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View Poll Results: WOuld you do it all again? (emigrate that is)
Yes
63
57.80%
Jury is still out on that one
9
8.26%
I'll let you know when I've done it for the first time!
3
2.75%
Yes but to somewhere other than Australia
7
6.42%
No
16
14.68%
You having a giraffe? I'd rather crawl round the desert with a mouthful of rocks
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Old May 3rd 2011 | 12:15 pm
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
Not necessarily if it's anything like the LA suburbs.
- some of the 'locals' being super hostile human beings.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 12:28 pm
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Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Exactly. Had my husband caved in to my constant pining for home in my first hellish year, we would certainly have been straight on that plane to square 1. I'm actually glad he didn't because we basically had nothing left to go home to. I just wish we had researched Canada a bit more, because we did consider it, but ended up here.

I still maintain that the kids are better off here for now, finishing their school years.
I've got another year to stick it out in Oz to get PR so we come away with something tangible. I've had a great time sailing around the country and long driving outback holidays but it's not for me - at least not now. I'm in Sri Lanka now (trying to sell my visa!) and add that to the trip to Borneo last week I now realise that I need somewhere with more life, vibrancy and (dare I say it? depth?)
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 1:07 pm
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Originally Posted by Bermudashorts
You make it sound like you are in the middle of the desert, it is in a well populated area, there must beother human beings around.
Not around me, there aren't many around, if I did live in the middle of the desert I might see some.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 1:32 pm
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Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
Fancy a challenge? Take a TAFE course in aged or disability care. You will almost certainly be able to find part time work that will fit in around your kids schooling.
Tough work for generally rubbish pay but can be hugely rewarding in other ways. My wife did exactly that.
I'm looking into doing courses in July hopefully I don't have long wait, I know it's early days I've only been here 4 months & I came very busy life in Qld to nothing to do in NSW, I think I'm just so bored of my new life.
Thanks for the suggestion.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 2:04 pm
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Originally Posted by the troubadour
Quite a lot of folk appear to experience a similar experience sadly. Takes me back some years when a young fellow in Australia and recalling my mother's depiration at times to what i later learned was accute lonliness.
It was what took us to England.
Still today many feel the isolation and i know it can be difficult to connect,something i feel more here than other places i've lived or is it just a greater awareness of the potential of it being so with the experience of those early years?
Really do hope it improves for you and where you are now is surely needs not for the long haul?
I have lived in 4 different countries before moving to Australia, I have moved 3 states in the 4 years I have been here, where I live it's not rural, but I might as well live in middle of no where I have been amazed by some my neighbors coldness which I have not experinced in other parts of Australia, I need to be around people but maybe it's where I live that no one wants to mix with you, I don't know maybe it's in my head loneliness does that to you or it might be early days & things would improve once I start college in July.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:22 pm
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Originally Posted by Turban Explorer
I've got another year to stick it out in Oz to get PR so we come away with something tangible. I've had a great time sailing around the country and long driving outback holidays but it's not for me - at least not now. I'm in Sri Lanka now (trying to sell my visa!) and add that to the trip to Borneo last week I now realise that I need somewhere with more life, vibrancy and (dare I say it? depth?)
I've seen you mention before that you want to hang on for your PR - does that mean you want to come back before the visa expires? Would it not work out better for you to wait the extra couple of years and get citizenship instead, so at least you can come back at your leisure?
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:28 pm
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Originally Posted by Dreamy
I've seen you mention before that you want to hang on for your PR - does that mean you want to come back before the visa expires? Would it not work out better for you to wait the extra couple of years and get citizenship instead, so at least you can come back at your leisure?
Once I have PR how much time in every five year period would I need to spend in Oz to keep the PR incidentally?
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:32 pm
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Originally Posted by Turban Explorer
Once I have PR how much time in every five year period would I need to spend in Oz to keep the PR incidentally?
Two years. Unless you can otherwise prove some substantial ties, house, car, job etc.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:37 pm
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Originally Posted by Bermudashorts
Two years. Unless you can otherwise prove some substantial ties, house, car, job etc.
Which is why I wondered if it would not make more sense for TE to do the extra 2 years straight away and get citizenship. Then there's no worries :laffs:
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:39 pm
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Originally Posted by Bermudashorts
Two years. Unless you can otherwise prove some substantial ties, house, car, job etc.
Thanks. Do the two years need to be in one block? Or can they be accumulated - six months here and there?
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:43 pm
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Default Re: Would you do it all again?

Originally Posted by Dreamy
Which is why I wondered if it would not make more sense for TE to do the extra 2 years straight away and get citizenship. Then there's no worries :laffs:
An extra two years would seem like a torturous life time to me!
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:45 pm
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Originally Posted by Turban Explorer
An extra two years would seem like a torturous life time to me!
You wouldn't have to stay where you are now though - you could move elsewhere.

Weren't you here already before you got your current visa? It might not even take you that long to get citizenship
 
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Originally Posted by Dreamy
You wouldn't have to stay where you are now though - you could move elsewhere.

Weren't you here already before you got your current visa? It might not even take you that long to get citizenship
Yes. On a 457 then a year tourist visa and then a student visa before moving to a 475 SS.
 
Old May 3rd 2011 | 3:51 pm
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Originally Posted by Turban Explorer
Yes. On a 457 then a year tourist visa and then a student visa before moving to a 475 SS.
Were they immediately before you got the SS?

If so, you may only have to do 12 months on a PR visa before being eligible for citizenship - would that make it more attractive?
 
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Originally Posted by Turban Explorer
Thanks. Do the two years need to be in one block? Or can they be accumulated - six months here and there?
Not 100% sure on that tbh. But even if it is allowed now, there is always the chance the rules will change at some point in the future.

I would very much agree with Dreamy, to get complete security, try to do a year on the PR visa and if you have been here for three years before then on other visas you should be able to get citizenship.
 


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