Fiance Visa Denied::can T Believe This!
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Originally posted by Leslie66
I think there are more troll's than regular posters anymore. I like the idea of a tRoll call. I dare you to start one.
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I think there are more troll's than regular posters anymore. I like the idea of a tRoll call. I dare you to start one.
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I have to disagree with you Ms Tupperware, on the contrary, I have found Americans friendly and helpful. You will find a few who are rude and some aspire to have the brains of a donkey but that's the same in Ireland, Wales, England and Scotland.
This forum is not just made up of Americans. Many who contribute to this forum would have preferred to have stayed in their home country as well but they came here for love and they are prepared to learn to settle in America. Believe me, it is a learning curve as we have two different cultures.
However, if you come here with an open mind then you will be accepted, come here with negative views then it won't be long before you are on the plane home!
If you have never been around Americans then I suggest you should visit the USA as soon as possible so that you will understand why your fiance will take time to settle in Ireland.
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tupperwareparty wrote:
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> You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have
> never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few
> days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many
> have the brains of a donkey...
Yep, "they are rude", but yet you still are going to marry one.
Oh yeah, I forgot, he is the exception..............
Better change your name, "Tupperware" is an American creation.
And, Tupperware Party is example of capitalism at its root, selling
things to friends and neighbors at a "party".
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> You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have
> never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few
> days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many
> have the brains of a donkey...
Yep, "they are rude", but yet you still are going to marry one.
Oh yeah, I forgot, he is the exception..............
Better change your name, "Tupperware" is an American creation.
And, Tupperware Party is example of capitalism at its root, selling
things to friends and neighbors at a "party".
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Originally posted by tupperwareparty
let me just offer this in case you had not thought of it cutenurse... I spoke with my man today and we are cancelling the K-1 petition and he is coming here to marry me and live here.
We will have some visa things to go through here, but nothing like Nebraska.
Im very happy that we will be married soon.
You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many have the brains of a donkey...
I hope you get to be with your man soon, I know I will be.
goodbye
let me just offer this in case you had not thought of it cutenurse... I spoke with my man today and we are cancelling the K-1 petition and he is coming here to marry me and live here.
We will have some visa things to go through here, but nothing like Nebraska.
Im very happy that we will be married soon.
You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many have the brains of a donkey...
I hope you get to be with your man soon, I know I will be.
goodbye
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Folinskyinla wrote:
> The law can be mighty strange at times. One of my favorite items on
> "conflicts" is the following scenario:
> H marries W-1
> H "marries" W-2
> H divorcesW-1.
> Are H and W-2 validly married? If the "marriage" takes place in
> California, then the answer is not only "no" it is "definitely not".
I would think not because H "marries" W-2 is not a legal marriage. Guess
I agree with California.
> However, take a look at what happens if the "marriage" takes place in
> Texas -- then H-1 and W-2 ARE married -- the act completing the
> marriage being the divorce.
If, if in Utah, you don't even need to divorce W-1! :-)
But, back on topic, with a fiance you are not married. Don't know why
the BCIS is such a stickler on this. Seems to me they could relax it to
"you must be legally single by the time of approval" or even "you must
be legally single before we'll let your potential spouse in the US". The
point is that you must be able to carry out the marriage. If they block
the alien from entering if you are not ready yet that seems enough to me
to fulfill the intent of the law. IMHO.
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> The law can be mighty strange at times. One of my favorite items on
> "conflicts" is the following scenario:
> H marries W-1
> H "marries" W-2
> H divorcesW-1.
> Are H and W-2 validly married? If the "marriage" takes place in
> California, then the answer is not only "no" it is "definitely not".
I would think not because H "marries" W-2 is not a legal marriage. Guess
I agree with California.
> However, take a look at what happens if the "marriage" takes place in
> Texas -- then H-1 and W-2 ARE married -- the act completing the
> marriage being the divorce.
If, if in Utah, you don't even need to divorce W-1! :-)
But, back on topic, with a fiance you are not married. Don't know why
the BCIS is such a stickler on this. Seems to me they could relax it to
"you must be legally single by the time of approval" or even "you must
be legally single before we'll let your potential spouse in the US". The
point is that you must be able to carry out the marriage. If they block
the alien from entering if you are not ready yet that seems enough to me
to fulfill the intent of the law. IMHO.
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tupperwareparty wrote:
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>
> You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have
> never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few
> days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many
> have the brains of a donkey...
>
Let me say this, I've been to several other countries and there are rude
people there also. So, don't be making it look like only Americans are
rude. Not only that, not all Americans are rude. It's not good to
generalize.
Anyway, good luck in your relationship.
An American.
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> You may want to do the same, why put up with all this hassle. I have
> never been around americans, but after being around this forum a few
> days, I realized I dont want any part of them. They are rude and many
> have the brains of a donkey...
>
Let me say this, I've been to several other countries and there are rude
people there also. So, don't be making it look like only Americans are
rude. Not only that, not all Americans are rude. It's not good to
generalize.
Anyway, good luck in your relationship.
An American.
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Originally posted by Folinskyinla
Now, I wonder what if the following scenario in Texas [and I don't know the answer, but its fun to speculate].
H-1 marries W-1
H-1 "marries" W-2
H-1 and W-2 separate without any annulment or divorce
W-2 then marries H-2
H-1 divorces W-1.
Query: who is W-2 married to?
Now, I wonder what if the following scenario in Texas [and I don't know the answer, but its fun to speculate].
H-1 marries W-1
H-1 "marries" W-2
H-1 and W-2 separate without any annulment or divorce
W-2 then marries H-2
H-1 divorces W-1.
Query: who is W-2 married to?
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Notice to anyone
I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was attacked by the
troll named Dekka..
you can read it for yourselves and make up
your own minds.
this person Dekka should not be allowed the support of people if she is going to attack people for posting nice things to other people
I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was attacked by the
troll named Dekka..
you can read it for yourselves and make up
your own minds.
this person Dekka should not be allowed the support of people if she is going to attack people for posting nice things to other people
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I wouldn't know because I can't read and I won't apologize when I am wrong.
I must be a lying troll who cant read.
"John Henry" <member226@british_expats.com> wrote in message
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> Originally posted by cutenurse300
> > Please don t judge about our lives..it s a very difficult time,but we
> > have to go trough this.
> > And my fiance told me the truth,there are no lies in this case,nothing
> > like that,so don t judge about this case..unless you have been in this
> > situation.
> > I just wanted to post it to avoid that anyone else would make this
> > mistake,and i wish everybody good luck!!!
> Your story just makes me laugh, come on your man is lying to you.
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I must be a lying troll who cant read.
"John Henry" <member226@british_expats.com> wrote in message
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> Originally posted by cutenurse300
> > Please don t judge about our lives..it s a very difficult time,but we
> > have to go trough this.
> > And my fiance told me the truth,there are no lies in this case,nothing
> > like that,so don t judge about this case..unless you have been in this
> > situation.
> > I just wanted to post it to avoid that anyone else would make this
> > mistake,and i wish everybody good luck!!!
> Your story just makes me laugh, come on your man is lying to you.
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I wouldn't know because I can't read and I won't apologize when I am wrong.
I must be a lying troll who cant read.
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> Hi Cute Nurse:
> This is terrible news. I was sure you were close to getting an
> approval and now this. It has to be so depressing for you right now.
> I would take Folinskylina's advice and send them an entire new
> application along with the denial. Leaving out previous encounters
> only leads to further delays while they put it on the shelf and then
> check it out. Once they have to check out something then your
> looking at exta months. I am sure this is what happened to us before
> we were approved because I did not include a separate letter with
> explanation that I had cancelled a previous K1 because it was not
> going to work out.
> Although its agonizing for you right now if you really love each
> other you will get through this and it will happen because other
> than the fact you filed too early you have done nothing else wrong
> to be denied. Whoever is to blame for this doesn't matter if you
> long term goal is to marry this man. So go for it girl!!
> Bob the Canadian
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I must be a lying troll who cant read.
"rnessman" <[email protected]> wrote in message
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> Hi Cute Nurse:
> This is terrible news. I was sure you were close to getting an
> approval and now this. It has to be so depressing for you right now.
> I would take Folinskylina's advice and send them an entire new
> application along with the denial. Leaving out previous encounters
> only leads to further delays while they put it on the shelf and then
> check it out. Once they have to check out something then your
> looking at exta months. I am sure this is what happened to us before
> we were approved because I did not include a separate letter with
> explanation that I had cancelled a previous K1 because it was not
> going to work out.
> Although its agonizing for you right now if you really love each
> other you will get through this and it will happen because other
> than the fact you filed too early you have done nothing else wrong
> to be denied. Whoever is to blame for this doesn't matter if you
> long term goal is to marry this man. So go for it girl!!
> Bob the Canadian
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> Bob
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tupperwareparty wrote:
> Notice to anyone
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> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was
> attacked by the
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> troll named Dekka..
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It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
Look at the headers.
> Notice to anyone
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> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was
> attacked by the
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> troll named Dekka..
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It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
Look at the headers.
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Originally posted by Mrtravel
tupperwareparty wrote:
> Notice to anyone
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> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was
> attacked by the
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> troll named Dekka..
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It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
Look at the headers.
tupperwareparty wrote:
> Notice to anyone
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> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I was
> attacked by the
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> troll named Dekka..
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It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
Look at the headers.
Thanks for sticking up for me, Mr. Travel. And, for anyone who actually for a hot minute thought it might have been me - check the punctuation, especially in my name, and grammar
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mrtravel wrote:
> tupperwareparty wrote:
>> Notice to anyone
>> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I
>> was attacked by the
>> troll named Dekka..
> It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
> Look at the headers.
More like a virus. Some 100 responses with relatively the same message.
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> tupperwareparty wrote:
>> Notice to anyone
>> I posted a nice comment to this lady who started this thread and I
>> was attacked by the
>> troll named Dekka..
> It wasn't Dekka, it was an imposter.
> Look at the headers.
More like a virus. Some 100 responses with relatively the same message.
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Originally posted by Andrew Defaria
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I have to say, I was howling with laughter when I read this!!!! My brother asked my mum the exact same question when he was little!!!! Thanks for the early morning giggle!!!!
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I read the posts where the lady from overseas said something nice to cutenurse and then that bitch Dekka attacked her.
I am very unhappy with the group now.
I am active again. I had quit, but now I saw what you did to that lady...
You deserve what you get.
I am very unhappy with the group now.
I am active again. I had quit, but now I saw what you did to that lady...
You deserve what you get.