How bad is it?
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I walked to the Metro NW alone at 10.35 pm...tonight. returned home at 11.05 pm. I am fine... see? I am a small weak woman... but I've been well surviving here,,,,,,,,no worries.. however, NOOOOOOOooooooooooooooo way in Auckland or CHCh. never been to Dunedin so dunno about it.
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#18
welly always feels OK
I feel alright here in the burbs (well some of the burbs in Auckland at least)
But there are some random events in Auckland..I often focus on CHCH as it seems more concentrated there some how, but we do have our fare share of nastiness up here too
Hey Crap Coffee..you're always giving me reasons to live in Welly
I'm coming down to partake of your windy city in a couple of weeks and can't wait
I feel alright here in the burbs (well some of the burbs in Auckland at least)
But there are some random events in Auckland..I often focus on CHCH as it seems more concentrated there some how, but we do have our fare share of nastiness up here too
Hey Crap Coffee..you're always giving me reasons to live in Welly
I'm coming down to partake of your windy city in a couple of weeks and can't wait
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Same here Prickly, you choose your spots and I would have few qualms about walking around Auckland CBD (maybe not so keen alone) as it is generally busy and convivial with other people happy to wander. CHCH is too concentrated with multi-lane, long straight roads: ripe for the hoons racing and cruising around and the centre seems to be a magnet for all the riff raff. I sense more of an air of menace in CHCH city centre, especially for strangers in town where Auckland is more anonymous and people do tend to leave you alone. Auckland 'Kids' probably have more choices of places to hang out and don't find too much of an attraction to 'go to town' on an evening. In fact relatively few people do. 
Around most of Auckland it's not feasible to use the roads as a racetrack, too many hills, sharp bends and cliff sides for the muppets to fall off of.
Still doesn't stop them trying though.

Around most of Auckland it's not feasible to use the roads as a racetrack, too many hills, sharp bends and cliff sides for the muppets to fall off of.
Still doesn't stop them trying though.
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oh really? hope you have a great time and find nice place to eat fantastic foods. and drink your age in pints...of course...really, its not dangerous to be out in town. I've lived here since I was 17, and nothing has happened yet. I usually walk a lot because I hate to stick to my desk all day long at work so I try to walk at night,,,,and morning or whenever. but I am really ok. I don't drive my car when I go to work because no car park or too expensive so.... my beautiful Citroën Xsara Picasso's been sitting in the garage.........for ages..
my partner,,,, well. He drinks a bit on weekends tho.... He lived here a year and half. the thing is ,,, he goes out on Friday morning and he comes home on Saturday crack of dawn...
it doesn't necessarily mean he drinks a lot or being drunk but he loves hang out with his work mates...till late....on Fridays..... what annoys me was I always had to worry about him.. I don't sleep till he gets home... - (make sure he gets home safe ...he is slightly drunk of course..) At that time, a few times I read horrid news about tourists (English/Scottish/German) murdered (stabbed I think) in downtown Welly...so I used to worry about him a lot ... but luckily nothing happened to him. (but he is smart enough to look after himself) but better be careful than sorry.and what also makes me laugh is... last year when I visited my brother in auckland, he refused to drive/go for a walk to Long Bay beach or any beaches in North Shore....
asked him why? He said.. a few murder cases has happened... in North shore area...Its called "Don't Ask Why Murder". also at that time, a couple of prisoners escaped from prisons (all the time) and they wonder around every where.. and you would never know where/what they are up to. my bro is a solicitor, thats why he does know what's going on.. (he seemed to be very nervous about it..particularly..for some reason?
). so according to him, you would never ever walk/drive alone/together
at night or day time in beach or any public place (parks, beaches especially) if not many people around. but I hate he scares me sometimes/often over protective something like that... but I am different to him and am a brave lass unlike him. (I even manged to fight physically with a huge thief at the Mac Donald in Sydney .. and I won...
)
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#22
Might be different in other cities but here in Chc my wife or family would not venture out at night. It's like bedlam where we are staying from 21:00hrs to 04:00, wow never heard anything like it. Cars screaming between the traffic lights, continuous Police sirens and hoodlums just like the UK.
#23
Stormers post sounds just like the rubbish we have put up with this last summer and before.
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Back in the UK now, it's more busy here but now I am getting used to acknowledging drivers when they give way or let you in. It seems so civilised to the Moron's in the dump I left behind.
No loud exhausts as well, bliss.
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http://www.stuff.co.nz/business/indu...d-for-bullying
I personally think this is SOOOOOOOOO BAD. I've got couple of friends who bitterly left their jobs recently because of serious bullying at work - that was the main reason. especially girls. they are bitch. Thats why I prefer to have a job that No many girls involved....
....I mostly work with males.
At least, they don't give you a shit/attention at all (even if they hate you or whatever) unless they need to. rather than bullying you for fun like many girls do.
(IMO) I worked in a hospital before when I was younger, and the loads of girls were bitch. I didn't enjoy going to work not that I hate my job, but I hated my colleagues.
I personally think this is SOOOOOOOOO BAD. I've got couple of friends who bitterly left their jobs recently because of serious bullying at work - that was the main reason. especially girls. they are bitch. Thats why I prefer to have a job that No many girls involved....
....I mostly work with males.
(IMO) I worked in a hospital before when I was younger, and the loads of girls were bitch. I didn't enjoy going to work not that I hate my job, but I hated my colleagues.
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Now imagine to have 3 bitches in vertical above you
I cannot find the vomit smiley

I cannot find the vomit smiley
#30
I don’t think beer is expensive here (some good microbrewers as well owing to New Zealand’s almost unique law making it easy to make your own in the garage), wine is very cheap.
Crime isn’t a huge problem as long as you pick a good area, outside of major cities many folk still leave their cars open and keys in the ignition overnight. Most crime is petty theft rather than violent (if you want variety go and live in Auckland). I would happily walk anywhere in Palmerston North late at night except Highbury (which is like a sort of council estate, mind you there are parts of Porirua I wouldn’t live in either). Location, location, location.
Dunedin students are renowned as being a rowdy bunch, it attracts a lot of young students. IMO unless you have to go to that university steer clear, it’s hurting the universities reputation as well (devaluing current and future degree holders) as they have failed to deal with the situation
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Crime isn’t a huge problem as long as you pick a good area, outside of major cities many folk still leave their cars open and keys in the ignition overnight. Most crime is petty theft rather than violent (if you want variety go and live in Auckland). I would happily walk anywhere in Palmerston North late at night except Highbury (which is like a sort of council estate, mind you there are parts of Porirua I wouldn’t live in either). Location, location, location.
Dunedin students are renowned as being a rowdy bunch, it attracts a lot of young students. IMO unless you have to go to that university steer clear, it’s hurting the universities reputation as well (devaluing current and future degree holders) as they have failed to deal with the situation





thanks BJ