The problem is that trusts have become very tight with people off sick we have to report in weekly to say we are still sick as you have to be available to your work if they find something you can do.

I would like to go to Oz until April but I have to be here cos they are going to talk to the neurosurgeon who may want to re examine me I was told.
mostly its hanging around

OH has been promised that if I have surgery his firm will relocate him back to the UK for a few months but he cant push them too far as they have been brilliant so far considering he only started work for them in January.

Really sorry to hear that, Kim.

I am not sure what's involved, just wondering if you can't say you want the op now rather than waiting and seeing what may/may not happen? Then after the op you can go?

Gina

Hi Kim

Soz to hear your sad news,i'm sure you will find a way to fulfil your dream,
all the best,speak soon,Kim

I dont know what to say. Hopefully there is someway around it all and you and your OH can fulfill your dreams of life in Oz.
Sending you lots of love, wish it was more

Definitely NOT selfish hun. You need his support. Isn't that what marriage is all about?!
I know it's really hard right now, but try & stay positive.

Just sent you a PM

(((((((( big hugs )))))))

Awwwww babes!!! How crap is that! Whats gonna happen now then?

Stay strong and focused and get on the blower to an agent??????

S-j xxxxxxxxxx ((((((((((((((((((((((((massive hugs)))))))))))))))))))))

Kim, If anyone will find a way through it it will be you. You have such a positive attitude.

Hope it works out - you're coming drinking with me and Mandy in Mornington remember?

Karma sent.

im so sorry to read this,,it all seems so long ago that i was sweating about my medicals...but i can remember thinking what am i going to do if i dont get in....

i hope hand on heart everything turns out good for you...

thinking of you...

ast

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

thanks both of you if there is a way to be in Oz i will get there

Asher, I hope an agent reads this and can offer you some sound advice, good luck I sincerely hope it all works out for you.
S xx

You brave girl! I didn't realise Asher that you were going through this.
I guess an operation will be a major thing, and monitoring your progress from now til then is vitally important.

Hard as it is, your best option is to stay UK side and get the best treatment. Don't even think about travel. (sorry) Perhaps your husband can get concessions and come over for visits, otherwise he should return and then re-apply later after you have been given the all clear.

Your dreams are not over - they are on hold. Your health is paramount.

I really admire your strength and positive nature. It may be that after rest and monitoring that decide you don't need an operation. Injuries are funny things - they need time to recoup and the human body is an amazing piece of kit!

Sending you a prayer for support and solutions - sorry i have nothing more to offer.
x

Karma

hell you keep getting a poor hand dealt to you
so sorry to hear this, wishing there was another option for you
C

hey asher

wishing you all the good luck in the world, not that your gonna need it


your postive attutude will carry you through

keep smiling mate


mandy
xx

Thanks all for all your kindness and support,

I have a cunning plan that may get me to Oz

It involves a few fibs but who cares

I may yet be seeing you all in Oz