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Originally Posted by SecretGarden
Well, it's good that you've been honest with her. However, USCIS doesn't give a hill of beans about your love for one another. Unfortunately, given your history, your separation may not be temporary. I do wish you luck, and make sure you get a very good attorney. But you may already have that covered.
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If it failed here, Europe would have to be a substitute for both of us, nothing will keep us apart.
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Originally Posted by BigTroubleinLittleChina
If it failed here, Europe would have to be a substitute for both of us, nothing will keep us apart.
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Originally Posted by SecretGarden
Well, it's good that you've been honest with her. However, USCIS doesn't give a hill of beans about your love for one another. Unfortunately, given your history, your separation may not be temporary.
I may have said this before, but it always bears repeating: the UK is a beautiful country
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Originally Posted by Elvira
Not sure about that. There probably is no reason why the future Mrs-BTILC cannot move to the UK.
I may have said this before, but it always bears repeating: the UK is a beautiful country![Wink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif)
I may have said this before, but it always bears repeating: the UK is a beautiful country
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Although it would be such a shame to have gone and
screwed up my chances here, this really is a land of
opportunity for me, even in my position.
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Originally Posted by Rete
Don't think he can find one of those.
But he can find an immigration attorney.
But he can find an immigration attorney.
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Bet your friends call you "Razor"
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Whereas those whom she pi$$es off call her Limburger...
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Originally Posted by Elvira
Not sure about that. There probably is no reason why the future Mrs-BTILC cannot move to the UK.
I may have said this before, but it always bears repeating: the UK is a beautiful country![Wink](https://britishexpats.com/forum/images/smilies/wink.gif)
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Originally Posted by SecretGarden
I never said that she wouldn't be able to move to the UK, but there is a process that he would have to go through for her to be able to do that legally. That's what I meant.
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Sorry, I must have misinterpreted your comment that "Unfortunately, given your history, your separation may not be temporary"...
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... Update
I made undoubtedly some interesting discoveries this weekend.
Firstly, I've had a discussion with a Senior CID officer on Friday, with whom I left a contact number in the UK for any further communication. He also remembered my mystery disappearance and guessed I was in America by the hint of accent, "Not such a great thing really".
The response (which came quickly) although not 100% clear from my Brother's translation was that the original charge against me was in fact dropped and the people(s) involved were fined and served no prison time.
It is also by his account a court matter for not attending on the given date, although apparently, no warrant exists for my arrest.
So I spoke with a solicitor who operates on a weekend and she said that this matter could possibly settled out of court with a fine, but I would need a representative and a statement to be read inside the Country if I have any hope of being acquitted.
I also have had an offer from a very close friend for a sponsorship.
It's a legitimate offer and perfectly within the bounds of my profession.
I know what I have done pi$$es some of you off and I except responsibility for what may appear selfish.
But there maybe a chance of leaving the Country somewhat un-noticed and re-entering the legal route.
That kind of information I can ask of my lawyer when we meet later this week.
I made undoubtedly some interesting discoveries this weekend.
Firstly, I've had a discussion with a Senior CID officer on Friday, with whom I left a contact number in the UK for any further communication. He also remembered my mystery disappearance and guessed I was in America by the hint of accent, "Not such a great thing really".
The response (which came quickly) although not 100% clear from my Brother's translation was that the original charge against me was in fact dropped and the people(s) involved were fined and served no prison time.
It is also by his account a court matter for not attending on the given date, although apparently, no warrant exists for my arrest.
So I spoke with a solicitor who operates on a weekend and she said that this matter could possibly settled out of court with a fine, but I would need a representative and a statement to be read inside the Country if I have any hope of being acquitted.
I also have had an offer from a very close friend for a sponsorship.
It's a legitimate offer and perfectly within the bounds of my profession.
I know what I have done pi$$es some of you off and I except responsibility for what may appear selfish.
But there maybe a chance of leaving the Country somewhat un-noticed and re-entering the legal route.
That kind of information I can ask of my lawyer when we meet later this week.
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Originally Posted by BigTroubleinLittleChina
So I spoke with a solicitor who operates on a weekend ...
*snip*
But there maybe a chance of leaving the Country somewhat un-noticed and re-entering the legal route.
*snip*
But there maybe a chance of leaving the Country somewhat un-noticed and re-entering the legal route.
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Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
Did this attorney mention that if you leave the US -- married to a USC or not -- you will be banned from the country for 10 years? Or did you not tell her about your new sponsorship plans?
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Can not say I could be bothered to read all the pages, has the IRS issue been dealt with?
The one thing certain is that they will want their pound of flesh.
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Originally Posted by BigTroubleinLittleChina
So I spoke with a solicitor who operates on a weekend and she said that this matter could possibly settled out of court with a fine, but I would need a representative and a statement to be read inside the Country if I have any hope of being acquitted.
Leaving the US now before marriage AOS will make life much more complicated.
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Note the un-noticed remark in his post.
Who gives a chit about this character. He is above the law and can get away with it (at least he hopes so). Will probably enter Canada or Mexico, fly to the UK and return the same way with a driver's license.
He won't be the first to overcome hurdles and won't be the last to do it and get away with it.
Note the un-noticed remark in his post.
Who gives a chit about this character. He is above the law and can get away with it (at least he hopes so). Will probably enter Canada or Mexico, fly to the UK and return the same way with a driver's license.
He won't be the first to overcome hurdles and won't be the last to do it and get away with it.
Originally Posted by Jenney & Mark
Did this attorney mention that if you leave the US -- married to a USC or not -- you will be banned from the country for 10 years? Or did you not tell her about your new sponsorship plans?
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