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Alan2005 Jul 29th 2009 8:50 am

Re: Advice please
 
Ahem...

Obviously I'm a bit bored, but this thread has made my day. Seriously, I doubt we'll see better all week (tell me I'm not the only one who thinks this is funny ... hooray for butch!)

christmasoompa Jul 29th 2009 8:53 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 7795923)
It's only fools like you who take pleasure in pushing the boundaries of acceptable use who get moderated at all. If you played by the rules the mods wouldn't have cause to get involved.

We've tried explaining that numerous times before, but it seems the select few that require our constant attention still don't get it. Clearly the 'break rules = mod action, don't break rules = mods leave you alone' concept is far too much for them to grasp.

iaink Jul 29th 2009 8:53 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7795916)
I could go on but I have work to do what I am trying to say is lets face it without people like Butch, FK & many others BE would be an anonymous site full of people with 25 posts each cause there would be little else to talk about.

On the other hand if the above site is the one you want keep it up.

I haven't been on in a while cause that all BE is during the summer.

There are many amusing and erudite posters here who can get a point across WITHOUT BREAKING THE RULES EVERY TWO DAYS. Losing one or more of them would not be the end of the world in my opinion.

As Oakvillian pointed out, the only reason for the mods to step in is if the rules that EVERYONE signed up to abide by get broken. Stick to the rules and is easy. If you want to persistently break the rules, then suffer the consequences.

The world will continue to spin on its axis regardless, and people will still be amused here from time to time by the 98% of posters that can follow simple instruction regarding their behaviour. The forum might actually be a better place for it. The peanut gallery is not universally loved, much as I hate to break it to you in this way. If anyone out there has feedback in that regard, feel free to PM me (all comments kept in anonymity of course) Lets find out what people really think.

Beck77 Jul 29th 2009 8:56 am

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Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7795945)
There are many amusing and erudite posters here who can get a point across WITHOUT BREAKING THE RULES EVERY TWO DAYS. Losing one or more of them would not be the end of the world in my opinion.

As Oakvillian pointed out, the only reason for the mods to step in is if the rules that EVERYONE signed up to abide by get broken. Stick to the rules and is easy. If you want to persistently break the rules, then suffer the consequences.

The world will continue to spin on its axis regardless, and people will still be amused here from time to time by the 98% of posters that can follow simple instruction regarding their behaviour. The forum might actually be a better place for it. The peanut gallery is not universally loved, much as I hate to break it to you in this way. If anyone out there has feedback in that regard, feel free to PM me (all comments kept in anonymity of course) Lets find out what people really think.

What's the peanut gallery? :confused:

Also (don't tell me off for being off topic but the topic is Butch so not that serious!) but after I have posted a thread I have to come out of it and then go back in to see if anyone has updated. How come I can't just sit in here and watch the new posts come up?

:fingerscrossed: don't tell me off, don't tell me off, don't tell me off :fingerscrossed:

livermanl Jul 29th 2009 8:56 am

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Originally Posted by iaink (Post 7795945)
There are many amusing and erudite posters here who can get a point across WITHOUT BREAKING THE RULES EVERY TWO DAYS. Losing one or more of them would not be the end of the world in my opinion.

As Oakvillian pointed out, the only reason for the mods to step in is if the rules that EVERYONE signed up to abide by get broken. Stick to the rules and is easy. If you want to persistently break the rules, then suffer the consequences.

The world will continue to spin on its axis regardless, and people will still be amused here from time to time by the 98% of posters that can follow simple instruction regarding their behaviour. The forum might actually be a better place for it. The peanut gallery is not universally loved, much as I hate to break it to you in this way. If anyone out there has feedback in that regard, feel free to PM me (all comments kept in anonymity of course) Lets find out what people really think.

I'm sorry but my opinion will probably be backed up by many. The MOST important posters on this forum are Steve_P and DBD33, where are they nowadays???

BE is meant to be a service and sometimes a little sacrifice will keep these people around otherwise off they go and then BE becomes as useless as the threads inside of it.

Kate2112 Jul 29th 2009 8:57 am

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Golly do you have a pair of die or a magic 8 ball for the less important decisions?

Anyhoo

Option 4....Starting! NOW! - the only reasonable option and you suggested it!

Butch Cassidy Jul 29th 2009 8:59 am

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Originally Posted by Kate2112 (Post 7795955)
Golly do you have a pair of die or a magic 8 ball for the less important decisions?

Anyhoo

Option 4....Starting! NOW! - the only reasonable option and you suggested it!

OK, enjoy your time away. I'll miss you :wub:

MikeUK Jul 29th 2009 8:59 am

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Can we just move forward and somebody ban the fool and be done with it

iaink Jul 29th 2009 9:02 am

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"Most important posters":confused:

Thats a new one on me!

How exactly is that one to be defined. Posters come, posters go. Few stick around more than a couple of years in any case.

Of course, its a dangerous game to be putting your words in other people mouths, especially if there is a danger that they might not agree with your own assessment. DBDs posted 7 times today, and I got an email from Steve this morning.

christmasoompa Jul 29th 2009 9:04 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7795953)
I'm sorry but my opinion will probably be backed up by many. The MOST important posters on this forum are Steve_P and DBD33, where are they nowadays???

I'm sure DBD posted earlier today, and Steve was on a few days ago.

Your opinion may be backed up by a few, but believe me there are many other regulars that are sick to death with the constant rule breaking, inappropriate posts, cyber bullying, etc. The majority of people these days seem to be sick of it judging by the number of complaints and reported posts we get.

Butch Cassidy Jul 29th 2009 9:08 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7795953)
I'm sorry but my opinion will probably be backed up by many. The MOST important posters on this forum are Steve_P and DBD33, where are they nowadays???

Important? No. None of us are important.

Entertaining, amusing, interesting? They most definitely are (well along with the likes of Novo).

I dont really know why Souv left (I can hazard a guess though), I dont know why Biiiiink left (such a shame), I miss Steve and many others who came and went.

Some people leave because BE has served its purpose for them, some people leave because it can be too much of a clique, some people leave because of posters like me and some leave because they cant abide the current mods.

Someone suggested that this 'poll' could backfire on me and the majority could suggest I was 'removed' by one method or another. If thats the result by the time the poll closes then great I'll accept it.

Alan2005 Jul 29th 2009 9:09 am

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Originally Posted by Beck77 (Post 7795952)
What's the peanut gallery? :confused:

Also (don't tell me off for being off topic but the topic is Butch so not that serious!) but after I have posted a thread I have to come out of it and then go back in to see if anyone has updated. How come I can't just sit in here and watch the new posts come up?

:fingerscrossed: don't tell me off, don't tell me off, don't tell me off :fingerscrossed:

That's just how HTML works. You can refresh the page - or you can hit the 'my profile' button at the top. It will have all the threads that you have posted in that have new posts in.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peanut_gallery

Anyway - i'm back to enjoy the flouncing, especially as I'm now actually convinced this is one huge wind up...

Beck77 Jul 29th 2009 9:10 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7795977)
Important? No. None of us are important.

Entertaining, amusing, interesting? They most definitely are (well along with the likes of Novo).

I dont really know why Souv left (I can hazard a guess though), I dont know why Biiiiink left (such a shame), I miss Steve and many others who came and went.

Some people leave because BE has served its purpose for them, some people leave because it can be too much of a clique, some people leave because of posters like me and some leave because they cant abide the current mods.

Someone suggested that this 'poll' could backfire on me and the majority could suggest I was 'removed' by one method or another. If thats the result by the time the poll closes then great I'll accept it.

Are you secretly looking for an out? Like it's better to go in a blaze of glory than to just shuffle away quietly type thing?

(genuine ques, not being mean!)

Oakvillian Jul 29th 2009 9:11 am

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Originally Posted by Beck77 (Post 7795952)
What's the peanut gallery? :confused:

Also (don't tell me off for being off topic but the topic is Butch so not that serious!) but after I have posted a thread I have to come out of it and then go back in to see if anyone has updated. How come I can't just sit in here and watch the new posts come up?

:fingerscrossed: don't tell me off, don't tell me off, don't tell me off :fingerscrossed:

You can hit F5 on your keyboard (should work with any Windows browser, can't answer for the vagaries of MacOS) to refresh the page.

Oakvillian Jul 29th 2009 9:16 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7795977)
Someone suggested that this 'poll' could backfire on me and the majority could suggest I was 'removed' by one method or another. If thats the result by the time the poll closes then great I'll accept it.

So far it's looking good for carry on as you are and accept the consequences (i.e. prepare to be banned), followed by a self-imposed preemptive ban of yourself for however long. Seems fairly unequivocal to me.

Beck77 Jul 29th 2009 9:16 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 7795992)
You can hit F5 on your keyboard (should work with any Windows browser, can't answer for the vagaries of MacOS) to refresh the page.

It worked!!! You are a genius. It was doing my head in! :)

Kate2112 Jul 29th 2009 9:17 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7795959)
OK, enjoy your time away. I'll miss you :wub:

Hey it was your idea, you go first ;)

FlirtyKnickers Jul 29th 2009 9:17 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 7795992)
You can hit F5 on your keyboard (should work with any Windows browser, can't answer for the vagaries of MacOS) to refresh the page.

Thats a little nugget of info I shall cherish.....:thumbup:

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 9:25 am

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Originally Posted by MikeUK (Post 7795960)
Can we just move forward and somebody ban the fool and be done with it

I like your approach........................











.......................now lets see your departure:sneaky:

Butch Cassidy Jul 29th 2009 9:29 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 7796011)
So far it's looking good for carry on as you are and accept the consequences (i.e. prepare to be banned), followed by a self-imposed preemptive ban of yourself for however long. Seems fairly unequivocal to me.

I think if you check it says post as I feel.............. that does NOT mean carry as I am (necessarily ;))

bodgerx Jul 29th 2009 9:37 am

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Originally Posted by Oakvillian (Post 7795992)
You can hit F5 on your keyboard (should work with any Windows browser, can't answer for the vagaries of MacOS) to refresh the page.

Apple(Cmd)+R

mandymoochops Jul 29th 2009 9:39 am

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Butch can I say something at the risk of upsetting you - ?

You know I know you as do a few people here in the real world, and the Butch I know is (and yes he is) a very nice, very intelligent, very generous human being.

Why can't you keep your posts true to who you really are hun - you would have a mountain a advice to offer and the occasional funny thrown in would make it all the better.

I don't know why of late you seem to have changed - I want the real Butch back - and if he did come back then there would be no issues :wub:

Butch Cassidy Jul 29th 2009 9:48 am

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Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 7796115)
Butch can I say something at the risk of upsetting you - ?

You know I know you as do a few people here in the real world, and the Butch I know is (and yes he is) a very nice, very intelligent, very generous human being.

Why can't you keep your posts true to who you really are hun - you would have a mountain a advice to offer and the occasional funny thrown in would make it all the better.

I don't know why of late you seem to have changed - I want the real Butch back - and if he did come back then there would be no issues :wub:

Sorry Mands but I'm left with no choice

FlirtyKnickers Jul 29th 2009 9:50 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7796136)
Sorry Mands but I'm left with no choice

Come on Butch....:(

You always have a choice hun....listen to her...please!:wub:

mandymoochops Jul 29th 2009 9:52 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7796136)
Sorry Mands but I'm left with no choice


yes you are - YOU are the only one who can control your own actions. YOU CAN decide to post sensible, funny, clever stuff - cos thats who you are, not what people see you as by the way you have come across of late.

mandymoochops Jul 29th 2009 9:57 am

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What do you want Butch eh??? Do you want a ban so you can have the infamy of being banned. What the hells that gonna prove hmmmm.

You know I think the world of you but I aint gonna sit here and blow smoke up your bum all afternoon cos your being daft.

Now shape up or ship out. I'd prefer the former and if it floats your boat then obviously it would piss more people off if you stayed around would it not.

Do as your f*****g told for once eh :frown:

dollface Jul 29th 2009 9:59 am

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Originally Posted by mandymoochops (Post 7796155)
What do you want Butch eh??? Do you want a ban so you can have the infamy of being banned. What the hells that gonna prove hmmmm.

You know I think the world of you but I aint gonna sit here and blow smoke up your bum all afternoon cos your being daft.

Now shape up or ship out. I'd prefer the former and if it floats your boat then obviously it would piss more people off if you stayed around would it not.

Do as your f*****g told for once eh :frown:


:eek:;)

Alan2005 Jul 29th 2009 9:59 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7796136)
Sorry Mands but I'm left with no choice

And wtf is that supposed to mean?

Come on butch, nobody died ffs - it's just pixels on a screen

Rob_999 Jul 29th 2009 10:25 am

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Have I just stepped into an episode of days of our lives?? Maybe this'll turn out to be Butch's evil twin brother posting.... I'm on the edge of my seat.....

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 10:30 am

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What the hell is going on with this thread :confused::eek:

livermanl Jul 29th 2009 10:31 am

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Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy (Post 7795977)
Important? No. None of us are important.

Entertaining, amusing, interesting? They most definitely are (well along with the likes of Novo).

I dont really know why Souv left (I can hazard a guess though), I dont know why Biiiiink left (such a shame), I miss Steve and many others who came and went.

Some people leave because BE has served its purpose for them, some people leave because it can be too much of a clique, some people leave because of posters like me and some leave because they cant abide the current mods.

Someone suggested that this 'poll' could backfire on me and the majority could suggest I was 'removed' by one method or another. If thats the result by the time the poll closes then great I'll accept it.

On the contary Butch remember this is a public forum and unfortunately in life you get all sorts if you can't handle all sorts then you might as well stay inside (and not emigrate).

If you honestly can not handle the truth/sexually explicit comments/semi-racial comments made in pixels how the hell are you going to last in Canada(a fundamentally racist country - or at least the part of Canada I live)?

If you don't like the above I really don't think you will in particular like most Canadians.

Sometimes it is better to see the worst of a place before you can really judge. DBD33 is amazing at telling us how he really feels about Canada and unfortunately for him he is constantly having people argue with him, but if you look closely the only ones arguing are fresh off the boat or still in England that is an important thing to watch out for.

Steve is one of those posters that you come on this site and look out for...Just type into the search function steve p and you will find a whole hosts of threads when he has gone for even a day.

I am also aware that both these posters are still active but why don't you actually read what they wrote today and read what they wrote 6 months ago. It is a significant difference.

As for FK who can resist a good flirting when you're bored?

I'm sorry but people take this forum way too seriously you are here because you share 1 common factor and that is you are an immigrant in Canada or looking to be one. If you are still looking to be an immigrant in Canada don't complain about us giving you the opinions we have of Canada (You have no idea yet).

If you have been in Canada for a while and your opinion differs that is great but remember every single one of us has good days every single one of us has bad days for us to stick around we need more on these forums than.

Will my computer work?
What's the wages like?
Can I get employment?

If that means countless threads of BC taking comments changing what you wrote and making a one liner so be it. It's not like he is posting a full on shot of himself for all to see he is just amusing people.

I find Roy Chubby Brown offensive and guess what he has loads of DVDs guess what else? I ignore it thats all I am saying you don't want to listen to him then put him on your ignore list don't complain. Don't try and change him and don't try to get him banned what is the point?

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 10:38 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7796237)
On the contary Butch remember this is a public forum and unfortunately in life you get all sorts if you can't handle all sorts then you might as well stay inside (and not emigrate).

If you honestly can not handle the truth/sexually explicit comments/semi-racial comments made in pixels how the hell are you going to last in Canada(a fundamentally racist country - or at least the part of Canada I live)?

If you don't like the above I really don't think you will in particular like most Canadians.

Sometimes it is better to see the worst of a place before you can really judge. DBD33 is amazing at telling us how he really feels about Canada and unfortunately for him he is constantly having people argue with him, but if you look closely the only ones arguing are fresh off the boat or still in England that is an important thing to watch out for.

Steve is one of those posters that you come on this site and look out for...Just type into the search function steve p and you will find a whole hosts of threads when he has gone for even a day.

I am also aware that both these posters are still active but why don't you actually read what they wrote today and read what they wrote 6 months ago. It is a significant difference.

As for FK who can resist a good flirting when you're bored?

I'm sorry but people take this forum way too seriously you are here because you share 1 common factor and that is you are an immigrant in Canada or looking to be one. If you are still looking to be an immigrant in Canada don't complain about us giving you the opinions we have of Canada (You have no idea yet).

If you have been in Canada for a while and your opinion differs that is great but remember every single one of us has good days every single one of us has bad days for us to stick around we need more on these forums than.

Will my computer work?
What's the wages like?
Can I get employment?

If that means countless threads of BC taking comments changing what you wrote and making a one liner so be it. It's not like he is posting a full on shot of himself for all to see he is just amusing people.

I find Roy Chubby Brown offensive and guess what he has loads of DVDs guess what else? I ignore it thats all I am saying you don't want to listen to him then put him on your ignore list don't complain. Don't try and change him and don't try to get him banned what is the point?

Well said..........thank you very much :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 10:44 am

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"you can make some of the people laugh some of the time, but you cant make all of the people laugh all of the time"

cant think who gave me the inspiration to come up with that one :lol:

dollface Jul 29th 2009 10:45 am

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Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 7796268)
"you can make some of the people laugh some of the time, but you cant make all of the people laugh all of the time"

cant think who gave me the inspiration to come up with that one :lol:


You kill me Daz:rofl:

livermanl Jul 29th 2009 10:46 am

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Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 7796251)
Well said..........thank you very much :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup:

But then again I forgot someone with a Hitler smiley is always right...

Edit: Honestly that IS the most offensive thing I have ever seen on this site. (yes I know it's supposed to be ironic)

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 10:47 am

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Originally Posted by dollface (Post 7796271)
You kill me Daz:rofl:

......give me time :p

dollface Jul 29th 2009 10:48 am

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Originally Posted by dazzlerdaz (Post 7796278)
......give me time :p

:p

Alan2005 Jul 29th 2009 11:14 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7796237)
blah blah blah...
I'm sorry but people take this forum way too seriously

lots more blah blah blah blah, like sure, yeah whatever...

I've highlighted the only bit that needed saying...

FlirtyKnickers Jul 29th 2009 11:22 am

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Originally Posted by livermanl (Post 7796237)

As for FK who can resist a good flirting when you're bored?

Only when you're bored? I'm hurt!! :p


As for the rest of your post, well said young man....;)

dazzlerdaz Jul 29th 2009 11:27 am

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Q What do you do when your wife's staggering ?
A Shoot her again !

Q Whats the difference between a woman with PMS and a Pitt Bull ?
A Lipstick !

Men are like.......Mascara
The first sign of emotion and they run

Q What do you call a caring, considerate and gifted Man
A Myth


I kept it even :lol:


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