Oh God...another nightmare..
Feb 28th 2007, 8:54 am
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Oh God...another nightmare..
Oh God ,another nightmare.. after finally sorting out our daughter, more bad news,my boy which we had fostered for 18months, Marc, and fought like hell to adopt and bring with us to Canada committed suicide on Sunday,he had been returned to his crack head mother last year by wonderful social services after she refused permission for him to go with us. He took himself to woods on Sunday night and hanged himself from a tree. I cant stop crying and to top it all, the people buying our house pulled out yesterday, 1 hour before we were supposed to sign contracts. Flights are booked for 23rd March and I dont know what we are going to do.. I beginning to think we are not meant to go. Ive never felt so bloody miserable in my life,so sorry for this tale of woe, just needed to talk to someone. my husband isnt talking to me cos I threw a pan of potatoes at him last night out of frustration. (didnt hit him). I wish we had never started this...
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Feb 28th 2007, 8:57 am
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Re: Oh God...another nightmare..
Oh God ,another nightmare.. after finally sorting out our daughter, more bad news,my boy which we had fostered for 18months, Marc, and fought like hell to adopt and bring with us to Canada committed suicide on Sunday,he had been returned to his crack head mother last year by wonderful social services after she refused permission for him to go with us. He took himself to woods on Sunday night and hanged himself from a tree. I cant stop crying and to top it all, the people buying our house pulled out yesterday, 1 hour before we were supposed to sign contracts. Flights are booked for 23rd March and I dont know what we are going to do.. I beginning to think we are not meant to go. Ive never felt so bloody miserable in my life,so sorry for this tale of woe, just needed to talk to someone. my husband isnt talking to me cos I threw a pan of potatoes at him last night out of frustration. (didnt hit him). I wish we had never started this...
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Feb 28th 2007, 8:59 am
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Oh, Annie, how utterly dreadful for you. ****ing adoption services. Can't really say anything other than huge sympathies to you and don't give up on the dream. xx
Feb 28th 2007, 9:01 am
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Re: Oh God...another nightmare..
Oh God ,another nightmare.. after finally sorting out our daughter, more bad news,my boy which we had fostered for 18months, Marc, and fought like hell to adopt and bring with us to Canada committed suicide on Sunday,he had been returned to his crack head mother last year by wonderful social services after she refused permission for him to go with us. He took himself to woods on Sunday night and hanged himself from a tree. I cant stop crying and to top it all, the people buying our house pulled out yesterday, 1 hour before we were supposed to sign contracts. Flights are booked for 23rd March and I dont know what we are going to do.. I beginning to think we are not meant to go. Ive never felt so bloody miserable in my life,so sorry for this tale of woe, just needed to talk to someone. my husband isnt talking to me cos I threw a pan of potatoes at him last night out of frustration. (didnt hit him). I wish we had never started this...
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thinking of you in this desperate time - have sent karma to give you strength
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Feb 28th 2007, 9:03 am
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thankyou x
Feb 28th 2007, 9:05 am
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hang in there and dont give up I am sure hubby will not take the pot to heart.sorry for your loss and I hope that it all gets better for yous soon just hang on in there
Feb 28th 2007, 9:07 am
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Good god Annie that's terrible news, you must be having a real nightmare at the moment.
My heart goes out to you.
My heart goes out to you.
Feb 28th 2007, 9:09 am
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Deepest sympathies.
I don't know what else to say, except that I'm sure everyone who's read your post is thinking about you.
Keep strong.
Sharon
I don't know what else to say, except that I'm sure everyone who's read your post is thinking about you.
Keep strong.
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Feb 28th 2007, 10:23 am
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How awful 
If anyone deserves a fresh start....
All the best, Iain
If anyone deserves a fresh start....
All the best, Iain
Feb 28th 2007, 10:29 am
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Ann, I read your last thread about your daughter and wanted to post on this one. I'm so sorry to hear about your foster son and wanted to say I'm thinking of you during this awful time
Feb 28th 2007, 11:55 am
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I am so sorry to hear this terrible news. Thinking of you and your family.
Feb 28th 2007, 12:00 pm
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No words can make this better but know our thoughts are with you.
Feb 28th 2007, 12:59 pm
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So sad to hear...Cannot even imagine the heartache and pain you and your family must be going through. Hang on in there and I hope you have the support of close friends nearby.
A massive internet hug to you
Robin
A massive internet hug to you
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Feb 28th 2007, 1:47 pm
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Oh Annie, my heart goes out to you. What an awful time for you and your family. Hang in there - I'm sure I speak for everyone on the board when I say we're all thinking and praying for you guys.
PM me if you want to chat.
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PM me if you want to chat.
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Feb 28th 2007, 1:51 pm
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Annie,
Words fail me. I could vent about social services and there policies regarding adoption\fostering etc (having had dealings with them from all sides) but I wont.
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. As kate said hubby wont hold it against you too long, he too will be grieving.
Like Robin et al I am sending you a great big internet hug to share with you family
Butch.
Words fail me. I could vent about social services and there policies regarding adoption\fostering etc (having had dealings with them from all sides) but I wont.
My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family. As kate said hubby wont hold it against you too long, he too will be grieving.
Like Robin et al I am sending you a great big internet hug to share with you family
Butch.