Philosophical 11

"she knows she cannot ask again". As a super mod... What do you think that means?

spouse of scouse

If you want to know what a super moderator means, look at the sticky thread in the Welcome Inn. What that won't tell you though is that super moderators, and moderators, keep BE running on a voluntary basis, usually between their day jobs and busy lives. Without them you wouldn't have this forum to write all about your life on. By the way, you didn't infer or make explicit that you didn't give your new friend any money. All you said was she asked and she knows not to ask again - I thought you'd given her money as well.

spouse of scouse

It can mean that you gave her money as a one off but told her she's not to ask again. Just because YOU know what you mean, doesn't mean everyone else does. What you wrote wasn't clear at all, just get over it would you.

christmasoompa

My being a super mod has no relevance.

I have read your posts/explanations and along with everybody else it seems, am still none the wiser as to why you are still paying any money for your soon to be ex-wife (or why you're still in contact with her at all). And as yet, I've not seen anybody comment that they think it's a good idea despite your reasonings for it, so I'm not alone in my point of view.

Jerseygirl

P11...a quick read of today’s post, I assumed your new LL asked for money and you obliged. To save further confusion, please clarify...did you give her money or not?

bestvue

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Philosophical 11

Of course not. She knows not to ask again. I thought that was obvious. Only 500 peso BTW. And she is not my new LL. I thought I made that clear also.

Regards

Pollyana

Because he is human.like the rest of us. and unless we have walked in his shoes what right ro we have to judge him?

Jerseygirl

no it wasn’t obvious. She asked you for 500 pesos but you refuse...got it...thanks for clarifying. Not to me no, neither of the points I raised were obvious. Man meets woman who works at bar. She asks him for money...he buys her drinks and fags. Forgive me but this seems like same old, same old to me. OK what should we call her?

it appears to me, as an outsider, these women come across Johnny Foreigner and see a meal ticket.

spouse of scouse

Trouble?

Rete

Err, as an ex-Super Mod .... to me it means she asked, you gave, and she knows it was a one shot deal and will never ask again because you already gave at the office.

christmasoompa

Or, to put it another way, 'two people have the same opinion'. Not such a snappy headline when you put it like that eh?

It is very odd, as a Brit who'd never dream of asking anybody for money, to see the cultural differences. I wonder if these women would ask a fellow Filipino, or if they do only ask foreigners? Just such a weird idea to me, to meet somebody and a few weeks later ask them for cash!

Jerseygirl

P11..not sure why you brought the ‘Super Mod’ title into it...but please remember, it was Super Mod’s who took the time to edit this thread when you requested certain info to be removed. It was not required of us, but we tried to accommodate your request. I remember spending considerable time going through each of the hundreds/thousands of posts in this thread, editing them as you requested.

Feidlimid

Sounds about right SOS; but in comparison to LL1, how about ‘a very good catch’. She does have a job after all and P11 tells us she’s a hard worker. Despite P11's remonstrations and on a more practical note, perhaps 'LL2' will suffice.

Jerseygirl

forgive me for being negative...but I can’t help but think...she’s a hard worker until she latches on to Johnny (Sugar Daddy) Foreigner.