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Old May 3rd 2006 | 12:49 am
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Old May 3rd 2006 | 1:13 am
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Originally Posted by woodyinoz
This is a perfect read for me. It outlines why I need to be back.
I am not even back yet and people are bending over backwards trying to make the move back easier.
It's great isn't it? I just found out that my sister gave her old dining table to my parents to store for us as we won't be taking all our furniture back (mostly too big for a small flat or terraced house we'll likely end up in). Not saying my wife's family didn't help out when we were first setting up here, but it's ongoing support we need and I know my family in the UK will always be there for us when we need them.

My life is just about to start again and this time I will make the most of it
Like Britvic, I really love that line... I think I'll be using it over the next few months! It really does feel like life is on hold right at the moment and my motivation is absolutely zero, zilch, nada.

I would love to be back by Christmas. It seems such a long way away at the moment but I am sure that it will fly.
I know exactly how you feel. It must be about a year now since we started discussing / planning the move and it has always seemed so far in the future. I think it's only once it has happened that we'll feel like the time flew! Currently I am ecstatic every time the month changes because it's one month closer. Only four months to September now!! It will probably be more like the end of October, but I prefer four months to six.
 
Old May 3rd 2006 | 10:19 pm
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Originally Posted by ABOD
Why is it that back in the UK you never hear about those that have emigrated but then returned (whatever the reason). Before I came out here all I ever heard of was those that were living the dream in Canada/Australia/New Zealand... Do we all return to the UK and then go into a shameful underworld where the experience can not be mentioned?

I will certainly be happy to talk about my experience here in Australia (I've had a good one ) and would never dissuade anyone from doing the same, but I would also highlight the realities of such a venture and that (gosh dare I say it) people do return.

I just wondered does anyone feel the same?
Been back in the UK for just over a year. Miss things about Canada, but overall it was the right decision. I don't spend as much time on the forum as I did previously, but every now and again I have a look on to see what's new. People teetering on the edge of do they stay or do they go? We did the right thing for us and I would never pit anybody off from doing the same, everybody is different and likewise everybody's situations are different.
I still get itchy feet, but it's a big world. I content myself in the knowledge that I know what I have and I am enjoying my life.
 
Old May 3rd 2006 | 11:33 pm
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Originally Posted by chance to be
hi

you will find a lot of people on this forum who have already moved back. i think its lovely that they still keep in contact as it makes those of us deciding to go back feel better about our decision when we hear that they are happy.

ive noticed since i've been here, I'd say half the people i know who moved out about the same time as me (within a year say) are going back to the uk. thats a huge statistic!!!....but in the uk, i never heard people say "oh i gave it a go but it wasnt for me etc..."

maybe i just didnt want to listen at the time.....!
Great post and you are so right when you mention the value of the contribution that those who return and post updates make.
 
Old May 4th 2006 | 12:11 am
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Originally Posted by jonthelad
I've been reading these posts with interest and feeling somewhat emotional as to how those who have returned home have struggled through but they have managed with the help of friends and family.
It's times like these when I wish I was home with friends and my family to support me, instead of feeling very alone and isolated. We've had many problems, mostly $ related in the past year due to my wife starting a business with her mother (who lives with us, god help us), I'm working two jobs and every evening the bill collectors call. Nightmare.



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Old May 4th 2006 | 12:14 am
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Just wanted to say a big 'thank you' to those of you who have offered support. It means a lot.
 
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I came back to Britian from living in Canada (Vancouver/Burnaby) a year and a half, I didn't miss Britian massively, but there were definate things I missed. But since I`ve been back in the UK, I don't miss Canada at all! the Greater Vancouver region is like one big endless sprawl, and I`m happy to be out of it.

I found Canada had too many silly laws, road rules, politics, attitudes... Great as a life experience, but I wouldn't want to live there forever.

Then there's all the issues of not being a citizen, pension and tax problems, various problems if you lose your job (especially if you are on a HRSDC like i was).

All in all, it seems safer and more comfortable being in my native country.
 
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I know a really nice couple who rent houses.

We're renting off them at the moment, they we're strangers to us when we returned from Canada,
i phoned up their ad in the local paper and that was it, they've been absolutely fantastic couldn't do enough for us, they furnished the house all new knowing we'd lost everything even down to knives and forks, plants, candles the lot they've been fantastic.

If any one's stuck for somewhere to go let me know, they have nearly new properties all over west Yorkshire.
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Old May 7th 2006 | 8:24 am
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I still get itchy feet, but it's a big world. I content myself in the knowledge that I know what I have and I am enjoying my life

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Old May 7th 2006 | 8:59 am
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Originally Posted by shelly1
I know a really nice couple who rent houses.

We're renting off them at the moment, they we're strangers to us when we returned from Canada,
i phoned up their ad in the local paper and that was it, they've been absolutely fantastic couldn't do enough for us, they furnished the house all new knowing we'd lost everything even down to knives and forks, plants, candles the lot they've been fantastic.

If any one's stuck for somewhere to go let me know, they have nearly new properties all over west Yorkshire.
Shelly
Wow that's nice. If they had places in S Wales I'd be all over it.

I have to find a rental that will take a dog. It's not easy via the internet.
 
Old May 7th 2006 | 9:38 am
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Originally Posted by dunroving
Wow that's nice. If they had places in S Wales I'd be all over it.

I have to find a rental that will take a dog. It's not easy via the internet.
Here's a few sites that may help.

http://www.diamondrentals.co.uk/Index2.htm
tele: 02920 888400

http://www.thishouseisforsale.co.uk/...sons/index.htm

http://www.thishouseisforsale.co.uk/

http://www.darlows.co.uk/properties/finding.asp


If Diamonds doesn't have anything in the area you need, hubs says to give them a call and ask them if they know anyone who does.
 
Old May 7th 2006 | 7:36 pm
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Originally Posted by dunroving
Wow that's nice. If they had places in S Wales I'd be all over it.

I have to find a rental that will take a dog. It's not easy via the internet.
Whereabouts in South wales?? and when for

I'll have a look see if there's anything i can find out for you
 
Old May 8th 2006 | 12:21 am
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Originally Posted by dunroving
Wow that's nice. If they had places in S Wales I'd be all over it.

I have to find a rental that will take a dog. It's not easy via the internet.

Try www.rightmove.co.uk
They have rentals and buys, I've just had a look at S wales and it brought quite a lot up of different price ranges.
If your struggling phoning or contacting from your side let me know if your interested in any of the properties i don't mind giving them a quick phone call.
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Thanks for the help, Shelley and Scout!

My hope is to find somewhere convenient to the U. of Glamorgan (so, relatively close to Pontypridd).

Spoke (MSN) to my brother yesterday and he is going to rent a van and pick up me and the pooch from LHR and take us to S. Wales, like a little road trip. We'll probably find some short-term accommodation (holiday cottage or something) for the first few days while I look for a car to buy and a house to rent.

Ideally, I'd like to find a good agent on the ground there (like Diamond's - their site looks pretty good from a quick poke around this a.m.) who will LISTEN (not something I find real estate agents do very well) and have suitable properties lined up for a 1-day or 2-day viewing bonanza.

My other headache is finding a stay-at-home person to dog-sit for me. Last time (Scotland), an unemployed single mother across the street picked up Suzy every morning and kept her until whenever I got home. Here in the US, she's perfectly happy to be in the back yard all day and watch the world go by but UK gardens are too small, with high fences - so she barks all day (according to one of my former neighbors in Scotland).
 
Old May 8th 2006 | 6:59 am
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Originally Posted by chance to be
hi shelly (and honeymummy)
like you 2 said, weve lost everything material too and it is scary starting from nothing again.....but it still feels like the right thing to do.its busier here and i think thats why u dont hear so much about those who return too.
my container has gone missing. i am in a completley empty house with 2 small kids. i really couldve cried and got straight back on the next plane - but u know what..family came round with portable tv, my sister was a star and bought kids bedroom furmiture, OH friend came round with a sofa, another friend came round with a table. then 2 more friends came round with paintbrushes and did the house with me to make it look better for the kids. the school had got second hand uniforms for the kids so they were wearing trhe same as the others for their first day back.
and you know something? none of these people live in such big houses as there were in oz, or have so much free time/disposable income...but they were there...when i most needed them. thats what makes it worthwhile
its then u realise the importance of people u love
c xxx
HI sweetie
any news on your container yet?
Shelly x
 


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