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Old Dec 13th 2007 | 12:25 am
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Originally Posted by Bix
I posted in the Lounge for several months and had a ball.
Would still post there now if I had the time.

Yes, the majority were from the USA side of the forum but someone had to pick the short straws
Anyway there were a few of us Aussies in there to add quality crap too
Yeah, the lounge clique accepted you.

I think I pissed some of them off at some point (something about saying they were having a circle w**k). And it was all downhill from there...

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Old Dec 13th 2007 | 1:22 am
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in general no, but there are parts of the forum which can be a bit difficult at times.

the w****ers that do make things unpleasent are short lived and those who make it enjoyable far out weigh those who dont.
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 5:24 am
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it can seem unfriendly to newbies espec if they ask a question that's been asked a thousand times before and don't get the exact response they're looking for. (luckily I'm not that sensitive)
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 5:27 am
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Originally Posted by paul30
it can seem unfriendly to newbies espec if they ask a question that's been asked a thousand times before and don't get the exact response they're looking for. (luckily I'm not that sensitive)
yes that's the worst part, shame when that happens.
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 5:30 am
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Originally Posted by Clippies
yes that's the worst part, shame when that happens.
think it's just the way it comes across when wrote rather than spoken
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 5:31 am
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Originally Posted by paul30
think it's just the way it comes across when wrote rather than spoken
or how it's taken by the reader
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 5:32 am
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Originally Posted by paul30
think it's just the way it comes across when wrote rather than spoken
Yes that's true. Faceless communication does make it difficult to judge the tone.
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 6:04 am
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Originally Posted by aston man
i was just flicking through another forum.... just interested in finding out how other bricklayers were doing here in perth...

happen to notice a thread that mentioned how unfriendly this site is...

i was just wondering what other people thought as i noticed that some BE members were also members of the site...

is there a clique here...?

is it unfriendly?

i post on here now and again ,and i hope that some of my posts have never put people off coming to australia....

but it would seem that someones post has...
my two pence worth

being new to this place is like going to a party full of strangers for the first time
if you sit in the corner sipping your drink few if anyone will talk to you,
and yes it will appear cliquey
if on the other hand you make an effort, introduce yourself, ask questions and offer your point of view you will find that its a positive mine of information
yes you get the knobheads with less than helpful replies but at the "party" you`d just ignore them and get on with finding out who were the adults


regards steve
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 6:13 am
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Originally Posted by steve`o
my two pence worth

being new to this place is like going to a party full of strangers for the first time
if you sit in the corner sipping your drink few if anyone will talk to you,
and yes it will appear cliquey
if on the other hand you make an effort, introduce yourself, ask questions and offer your point of view you will find that its a positive mine of information
yes you get the knobheads with less than helpful replies but at the "party" you`d just ignore them and get on with finding out who were the adults


regards steve
Gotta agree from personal experience the guys and gals on here are on the whole friendly and very helpful
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 6:34 am
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I saw a thread that was started about an established member on the forum that absolutely slagged them off it was awful.

There wasnt that many who stepped in to stop it despite how long they had been on here.

I think if you have posted many times you are fine but if you are relatively new some of the nasty comments that people give back have stopped people coming back.

I recently have been on the end of some nastily written comment which completely p****d me off as I had been misquoted in the first place and had no right of reply as the thread was closed.
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 11:39 am
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Originally Posted by wardy2
I saw a thread that was started about an established member on the forum that absolutely slagged them off it was awful.

There wasnt that many who stepped in to stop it despite how long they had been on here.

I think if you have posted many times you are fine but if you are relatively new some of the nasty comments that people give back have stopped people coming back.

I recently have been on the end of some nastily written comment which completely p****d me off as I had been misquoted in the first place and had no right of reply as the thread was closed.
Nasty threads/posts are often started and not removed because the Moderators don't see them - we aren't online all the time, and we can't read everything.
If EVER you see a thread or post that you aren't happy woth, for whatever reason, please report it- the reports go to all the Mods on that forum, all the SuperMods, and Admin, and there will be someone around that can take a look.
For newbies - the report button is the small blue button at the foot of each post, next to the karma button, and with an exclamation mark on it.

If one of us closes a thread and you feel that it has misquoted you or whatever, you can still report it, or you can pm one of us about it. If we feel your complaint is valid we can then delete the thread altogether. Threads are often closed to stop arguments getting worse - unfortunately this does mean that people can feel aggrieved if they lose their right of reply, but if you contact one of us we will always attempt to put records straight.

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Old Dec 13th 2007 | 11:46 am
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Originally Posted by Professional Princess
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LMAO !! I havnt heard that saying in years !!!!!
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 12:06 pm
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Default Re: BE ...............unfriendly..???

Originally Posted by aston man
i was just flicking through another forum.... just interested in finding out how other bricklayers were doing here in perth...

happen to notice a thread that mentioned how unfriendly this site is...

i was just wondering what other people thought as i noticed that some BE members were also members of the site...

is there a clique here...?

is it unfriendly?

i post on here now and again ,and i hope that some of my posts have never put people off coming to australia....

but it would seem that someones post has...
Who wants to be on a forum where everyone is 'nice' all the time?

What's the point of that?

There's no cut and thrust.

Be a dickhead and you usually get treated like one. Happens to everyone every so often.

I like it here.
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 12:47 pm
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Default Re: BE ...............unfriendly..???

Originally Posted by aston man
i was just flicking through another forum.... just interested in finding out how other bricklayers were doing here in perth...

happen to notice a thread that mentioned how unfriendly this site is...

i was just wondering what other people thought as i noticed that some BE members were also members of the site...

is there a clique here...?

is it unfriendly?

i post on here now and again ,and i hope that some of my posts have never put people off coming to australia....

but it would seem that someones post has...
I haven't been kicked off yet, and God knows I must be the most annoying person on Earth

either everyone's really friendly, or they're just good at plotting discreetly
 
Old Dec 13th 2007 | 12:53 pm
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Originally Posted by TsukinoDeynatsu
I haven't been kicked off yet, and God knows I must be the most annoying person on Earth

either everyone's really friendly, or they're just good at plotting discreetly
The latter.
 


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