'Are we doing the right thing???'
Apr 18th 2007, 9:44 pm
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'Are we doing the right thing???'
This is the question my OH has just asked me....yet again!!!! Anybody know the answer????!!!!!! 
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Apr 18th 2007, 9:47 pm
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Apr 18th 2007, 9:48 pm
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as they say!!!!
Apr 18th 2007, 9:51 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
Yes. Or no. HTH 
There's no right or wrong thing to do. There's a process to go through and a new place to live. Whether you enjoy the ride or not, it's still an adventure. And the experience will be useful; one way or the other. Try not to worry about the outcome and put pressure on yourself - just go with the flow and know that whatever happens in future, you've got more courage and determination for trying than most people. That already sets you up for great success, however things turn out in Aus
(That sounds way more wanky than it's intended to be.
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There's no right or wrong thing to do. There's a process to go through and a new place to live. Whether you enjoy the ride or not, it's still an adventure. And the experience will be useful; one way or the other. Try not to worry about the outcome and put pressure on yourself - just go with the flow and know that whatever happens in future, you've got more courage and determination for trying than most people. That already sets you up for great success, however things turn out in Aus
(That sounds way more wanky than it's intended to be.
)
Apr 18th 2007, 9:57 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
Go for it - life is too short
Apr 18th 2007, 9:58 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
once the seed is planted in our heads I think theres no turning back untill the ride is over,
Apr 18th 2007, 9:59 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
tell him you will always have doubts but if you said ok dont go what would he feel relief or upset? theres his answer
Apr 18th 2007, 10:00 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
Yes. Or no. HTH
There's no right or wrong thing to do. There's a process to go through and a new place to live. Whether you enjoy the ride or not, it's still an adventure. And the experience will be useful; one way or the other. Try not to worry about the outcome and put pressure on yourself - just go with the flow and know that whatever happens in future, you've got more courage and determination for trying than most people. That already sets you up for great success, however things turn out in Aus
(That sounds way more wanky than it's intended to be.)
There's no right or wrong thing to do. There's a process to go through and a new place to live. Whether you enjoy the ride or not, it's still an adventure. And the experience will be useful; one way or the other. Try not to worry about the outcome and put pressure on yourself - just go with the flow and know that whatever happens in future, you've got more courage and determination for trying than most people. That already sets you up for great success, however things turn out in Aus
(That sounds way more wanky than it's intended to be.
)
BTW what does HTH mean??
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Apr 18th 2007, 10:01 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
I don't necessarly agree with that. I think it takes a lot of courage to say that your dreams have changed and you're no longer the same person as the one who applied for the visa. There's nothing saying you have to act on the visa, just because you have it. There's been at least one person on BE (that I can think of right now) who's decided not to go after being granted their visa.
Apr 18th 2007, 10:01 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
Hope you find your answers, sit down and discuss it and see what the outcomes are
Apr 18th 2007, 10:01 pm
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Apr 18th 2007, 10:03 pm
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Re: 'Are we doing the right thing???'
TBH dont think theres a definate yes or no answer really is there!!!! C x