Hubby really down about going home.
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Re: Hubby really down about going home.
Hi Bex,
I used to live in Wokingham, so know the area well. I'm sure you've already tried this but there is a theology college at Binfield. Has your husband tried there? Also Reading Grammar is ranked one of the best schools in the country in terms of results. You won't have to wait too long, at least for the eldest boy. Also, there are some good, cheaper private schools near Basingstoke. My friend's boy goes to one there which covers primary and high school.
From your husband's point of view, the thing's he was homesick for have, sadly, gone so he feels no real pull any more, but your family are still there so you have reason to stay.
Don't know what else to say really, but I hope you can work this one out.
Jane
I used to live in Wokingham, so know the area well. I'm sure you've already tried this but there is a theology college at Binfield. Has your husband tried there? Also Reading Grammar is ranked one of the best schools in the country in terms of results. You won't have to wait too long, at least for the eldest boy. Also, there are some good, cheaper private schools near Basingstoke. My friend's boy goes to one there which covers primary and high school.
From your husband's point of view, the thing's he was homesick for have, sadly, gone so he feels no real pull any more, but your family are still there so you have reason to stay.
Don't know what else to say really, but I hope you can work this one out.
Jane
Thanks for your comments.
Nothing going at Newbold College in Binfield sadly. My hubby is doing a bit of freelance, marking etc and research but nothing stable.
Reading Grammer we have no chance of getting in. We missed the entrance exam fo 13+ and were advised not to hold our breath for a place to come up. While it is free it is so oversubscribed it is unreal. The only private schools around here are in the region of £4000 a term, we were paying that per year for two kids. Anyway, when you are unemployed even a £1000 whould be too much We have tried and hubby, bless him, would still apply for a job if one comes up in the next couple of weeks. Funny though, this time of year in Perth he would apply for a dozen or more - now we are here not one has come up - education cuts are biting!
Thanks though, and I thin kyou rae right about hubbys ties - I asked him if he would be so keen to go back if his parents were alive. He appreciates the point!
Becky
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Take care,
Jane
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Re: Hubby really down about going home.
Hi Jane,
Thanks for your comments.
Nothing going at Newbold College in Binfield sadly. My hubby is doing a bit of freelance, marking etc and research but nothing stable.
Reading Grammer we have no chance of getting in. We missed the entrance exam fo 13+ and were advised not to hold our breath for a place to come up. While it is free it is so oversubscribed it is unreal. The only private schools around here are in the region of £4000 a term, we were paying that per year for two kids. Anyway, when you are unemployed even a £1000 whould be too much We have tried and hubby, bless him, would still apply for a job if one comes up in the next couple of weeks. Funny though, this time of year in Perth he would apply for a dozen or more - now we are here not one has come up - education cuts are biting!
Thanks though, and I thin kyou rae right about hubbys ties - I asked him if he would be so keen to go back if his parents were alive. He appreciates the point!
Becky
Thanks for your comments.
Nothing going at Newbold College in Binfield sadly. My hubby is doing a bit of freelance, marking etc and research but nothing stable.
Reading Grammer we have no chance of getting in. We missed the entrance exam fo 13+ and were advised not to hold our breath for a place to come up. While it is free it is so oversubscribed it is unreal. The only private schools around here are in the region of £4000 a term, we were paying that per year for two kids. Anyway, when you are unemployed even a £1000 whould be too much We have tried and hubby, bless him, would still apply for a job if one comes up in the next couple of weeks. Funny though, this time of year in Perth he would apply for a dozen or more - now we are here not one has come up - education cuts are biting!
Thanks though, and I thin kyou rae right about hubbys ties - I asked him if he would be so keen to go back if his parents were alive. He appreciates the point!
Becky
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Re: Hubby really down about going home.
I'm from Wokingham and I would say there are some great state schools there with good results. My friend sends her daughter to Edgbarrow and is very pleased. Charters in Ascot is very good too. There is Ranelagh if you have church connections. You should look in the surrounding areas of Reading, I think you would like it more.
thanks for this. We have looked around but where we are in Woodley we only have one option, Waingels School. Don't know if you have heard of it? it is the local comprehensive for Woodley and not too good. The last OFSTED report was polite but pointed out a lot of areas for improvements. There are better schools around, in Earley and Reading but all are over subscribed. If you don't want to go to your local school it is a case of going on a waiting list along with many many others. Any private school here is way out of our reach - we have looked.
Thanks though, and we like Reading - great shops!
Becky
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hi
thanks for this. We have looked around but where we are in Woodley we only have one option, Waingels School. Don't know if you have heard of it? it is the local comprehensive for Woodley and not too good. The last OFSTED report was polite but pointed out a lot of areas for improvements. There are better schools around, in Earley and Reading but all are over subscribed. If you don't want to go to your local school it is a case of going on a waiting list along with many many others. Any private school here is way out of our reach - we have looked.
Thanks though, and we like Reading - great shops!
Becky
thanks for this. We have looked around but where we are in Woodley we only have one option, Waingels School. Don't know if you have heard of it? it is the local comprehensive for Woodley and not too good. The last OFSTED report was polite but pointed out a lot of areas for improvements. There are better schools around, in Earley and Reading but all are over subscribed. If you don't want to go to your local school it is a case of going on a waiting list along with many many others. Any private school here is way out of our reach - we have looked.
Thanks though, and we like Reading - great shops!
Becky
Reading shopping is great! I can't wait to get back to that
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Yep, I had a friend who lived in Woodley and her parents wouldn't send her to Waingels. She went to The Holt instead. Have you considered moving out of Woodley? (I must admit I don't like Woodley at all) We're going to be searching for a senior school for our son too so I know what a concern it is. I'm actually trying to get him into Ranelagh but if not I will probably go for Edgbarrow.
Reading shopping is great! I can't wait to get back to that
Reading shopping is great! I can't wait to get back to that
Good luck in your return.
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I only wish we could move!!! We wanted to be in Didcot - over by Oxford but when we arrived back from Oz we realisedwe had a serious probelm with renting. With no jobs an agency wouldn't touch us and there was a real shortage anyway of three be houses in the area. Anyway, to cut a long story short, my second cousin has a cousin who was looking to rent this house in Woodley, was happy for us to have it with no references or jobs etc s oit was just the easiest choice. After 4 weeks at my parents we were desperate!!!!
Good luck in your return.
Good luck in your return.
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Re: Hubby really down about going home.
hi
thanks for this. We have looked around but where we are in Woodley we only have one option, Waingels School. Don't know if you have heard of it? it is the local comprehensive for Woodley and not too good. The last OFSTED report was polite but pointed out a lot of areas for improvements. There are better schools around, in Earley and Reading but all are over subscribed. If you don't want to go to your local school it is a case of going on a waiting list along with many many others. Any private school here is way out of our reach - we have looked.
Thanks though, and we like Reading - great shops!
Becky
thanks for this. We have looked around but where we are in Woodley we only have one option, Waingels School. Don't know if you have heard of it? it is the local comprehensive for Woodley and not too good. The last OFSTED report was polite but pointed out a lot of areas for improvements. There are better schools around, in Earley and Reading but all are over subscribed. If you don't want to go to your local school it is a case of going on a waiting list along with many many others. Any private school here is way out of our reach - we have looked.
Thanks though, and we like Reading - great shops!
Becky
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Re: Hubby really down about going home.
I only wish we could move!!! We wanted to be in Didcot - over by Oxford but when we arrived back from Oz we realisedwe had a serious probelm with renting. With no jobs an agency wouldn't touch us and there was a real shortage anyway of three be houses in the area. Anyway, to cut a long story short, my second cousin has a cousin who was looking to rent this house in Woodley, was happy for us to have it with no references or jobs etc s oit was just the easiest choice. After 4 weeks at my parents we were desperate!!!!
Good luck in your return.
Good luck in your return.