is a complete mystery.

My GP has referred me to a neurologist. I've been given an appointment in late May. So, I tried making a private appointment, but was only offered an appointment two weeks earlier than the NHS. So, it is going to be months before I know what is wrong with me.

spouse of scouse

I'm sorry the wait is so long Editha, knowing that something's amiss but not knowing what is so difficult. I hope you're managing ok and can get out and about a bit.

Novocastrian

This is hard for you, but you will prevail. You are a strong woman.

Editha

Thanks for your sympathy.

Getting old is a b****r isn't it?

rebs

Better than the alternative- ain't that what they say

Hoping all goes well at your appointment x

spouse of scouse

Some days I'd like to meet Father Time, just to give him a good kick.

michali

You are right with that one! Seriously though, Editha, I hope you get answers soon. We tend to take good health for granted and it is only when we get older and/or sicker that we realize that being healthy is not always possible.

spouse of scouse

Yep. Often though, a health/medical condition becomes less stressful once there's a name put to it. Not knowing what's happening is so horrible, and we can't help thinking the worst, or even wonder if we're losing the plot if multiple tests can't pinpoint the problem. It takes a lot of mental and physical energy to get through the pre-diagnosis period, at a time when our reserves are low.

Once there's a diagnosis we can pull ourselves up by the boot straps, get ourselves the right treatment/medication/aids, and carry on with our lives. Not saying that's always a walk in the park, but at least we're dealing with a known quantity and can begin living again, instead of waiting and worrying.

A hug for Editha (no hug smilie, so this will have to do)

scot47

I gave up driving years ago. Not the end of the world.