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Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 5:59 am
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Originally Posted by YYZlover
You do know that this country has produced more movies since "I am Yellow" in the late 60's? Not all Swedes are suicidal (as the Bergman movies would let you believe).
You'll love here in Canada, you'll have no trouble fitting in with the locals.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:01 am
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Originally Posted by dbd33
It would seem that none of the many women CEOs in the entertainment business in Canada even make it to the top 100 in terms of pay. Perhaps entertainment isn't very well paid.
Well, as I have no intention of being a CEO of any company in the entertainment industry then I'm not too bothered about it. I rarely follow top 100 lists of CEOs anywhere or for anything as it is of no interest to me. Which means your example has no impact on me or my decision to move to Canada.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:03 am
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The other week while i was eating my lunch on the couch, i was watching a music video being filmed on a boat in the crisp sunshine. The man lip sync rapping was flanked by a group of bikini clad women freezing their tits off while he wore a nice big hoodie and some very droopy pants.

They were the only women onboard that i noticed. I'm not surprised though.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:06 am
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Originally Posted by Oink
You'll love here in Canada, you'll have no trouble fitting in with the locals.
Strangely enough, none of my friends in Canada are British Expats (apart from one or two who moved to Canada at the age of 2 and have no memory of their first two years in UK 50 years ago).

In other words, you are absolutely correct.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:08 am
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Originally Posted by Alan2005
I went to a secondary modern. I don't remember there being any "parity of esteem". We knew we were scum compared to the posh grammar school kids which is why I have an inverse snob chip on my shoulder.
I left school at 16 in 1987. I don't know whether the 11+ was still in operation then but I didn't take it. I have to admit that I don't know what a secondary modern is or whether one only went to a grammar school if one's parents paid a fee. I went to my local school.

To be honest, I really don't care. I am definately not posh, nor would I want to be. I am not working class, middle class, upper class or any hyphenated combination of any of the above. At no point during my time as a carpenter, prison officer, soldier or lawyer have I ever felt above or below those I worked or socialized with, anywhere in the world.

I never experienced any form of "class system" in the UK but then I don't look at life through a victim's lens. I blame myself when I don't achieve that which I want to. I didn't care what size of house I had in England, nor do I concern myself with the size of my house in Calgary.

It appears to me that there are more than a few Pringle wearing drivers of Volvos on this forum. Stop naval gazing and live your life. Don't worry about what others are doing.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:12 am
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Originally Posted by YYZlover
Well, as I have no intention of being a CEO of any company in the entertainment industry then I'm not too bothered about it. I rarely follow top 100 lists of CEOs anywhere or for anything as it is of no interest to me. Which means your example has no impact on me or my decision to move to Canada.
Nonetheless, it's a indication of gender bias in Canadian remuneration practises. In my estimation, part of the "back to fifties" aspect of Canada that appeals to many posters, the streets safe for children thing, is the prevalent view that women should be barefoot and pregnant. Very few industries offer women a reasonably level playing field and those tend to be traditional female jobs such as nursing and teaching. I very much doubt that there actually are female CEOs of entertainment companies though I suppose the business names "Filmores", "House of Lancaster" do tend to be gender neutral so there might be a Ms. Filmore behind the brand.
 
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Originally Posted by YYZlover
Never said I do and never said "bla" either. Don't think I used the word in any of my posts on here.



I've never said it isn't. I've only spoken out of my experience, how it's come across to me and what I've seen.



And where do 90% (or more) of them come from, including yourself?

I rest my case.
I'm not sure what case you have, or what position you are trying to put forward, to be honest. But you are giving it a good go!

In your earlier post, you inferred that you are ignored and not taken seriously due to your gender. You appear to believe that this will not be the case in Canada. As someone who lives in Canada, I have asserted that these attitudes exist here, just as they exist everywhere.

Now, you don't need to whittle things down to your exact job to accept that, in wider Canadian society, gender discrimination exists. Also, travelling and visting places is not the same as living there and working there. Other people have covered the point that wild generallisations about "Europe" (really...all of it?) do nothing to add credibility to your discussion.

You come across as feeling quite strongly about this matter as evidenced below, and quite rightly so, but living in Canada is not like living in some sort of gender equal bubble, it just isn't. It may be better in your chosen job, or it may not, but I assume that you will interact with people outside of work.

90% of this forum? I'll guess at them being British but I neither know nor particularly care. These are people who live in Canada, that was the point. How do you imagine that, on a global gender discrimination scale, the UK compares to, for example, UAE? Then consider the demographics of Toronto.

Originally Posted by YYZlover
Really? Is it my fault that in UK I was treated as my business partner's secretary while I was the Managing Director? It couldn't possibly be the male chauvinistic attitude that is permeating the country, could it?

Is it also my fault that in my chosen profession, most women are ignored and not taken seriously? And sorry to say, it is like that all over Europe. While in North America (not just Canada), I see more women in power being respected and women in my industry being accepted, respected and promoted than anywhere in Europe.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:21 am
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Originally Posted by Almost Canadian
I left school at 16 in 1987. I don't know whether the 11+ was still in operation then but I didn't take it. I have to admit that I don't know what a secondary modern is or whether one only went to a grammar school if one's parents paid a fee. I went to my local school.

To be honest, I really don't care. I am definately not posh, nor would I want to be. I am not working class, middle class, upper class or any hyphenated combination of any of the above. At no point during my time as a carpenter, prison officer, soldier or lawyer have I ever felt above or below those I worked or socialized with, anywhere in the world.

I never experienced any form of "class system" in the UK but then I don't look at life through a victim's lens. I blame myself when I don't achieve that which I want to. I didn't care what size of house I had in England, nor do I concern myself with the size of my house in Calgary.

It appears to me that there are more than a few Pringle wearing drivers of Volvos on this forum. Stop naval gazing and live your life. Don't worry about what others are doing.

After the 1944 Education Act the UK which effectively introduced secondary education to the masses, the state/public system was divided into different types of schools; Grammar, Technical and Modern. And as noted above there was meant to a parity of status between the three types. Of course that was complete bollox which then necessitated the introduction of the comprehensive system under the Labour government of Wilson. Depending where you lived in the UK you might have gone to one of them.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:31 am
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Originally Posted by Oink
After the 1944 Education Act the UK which effectively introduced secondary education to the masses, the state/public system was divided into different types of schools; Grammar, Technical and Modern. And as noted above there was meant to a parity of status between the three types. Of course that was complete bollox which then necessitated the introduction of the comprehensive system under the Labour government of Wilson. Depending where you lived in the UK you might have gone to one of them.
I went to a Comprehensive, Guv'nor <tugs forelock>. But then I'm a product of a working class boy made good, married to a middle class girl. I feel neither opressed by, nor concious of my class. Which is perhaps the most middle class trait that I exhibit.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:36 am
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Originally Posted by YYZlover
Sorry, it wasn't my partner doing it. It was the men we went to for business meetings. My partner tried to include me a much as he possibly could. In the end I got so fed up with it that I didn't want to go to them.



Entertainment industry (take a pick).

Yes, I know, casting couch in Hollywood, the objectification of women in movies and even female musicians showing skin to sell albums, etc. It's not helping, but strangely there are more women climbing the corporate ladder in North America within that industry than here. At least that's how it is coming across to me.

The swedish film board hands out grants to directors each year. They are supposed to give 40% of the grants to female directors. Out of 16 directors given grants, 2 were women. The film board's reason is that female directors have it more difficult to find investments from the private sector such as venture capitalists and angels. Now, why would the VCs and Angels put money on the table if the film board won't? Get the same script with a male director and the money is there.
That's weird.

From what little I know, one of the problems here is that there just aren't enough women interested in being directors/screenwriters. The OH used to be involved in a film competition here but they found it a struggle to get women to participate in anywhere close to teh numbers the men did as directors. Producers - yes. Other kinds of film jobs (set dec, actors etc) yes. But for whatever reason, there are a lot less women directors/screenwriters, so the pool of talent is much smaller to begin with. It's something the industry is aware of but I don't know what the answer is. I tried screenwriting for a while and haaaated it.

Having said that, there are women doing very well in this business in BC at senior levels...however as I said before they tend to be on the production/business side. Maybe TO is different, I dunno.
 
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Originally Posted by Oink
To be fair, the essence of most "Swedish entertainment" tends to objectify women.
My teenage nephew has a few of those dvd's stashed under his bed
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:42 am
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Originally Posted by Atlantic Xpat
I went to a Comprehensive, Guv'nor <tugs forelock>. But then I'm a product of a working class boy made good, married to a middle class girl. I feel neither opressed by, nor concious of my class. Which is perhaps the most middle class trait that I exhibit.
The denial of class as an explanatory variable is often propagated by those who benefited the most from it.

It's the social conditions rather than class itself that sabotaged the intelligence and educational choices of countless working class children.
 
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Originally Posted by Almost Canadian
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I'm not so far off that. I sat the 11+ and failed it and so went to the local secondary school, although it did change into a comprehensive a few years later. I left school with CSE's and one or two 'O' levels (that the so-called "brainy" kids had to stay after school to study). I remember that kids in the year after me did a 16+ exams which were the pre-cursor to GCSE's.
 
Old Jan 3rd 2012 | 6:54 am
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Originally Posted by Kiwilass
Having said that, there are women doing very well in this business in BC at senior levels...however as I said before they tend to be on the production/business side. Maybe TO is different, I dunno.
Spot on. That's what I already do (recently slipped in to from the music industry) I am and want to study. I don't have 20 years to spend fighting my way in to the industry on a full time basis so I have opted to study it. And as a lot of hollywood productions go to Canada then, again - my opinion, the people who know how to do the job properly would be in Canada. I have actually looked at schools here but they can't hold a candle to what I can learn in Canada.

I could consider going in to directing but I'm a realist and I don't think breaking in to that scene at the age of 46 is plausible. I do think my years in touring, problem solving, production assistant can be of use and are transferable skills. I still want an education though.
 
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Originally Posted by Atlantic Xpat
I went to a Comprehensive, Guv'nor <tugs forelock>. But then I'm a product of a working class boy made good, married to a middle class girl. I feel neither opressed by, nor concious of my class. Which is perhaps the most middle class trait that I exhibit.
The year I went to secondary school was the first year they had comprehensive intake. The school I was sent to was a former grammar school and all the years above us were selected entry. It was made abundantly clear that we were not the quality of children the staff hoped or expected to teach.

That said, this was also the first year of co-ed intake. I think some of the staff who taught the more creative subjects were secretly welcoming the introduction of some rough.
 


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