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Old May 5th 2010, 2:31 pm
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Originally Posted by Almost Canadian
Same apply in Canada. In fact, IMHO, Canada is way more nepotistic than the UK is. Ability counts less than knowing somebody.
In spades in a small town like the one I work in.
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Old May 5th 2010, 2:31 pm
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Originally Posted by Jingsamichty
Why on earth would anybody choose to leave Britain in order to be worse off somewhere else? That sounds to me like the actions of a quitter or a loser. And if you try to justify it by citing crime or immigration or chaviness, you're just proving that you're quitting because you don't like the game anymore.

Despite what might be happening at the moment, Britain is the greatest country in the world. It is unbelievably influential for such a small place. Emigrating to Canada for "quality of life for the children" is like saying you'd rather settle for year-on-year top-half-of-the-table safety in the Championship instead of fighting like a demented ferret to stay in the Premiership with the rest of the big boys.

If life were a game of Top Trumps, you can be sure that "growing up British" would comfortably trump "growing up Canadian."
I did.
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Originally Posted by el_richo
Again out of curiosity, what do you believe Canada can offer in the long term for kids and even parents that the UK cannot?
Less widespread violence
Better higher education prospects
More open career path
Cultural diversity
A better view of the world
More space
A chance to buy a home
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Originally Posted by Souvy
I did.
Ah, L'amore.

Is there any other reason to do it though?

I suppose "better life for kids" is a sub set of the same thing.
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Despite the difference of opinion between us all, I think this forum is an excellent place for a reality slap.

It is very easy to get rose tinted, I know I have.
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Old May 5th 2010, 2:35 pm
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Originally Posted by canadian_bacon_boy
Less widespread violence
Better higher education prospects
More open career path
Cultural diversity
A better view of the world
More space
A chance to buy a home
No, i meant what does Canada have to offer, not the UK.
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Originally Posted by Souvy
I did.
So did I, but I suspect that we both had a similar reason to do so - Souvette/Mrs AX. It's a world of difference for a family with no ties to Canada moving here to experience poverty.
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Originally Posted by el_richo
No, i meant what does Canada have to offer, not the UK.

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Old May 5th 2010, 2:43 pm
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Originally Posted by canadian_bacon_boy
Less widespread violence
Better higher education prospects
More open career path
Cultural diversity
A better view of the world
More space
A chance to buy a home
<Snickers at "cultural diversity" being good in Canada but "uncontrolled immigration" being bad in the UK>
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Old May 5th 2010, 2:52 pm
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Originally Posted by Atlantic Xpat
So did I, but I suspect that we both had a similar reason to do so - Souvette/Mrs AX. It's a world of difference for a family with no ties to Canada moving here to experience poverty.
Quite. I didn't have any expectations, so I've largely been pleasantly surprised.
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Originally Posted by dbd33
<Snickers at "cultural diversity" being good in Canada but "uncontrolled immigration" being bad in the UK>
I think its the "Control" aspect thats seen as important

Whether immigration in the UK is any more prevalent or not Im not in a position to say, but the british in general seem touchy about it.

I expect its just as well planned and controlled there as it is here, its just that the UK has a much higher population density so people are more aware of their neighbours peculiarities perhaps. Plus Canada has not got much history (in the UK sense), so cultural diversity is seen as something positive Canada has, whereas in the UK its seen as a force of erosion on a proud nations long standing traditions and culture.
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Originally Posted by iaink
I think its the "Control" aspect thats seen as important

Whether immigration in the UK is any more prevalent or not Im not in a position to say, but the british in general seem touchy about it.

I expect its just as well planned and controlled there as it is here, its just that the UK has a much higher population density so people are more aware of their neighbours peculiarities perhaps. Plus Canada has not got much history (in the UK sense), so cultural diversity is seen as something positive Canada has, whereas in the UK its seen as a force of erosion on a proud nations long standing traditions and culture.
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Default Re: Are your children better off in Canada, even though you are financially worse off

Originally Posted by iaink
I think its the "Control" aspect thats seen as important

Whether immigration in the UK is any more prevalent or not Im not in a position to say, but the british in general seem touchy about it.

I expect its just as well planned and controlled there as it is here, its just that the UK has a much higher population density so people are more aware of their neighbours peculiarities perhaps. Plus Canada has not got much history (in the UK sense), so cultural diversity is seen as something positive Canada has, whereas in the UK its seen as a force of erosion on a proud nations long standing traditions and culture.
Not sure about the concept of 'proud nation' applied to Britain. Pride and proud are words I see used here pretty much all the time and it jars with me. Maybe it's my upbringing but pride isn't something to aspire to but more something to keep in check. That and boasting.
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Originally Posted by fledermaus
Not sure about the concept of 'proud nation' applied to Britain. Pride and proud are words I see used here pretty much all the time and it jars with me. Maybe it's my upbringing but pride isn't something to aspire to but more something to keep in check. That and boasting.
Agree totally.

For me, this pride stuff is just such a bunch of manufactured nonsense. Why should you be 'proud' because you were born in one place not another? What are people proud of exactly?

Where you're born and grow up is a lottery and I see no reason why someone should make pride in that part of their identity.
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Originally Posted by canadian_bacon_boy
Better higher education prospects

A chance to buy a home
Have you spent any time in a Canadian University?

Have you seen house prices in Toronto?
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