lpdiver

AllI can add is that anger and hate will net you nothing but an ulser. Learn from your mistake, determine the root cause an move on. If you are uncomfortable with your old attorney get another and move on. Don't get sucked into wasting time and energy on the past errors. (Lots of luck litigating against a lawyer)

Anthony Y Angela

"Patience is a virtue and everybody should have one" or maybe from the old poster of a vulture looking over a clean road..."patience my @ss..'I'm gonna Kill something' "

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Follow what the government has told you.


"cutenurse300" <member13197@british_expats.com> wrote in message
news:[email protected]...
    > Hi Folinskyinla,
    > Ye probably the best thing to send the whole package,even our lawyer
    > told that wouldn t be necessairly...but we don t wana have more risks
    > tough.Thank you for your help!
    > --
    > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

Mrtravel

. wrote:

    > Leave the should and would somewhere else in this case. The problem has
    > alread been occurred. Solving it is the only problem.

Are you suggesting that opinion be banned from the newsgroup and we have
no right expressing our feelings on someone deciding not to pay child
support and using the excuse that it was because they went to college?
Sorry, there are quite a few fathers that manage to attend college and
work to support their families. Newsgroups are a proper place for opinions.

Ron P

what is the name of the lawyer? Do you live in australia cutenurse?





"Ron P" <[email protected]> wrote in message
news:[email protected]...
    > this story has ruined my day....
    > "Matthew Udall" <member3997@british_expats.com> wrote in message
    > news:[email protected]...
    > >
    > > Originally posted by cutenurse300
    > >
    > > > Hi Matthew,
    > >
    > > > Our lawyer knew about the divorce and we even asked him if it wasn t
    > > > better to wait,but he said we could try anyways and the worst case
    > > > would be to let us wait but not from being denied.We tought we hired a
    > > > good "Boston immigrationlawyer",but we re very dissapointed now!
    > > >
    > >
    > >
    > >
    > > Again, if the attorney knew the divorce was not yet final but filed
    > > anyway, that says to me that your fiancée selected an attorney who
    > > obviously did not know this "very basic" eligibility requirement
    > > relating to fiancée visa submissions.
    > >
    > >
    > >
    > > Don't judge how good an attorney is by where it is they practice.
    > > Granted, Boston is a fabulous city and I enjoyed my stay there very much
    > > during a recent national AILA conference, but I would tend to want to
    > > know how many prior fiancée cases he had worked prior to yours and not
    > > so much where he is located in the U.S.
    > >
    > >
    > >
    > > This "Pasadena" (CA.) based attorney would have spotted the issue and
    > > would not have made that same beginner mistake.
    > >
    > >
    > > --
    > > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

tupperwareparty

i wonder is the USC is leveling with cutenurse.

there is just something wrong here.


I dont believe that cutenurse has been told the truth here

Andrew Defaria

cutenurse300 wrote:

    > Hi Folinskyinla,
    > Ye probably the best thing to send the whole package,even our lawyer
    > told that wouldn t be necessairly...but we don t wana have more risks
    > tough.Thank you for your help!

Your "lawyer" also said it wouldn't be a problem. Question is do you
trust him now? I wouldn't. Perosnally I'd ask for a refund! I would also
report him to ALIA. I happen to believe in giving credit where credit is
due but likewise giving blame where blame is due (if it is truly due
that is)! If I were to be his next client I sure would appreciate it if
his previous clients pointed out how satisfied or unsatisfied they were
with his service.
===
Obligatory witty line: I thought about how mothers feed their babies
with tiny little spoons and forks so I wondered, what do Chinese mothers
use? Toothpicks?

Ron P

Something is wrong here. Someone has allowed the process to be sabatoged on
purpose. The directions are just as clear as they can be... You have to be
free and clear to marry. Its all over the place...

Something doesnt add up here.

"lpdiver" <member15505@british_expats.com> wrote in message
news:[email protected]...
    > Originally posted by cutenurse300
    > > I m feeling terrible now after so long waiting and after RFE sended on
    > > july the 8 th our application got denied!Our lawyer just called us
    > > with this terrible news ...and we got to file again from the
    > > beginning!Reason is that the time we filed our petition my fiance (US)
    > > divorce wasn t finalized..in MA the divorce is final after 90 days!!
    > > So starting again from the beginning!!!
    > > I m so depressed now..why did they even asked a RFE THEN
    > AllI can add is that anger and hate will net you nothing but an ulser.
    > Learn from your mistake, determine the root cause an move on. If you are
    > uncomfortable with your old attorney get another and move on. Don't get
    > sucked into wasting time and energy on the past errors. (Lots of luck
    > litigating against a lawyer)
    > Anthony Y Angela
    > "Patience is a virtue and everybody should have one" or maybe from the
    > old poster of a vulture looking over a clean road..."patience my
    > @ss..'I'm gonna Kill something' "
    > --
    > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

cutenurse300

Please don t judge about our lives..it s a very difficult time,but we have to go trough this.
And my fiance told me the truth,there are no lies in this case,nothing like that,so don t judge about this case..unless you have been in this situation.
I just wanted to post it to avoid that anyone else would make this mistake,and i wish everybody good luck!!!

tupperwareparty

what is your next move now?

Surely you dont have to start all over again.

cutenurse300

Well tupperwareparty...we have to refile the case..and ye we have to start the waiting from the beginning...starting counting the days again

Tuts

cutenurse300 <member13197@british_expats.com> wrote in message news:<[email protected]>...
    > I m feeling terrible now after so long waiting and after RFE sended on
    > july the 8 th our application got denied!Our lawyer just called us with
    > this terrible news ...and we got to file again from the beginning!Reason
    > is that the time we filed our petition my fiance (US) divorce wasn t
    > finalized..in MA the divorce is final after 90 days!!
    >
    > So starting again from the beginning!!!
    >
    > I m so depressed now..why did they even asked a RFE THEN

We (my fiancee and I) deeply sympathize Cutenurse. I can only say that
be strong and dont get discourage. LOVE conquers ALL. Since you
learned a lot of this already from the experience and this NG, I would
rather suggest you do it yourself now. No, lawyer. Coz he should know
the problem in first place. Well, just hang on my friend. This happen
for a reason or two. But always remember, God knows whats best for
you! so cheer up!

Tuts & Bujs

Endymion

Ohhh, sweetheart- I just cannot believe what I just read- I am so very very sorry.

I will write more later- what an awful start to the day...

Please keep your chin up- nothing can keep you from your loved one.

I know it must sound stupid- but I will pray that now that Vermont is speeding up again you will go through the follow-up application like a breeze...

Thinking of you-

Hug from Germany,

Rebecca.

Andrew Defaria

cutenurse300 wrote:

    > Please don t judge about our lives..it s a very difficult time,but we
    > have to go trough this.
    > And my fiance told me the truth,there are no lies in this case,nothing
    > like that,so don t judge about this case..unless you have been in this
    > situation.
    > I just wanted to post it to avoid that anyone else would make this
    > mistake,and i wish everybody good luck!!!

I don't think that people judging as much as they are saying that this
is a possibility. Sure you're in love and you have little reason to
doubt your beloved. But then again these things do happen too. It's just
something to consider as a possibility. Sure everybody thinks this could
not happen to them, that their loved one is indeed telling the truth,
and indeed they might. Then again they might not also or they may be
leaving out some critical detail about something. It's just something to
check.

Assuming that things are what they say they are I'm sure everybody here
feels your pain and wishes they could help in some way.

Personally I would feel horrified by the actions or inactions of your
lawyer and would want some form of "compensation". He has put you two in
a terrible situation and there is no reason why you should have to bear
that burden. Again, as I said before, I think that people should be held
accountable to their actions and when they screw up it should be called
out big time. That's why I say you should report such an obvious
oversight to the proper authorities, in this the ALIA assuming he's a
member, so that other people down the road can benefit from your
experience. If it was truly a mistake (as simple of a mistake as it
seems) it should be noted so that he will have motivation to correct the
mistake.

Hopefully something can be done so as to push your application along.
===
Obligatory witty line: The beatings will continue until morale improves.

Ron P

"Ron P" <[email protected]> wrote in message
news:[email protected]..
    > The Sept 03 thread started by Catwhiskers covered this subject , which is
    > interesting, but too late with the information I guess. I find it had to
    > believe the lawyer didnt know about this, but if that is true, you dont
have
    > an immigration lawyer, you have a lawyer who is not familiar with
    > immigration law,. and you would be better off without him. He could likely
    > cause you more trouble down the road.
    > Dont get me wrong, I think this is realy awful news. I wouldnt be able to
    > handle it myself.
    > "cutenurse300" <member13197@british_expats.com> wrote in message
    > news:[email protected]...
    > >
    > > I m feeling terrible now after so long waiting and after RFE sended on
    > > july the 8 th our application got denied!Our lawyer just called us with
    > > this terrible news ...and we got to file again from the beginning!Reason
    > > is that the time we filed our petition my fiance (US) divorce wasn t
    > > finalized..in MA the divorce is final after 90 days!!
    > >
    > > So starting again from the beginning!!!
    > >
    > > I m so depressed now..why did they even asked a RFE THEN
    > >
    > >
    > > --
    > > Posted via http://britishexpats.com

davewilliams

Just a thought - Cutenurse, is it possible you two can meet up in Canada and get married there to start the I-130/K3 route which can often be quicker?

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think a USC can visit Canada with just his driving licence instead of a passport?

Dave