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mission May 22nd 2012 2:58 am

Re: Lack of Clothes - again
 

Originally Posted by weasel decentral (Post 10075496)
There is something I am trying to think of regarding seeing a gigolo, applies to women also but essentially it boils down to would you go out with someone who will sleep with others for money.

No matter how cute/fit/intelligent etc the person is surely this is always the stumbling block, but if it only boils down to wanting a casual shag then I can't see that its that hard to find a reasonable guy.

aimed at mission above ^^

If you take it as purely a sexual transaction (which is what it would be) then of course there would be no issues with 'using' a person who's in the line of exchanging sex for money, after all thats why you are using their services. If you are asking whether i would date/get into a relationship with someone who sleeps for money, hell no lol.

But it all does come down to the calibre of men within this region....and of course there are fit/cute guys out there but inevitably they are taken or have way too many issues. And as Meow pointed in one of her earlier posts, sometimes it's a nightmare trying to get rid of them afterwards.

all jokes aside, i wouldn't pay someone to have sex with them.....i have my battery operated assistant for those desperate moments :rofl:

British Nat May 22nd 2012 2:59 am

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Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 10075752)
Perhaps. I must admit that its not a topic I discuss often, but most women say that the whole idea is abhorrent, and most men don't see it as a huge issue. But that's based on a pretty small sample, and I'm not entirely sure everyone was actually saying what they really thought (except the women!).

I have bi curious women e mail for for appointments

mission May 22nd 2012 2:59 am

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Originally Posted by British Nat (Post 10075495)
As with there is not a 'type' of woman that is a 'pro' there is no 'type' of man that visits a 'pro'

I guess if you are not in the profession then you would not know what kind of guy does this....

80% of my clients are married, there are many reasons for paying escorts a visit, I know many reasons but do not think this is the place to share. The single guys that come and see me give me many reasons but I have to say the No1 reason is that women are too needy, second reason is lack of time as they are usually very busy with work and of course maybe the quality of single women is not all that and they just do not find someone they are attracted to.

Guys from all walks of life do this and how much a woman charges will determine the caliber of client she will see.

This is not to offend anybody but it's the facts!!

Fair point :)

kittycat1 May 22nd 2012 3:06 am

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But it all does come down to the calibre of men within this region....and of course there are fit/cute guys out there but inevitably they are taken or have way too many issues. And as Meow pointed in one of her earlier posts, sometimes it's a nightmare trying to get rid of them afterwards.

all jokes aside, i wouldn't pay someone to have sex with them.....i have my battery operated assistant for those desperate moments

mission- absolutely agree- i find the men here rate far higher on the twatometer. I'm really not that fussy either so its not that you're being over fussy. I must admit I have possibly become very dismissive of men since being here though- I expect them to be twats so possibly far less approachable- wierd though as my guard obviously goes down as soon as i go home as I seem to have small harem going on there! but here- absolutely nothing. sods law!

actually i have met a couple of decent guys here but they work long antisocial hours (like me) so just impossible to get it together- the twats are the ones in the bars.

Bahtatboy May 22nd 2012 3:18 am

Re: Lack of Clothes - again
 

Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 10075850)
actually i have met a couple of decent guys here but they work long antisocial hours (like me) so just impossible to get it together- the twats are the ones in the bars.

I'm still in the office (its 7:20) and I go to bars :confused:

kittycat1 May 22nd 2012 3:20 am

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Bahtatboy- so what are you trying to say? you'e a decent guy or a twat? or just confused? lol

kittycat1 May 22nd 2012 3:21 am

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but bahatatboy you have overlooked one key point- you are married- Im talking about available men obviously you're not a twat!

kittycat1 May 22nd 2012 4:04 am

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Quote:




Originally Posted by mikewot

But you're a woman and I've not seen many threads debating the qualities of which is the best iron to use, what the latest pattern curtains are etc. so when would there be an opportunity for women to contribute to a thread where they had some expert knowledge???

Cheeky bugger!!!

Maybe you could start such a thread and see where it goes, would be quite funny really it would probably end up in a bitch fest

Ok which one of you two started teh thread on expat flange?

http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/mess...TopicID=180906

mikewot May 22nd 2012 4:18 am

Re: Lack of Clothes - again
 

Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 10075958)
Ok which one of you two started teh thread on expat flange?

http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/mess...TopicID=180906

Oh darling it's just such a nightmare decision! Is it any wonder people have to write in and ask.

weasel decentral May 22nd 2012 7:02 am

Re: Lack of Clothes - again
 

Originally Posted by Bahtatboy (Post 10075736)
What's your position on ploughing furrows?

dude thats twice you've zinged me in this thread :D

weasel decentral May 22nd 2012 7:07 am

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Originally Posted by mikewot (Post 10075754)
Why? Let's say you were a brickie (OK I know you're not Polish) and built a wall and did a bang up job. You could quite rightly be very proud of that wall and tell people that you built it. If you'd been out for the night, had a few, met a luverly lady who was interesting and you had a great time but you ended up in bed, at what point does the emotional attachment kick in? Do you have to have an 'emotional attachment' in order for little weasel decentral to stand to attention?
In my experience women often equate having sex as making love but for men having sex is just that.

the emotional attachment i am sure kicks in after the act I would have thought, just like your love for inanimate walls, after you built it.:D
If what you were saying was completely true about hookers, I might accept it but I am sure even guys who go to them prefer some kind of connection(that makes them feel good about the act) rather than a cold robot than goes through the mechanics of sex.

but maybe i am wrong on that, who knows

British Nat May 22nd 2012 7:19 am

Re: Lack of Clothes - again
 

Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 10075958)
Quote:




Originally Posted by mikewot

But you're a woman and I've not seen many threads debating the qualities of which is the best iron to use, what the latest pattern curtains are etc. so when would there be an opportunity for women to contribute to a thread where they had some expert knowledge???

Cheeky bugger!!!

Maybe you could start such a thread and see where it goes, would be quite funny really it would probably end up in a bitch fest

Ok which one of you two started teh thread on expat flange?

http://www.expatwoman.com/forum/mess...TopicID=180906

No bitch fest here...how boring!

Millhouse May 22nd 2012 8:33 am

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Originally Posted by kittycat1 (Post 10075879)
Bahtatboy- so what are you trying to say? you'e a decent guy or a twat? or just confused? lol

I think he falls under the category of 'mid life crisis' :thumbsup:

British Nat May 22nd 2012 4:38 pm

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Originally Posted by weasel decentral (Post 10076267)
the emotional attachment i am sure kicks in after the act I would have thought, just like your love for inanimate walls, after you built it.:D
If what you were saying was completely true about hookers, I might accept it but I am sure even guys who go to them prefer some kind of connection(that makes them feel good about the act) rather than a cold robot than goes through the mechanics of sex.

but maybe i am wrong on that, who knows

You are right about the guy wanting some kind of connection, most guys I see are very happy to find someone that speaks the same language so therefore there is some conversation. A lot of girls over here just put a number on a advert and have no website, guys that I see try to avoid this as reading a website can give you some way of telling of the girls personality. How a girl comes across on the phone is an way of telling as well.

Since coming here I hear the same old story's, a girl will just get them in and out as quick as possible and can be very cold also I heard that 90% of websites have fake pictures and the girls pretend to be British. Some are African and rely on the guy giving them 500 AED just to get out of their hotel room.

I do ask about the accent giving it away but many guys have not been to the UK and have not heard the English accent too much to know whether she really is English.

mikewot May 22nd 2012 4:41 pm

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Originally Posted by British Nat (Post 10076920)
I do ask about the accent giving it away but many guys have not been to the UK and have not heard the English accent too much to know whether she really is English.

Or Scots, or Irish or Welsh isn't it look you!


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