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joelsa Sep 25th 2009 1:37 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by ann m (Post 7963255)
We live in a general state of "stuff" on most surfaces because I can't be bothered to pick up everything and kids can't be bothered to put one thing away. My hubby is generally much more tidy than the three females in the house - and he's much better at clearing up after a day out ski'ing, or camping, holidaying etc - he just puts everything away, straight away. I would dump in on the floor and get round to it sometime in the next week or two.

We're mostly pretty clean though under all that, somehow. Loos, bathrooms and beds are good (though they don't get made everyday!).

I find the best way to clean the house is to invite someone over for dinner. Then I am a pedantic pain in the backside from 9am until they arrive and every single thing gets put away and tidied - and if it doesn't move, it gets bleached! Mostly, I am 'take me as you find me' but a dinner invitation is special!

Edit for fledermaus. I don't care if other people's houses are untidy, but if the bathroom for example was grubby or the kitchen was dirty, I'd be really put off. Your messy paperwork just makes me feel comfortable and normal!

Ann, i couldn't have put it better myself. We have loads of 'stuff' (especially since the kids started back at school and come home with endless bits of paper)
We're never having another island in the kitchen according to DH as it's a dumping ground for all our 'stuff'.

OH is (in my opinion) slightly OCD and likes it all neat and tidy but i think he's realised over the years that 3 kids and 'neat & tidy" don't go together.
I like that he is like that, though, as i fear i would let it pile up too much.

He's also a great one for putting everything away after a trip skate/ski or camping and has all his papers properly filed away.

I'm not a perpetual bleacher, there isn't any aspect of housework that i enjoy doing. I'm of the "a bit of dirt, never hurt" ilk. Life's too short to stuff a mushroom, and all that. But i do it out of necessity.

I too would feal uneasy in someone's house if it was like a showhome, but if we had company coming, everything would be cleaned, tidied and bleached (DH likes this;))

Eldest daughter is showing signs of being like DH :thumbsup:(yippee - a free maid;))

dazzlerdaz Sep 26th 2009 1:41 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Oink (Post 7962671)
Given the title this is such a disappointing thread.:thumbdown:

:confused:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Slut

mandymoochops Sep 26th 2009 2:43 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 
Welcome back :)

DaveLovesDee Sep 27th 2009 5:36 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7963239)
So does my OH, she gets one.

Where does he go when you're home? :p


Originally Posted by Souvy (Post 7964472)
Cleaning comes in campaigns. It is not unknown for her to go at the tiles wih a toothbrush.

Hopefully not yours if she's mad at you! :p :sneaky:


Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 7965205)
Oh christ friends and alcohol used to be a cause of the mess back in the day :blink: :lol:




Originally Posted by fledermaus (Post 7965580)
I worry that my house is smelly. Stuffy and smelly.

Your house looked great, and your OH is a great guy. I'm sure you make a wonderful couple. :thumbsup:

fledermaus Sep 27th 2009 5:44 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by CaptainHook (Post 7969359)
Your house looked great, and your OH is a great guy. I'm sure you make a wonderful couple. :thumbsup:

Aww, we do make people wonder sometimes..;)

Dave+Jules Sep 27th 2009 8:05 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7962149)
If I was you C, I'd threaten them with having to listen to Mika and watch Videos of their Mum dancing with big fluffy dogs.

:rofl:

Dave+Jules Sep 27th 2009 8:10 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 
We took an oath of homeship when we got married.:D

"A home has to look lived in and not like some builders show house, we shall not tidy up obsessively and we will not make people take their shoes off before they walk on the carpet.":thumbup:

However, I do not like seeing skidmarks in the toilet, or coffee stains on the kitchen worktops... :thumbdown: This puts me off even accepting a cup of coffee.

When the girls where young little tykes, Jules has been known to pick everything up to hoover the floor then put it all back down so it looks like a home:rofl:

ann m Sep 27th 2009 1:14 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by joelsa (Post 7966189)
Ann, i couldn't have put it better myself.
.... (yippee - a free maid;))

:thumbsup: Well done !



Originally Posted by Dave+Jules (Post 7969575)
Jules has been known to pick everything up to hoover the floor then put it all back down so it looks like a home:rofl:

Love that idea - what a clever girl :lol:

iaink Sep 28th 2009 12:50 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Novocastrian (Post 7965596)
Iain's a scouser. He won't understand that.

:rolleyes:Why wont that bit of misinformation die?

DaveLovesDee Sep 28th 2009 3:45 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7971437)
:rolleyes:Why wont that bit of misinformation die?

Yes. I thought Steve P was the Scouser? Aren't you a Scot?

iaink Sep 28th 2009 3:57 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by CaptainHook (Post 7971822)
Yes. I thought Steve P was the Scouser? Aren't you a Scot?

No, only the spelling of my name and a couple of grandparents are scottish...

dollface Sep 28th 2009 2:16 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7971856)
No, only the spelling of my name and a couple of grandparents are scottish...

Then, what are you??:sneaky:

fledermaus Sep 28th 2009 2:18 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by dollface (Post 7973332)
Then, what are you??:sneaky:

I used to think he was Bedfordian

Dave+Jules Sep 28th 2009 2:30 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by dollface (Post 7973332)
Then, what are you??:sneaky:

Weird

dollface Sep 28th 2009 2:34 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Dave+Jules (Post 7973375)
Weird

apart from that:rolleyes:

DaveLovesDee Sep 28th 2009 3:47 pm

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by dollface (Post 7973332)
Then, what are you??:sneaky:

A moderator :p.

iaink Sep 29th 2009 12:31 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by dollface (Post 7973332)
Then, what are you??:sneaky:

Not that it matters, I'm English, but moved around every 5 or so years until I left for Canada, with the exception of about 10 years on the wirral.

Miss Clinique Sep 29th 2009 2:13 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by The4BellsLondon (Post 7961806)
Am a bit anal and OCD - like it all tidy, put away and bleached to buggery!

Me too. If the house is not in show house condition, looking and smelling clean, tidy & fresh then I am not a happy bunny.

My husband - has learnt to live with it

Eldest daughter - thinks I am nuts

Youngest daughter - chip off the old block

Deva Sep 29th 2009 7:25 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7974466)
Not that it matters, I'm English, but moved around every 5 or so years until I left for Canada, with the exception of about 10 years on the wirral.

Does that 10 years make you a woolyback?

iaink Sep 29th 2009 7:30 am

Re: how much of a slut are you?
 

Originally Posted by Deva (Post 7975531)
Does that 10 years make you a woolyback?

Not really, I was in the posh bit, so to talk to me you would probably never know.


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