Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
#76
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
There's not only two sides to a story, there's three.. but how can you say 'there are two sides' and then go on to make a conclusion about the situation after reading only one side of it???
I can actually make up a whole scenario about this where Mrs Roland is completely in the right and he is the one who messed up. But we have NO idea of the background of this story or what agreement Roland and Co had regarding family communication and this issue.
Bingo. Right, wrong or indifferent, they had an agreement. changing that midstream without mutual agreement is going to make a problem; that shouldn't have been a surprise.
You're a poor substitute; at least when our Dear Departed posted something silly like that, the joke was perfectly clear. Aren't you just stealing someone else's material?
I can actually make up a whole scenario about this where Mrs Roland is completely in the right and he is the one who messed up. But we have NO idea of the background of this story or what agreement Roland and Co had regarding family communication and this issue.
Bingo. Right, wrong or indifferent, they had an agreement. changing that midstream without mutual agreement is going to make a problem; that shouldn't have been a surprise.
You're a poor substitute; at least when our Dear Departed posted something silly like that, the joke was perfectly clear. Aren't you just stealing someone else's material?
If I only get to talk to one person, I sort of go on what they say, if it sounds plausible. But nowhere did I say it was an absolute conclusion.
However - from the beginning, his very first post - before she even got angry, it does sound as if he felt intruded upon, and that his communications with his family were being "approved" by her. Which is something I would think is a problem.
Also, her reaction did sound somewhat childish to me - stomping off to bed.
But an absolute conclusion - no. Do I probably stand by my thoughts - yes.
#77
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
I didn't make a conclusion - I said "It sounds as if...."
If I only get to talk to one person, I sort of go on what they say, if it sounds plausible. But nowhere did I say it was an absolute conclusion.
However - from the beginning, his very first post - before she even got angry, it does sound as if he felt intruded upon, and that his communications with his family were being "approved" by her. Which is something I would think is a problem.
Also, her reaction did sound somewhat childish to me - stomping off to bed.
But an absolute conclusion - no. Do I probably stand by my thoughts - yes.
If I only get to talk to one person, I sort of go on what they say, if it sounds plausible. But nowhere did I say it was an absolute conclusion.
However - from the beginning, his very first post - before she even got angry, it does sound as if he felt intruded upon, and that his communications with his family were being "approved" by her. Which is something I would think is a problem.
Also, her reaction did sound somewhat childish to me - stomping off to bed.
But an absolute conclusion - no. Do I probably stand by my thoughts - yes.
#78
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Jan 2007
Location: NW Chicago suburbs
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Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
But actually - I remember when I said "there are two sides" I was referring to the fact that he had one too - when he originally seemed to be figuring out how to make it up to her.
#79
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
This is why we do most of our laughing in bed at night.
FACT!
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#84
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
I agree with you on that. The cheapy plastic ones they install standard in homes now days suck. I'd love to have a nice deep tub like that. The kind you can fill up to your neck and still have some room before it starts draining out the safety outlet. To this day my mom craves the tub that we had in Germany. Good quality and super deep.
#85
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
I agree with you on that. The cheapy plastic ones they install standard in homes now days suck. I'd love to have a nice deep tub like that. The kind you can fill up to your neck and still have some room before it starts draining out the safety outlet. To this day my mom craves the tub that we had in Germany. Good quality and super deep.
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#86
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
Yep, and why not indeed... to luxuriate in a deep hot tub instead of a shallow type thing that offers virtually no real sense of bathing pleasure. My OH, when here, loves it, bathes in it, reads in it, and takes leisure time soaking away any stresses and strains. That, added with a nice glass of wine when desired ...
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Dammit! Where's Calgon when I need it.
#87
Militant Ginger
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Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
#88
Re: Marriage Troubleshooting Guide: Does anybody have one?
Les Cailloux or a nice Chardonnay, jeune dame? ...
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