Sad Passing
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we have "regular posters' who deal with bereavement by coming on to expat forum...sheesh, shame on us all
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I actually think that this thread is really offensive.
I was genuinely full of sadness for you eddie, taking your post at face value until I went on FB & herad the news about YB & took another look at the whole thread.
When we regularly have posters who are dealing with bereavement, to trivialise something as tragic as suicide in this way is terrible.
Shame on you for making such a post & to all of you who have contributed.
I was genuinely full of sadness for you eddie, taking your post at face value until I went on FB & herad the news about YB & took another look at the whole thread.
When we regularly have posters who are dealing with bereavement, to trivialise something as tragic as suicide in this way is terrible.
Shame on you for making such a post & to all of you who have contributed.

thats sad in real life isnt it?this tinternet thing just aint real,ive been sucked in myself at times,got really upset..is it all worth it?all the hassle all the time..?
i dont think anyone would of pissed a certain gentleman off more than me,he must be proper upset reading here?just let it go,theres no need to dwell on things,there or here,weve all shared a journey and weve all helped each other out along the way!!!this site and timbers have helped thousands of people...lets just move on eh?
lifes far to short..
ere
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sally my pal died on friday,he was 44,hes being buried on wednesday..he was a bloke that tried and tried all his life..left behind two kids...i presume hes in some refrigerator now waiting to be buried....
thats sad in real life isnt it?this tinternet thing just aint real,ive been sucked in myself at times,got really upset..is it all worth it?all the hassle all the time..?
i dont think anyone would of pissed a certain gentleman off more than me,he must be proper upset reading here?just let it go,theres no need to dwell on things,there or here,weve all shared a journey and weve all helped each other out along the way!!!this site and timbers have helped thousands of people...lets just move on eh?
lifes far to short..
ere
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thats sad in real life isnt it?this tinternet thing just aint real,ive been sucked in myself at times,got really upset..is it all worth it?all the hassle all the time..?
i dont think anyone would of pissed a certain gentleman off more than me,he must be proper upset reading here?just let it go,theres no need to dwell on things,there or here,weve all shared a journey and weve all helped each other out along the way!!!this site and timbers have helped thousands of people...lets just move on eh?
lifes far to short..
ere
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There are many people who post on here genuinely seeking support in dealing with a bereavement & I think they would also find this thread very offensive.
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I actually think that this thread is really offensive.
I was genuinely full of sadness for you eddie, taking your post at face value until I went on FB & herad the news about YB & took another look at the whole thread.
When we regularly have posters who are dealing with bereavement, to trivialise something as tragic as suicide in this way is terrible.
Shame on you for making such a post & to all of you who have contributed.
I was genuinely full of sadness for you eddie, taking your post at face value until I went on FB & herad the news about YB & took another look at the whole thread.
When we regularly have posters who are dealing with bereavement, to trivialise something as tragic as suicide in this way is terrible.
Shame on you for making such a post & to all of you who have contributed.


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your not serious are you?as i said i lost an old friend on friday,i dont find this thread offensive...and please dont class my pals life as triveal as some bull5h1t written on an internet site..
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you know ive been a member of this and timbers forum for about 5 years ive posted about 10000 posts,ive never really had one go at any one or been on the recieving end?i am as i said a little pi55ed so you will have to excuse me..
your not serious are you?as i said i lost an old friend on friday,i dont find this thread offensive...and please dont class my pals life as triveal as some bull5h1t written on an internet site..
your not serious are you?as i said i lost an old friend on friday,i dont find this thread offensive...and please dont class my pals life as triveal as some bull5h1t written on an internet site..
You all should remember, that whilst you have been posting on other forums, new members have joined who do not know your history or anything of the other forum. They may well take the thread at face value & be very offended. Several members have posted recently, seeking support to deal with berevement.
This thread is highly insensitive imo!
#84
OK can this stop now. Sally has stated it's upset her and others don't see why but if you read the first post then I think it's understandable. Move on please
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im off for some more cake....
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The only one who has trivialised anything is you.
You all should remember, that whilst you have been posting on other forums, new members have joined who do not know your history or anything of the other forum. They may well take the thread at face value & be very offended. Several members have posted recently, seeking support to deal with berevement.
This thread is highly insensitive imo!
You all should remember, that whilst you have been posting on other forums, new members have joined who do not know your history or anything of the other forum. They may well take the thread at face value & be very offended. Several members have posted recently, seeking support to deal with berevement.
This thread is highly insensitive imo!
Last edited by Richie Redlands; Jun 27th 2010 at 2:58 am.
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I was in Bonny Scotland when this occured, got back and found life as I knew it taken away from me...................could someone who knows what happened please let me know what on earth is going on (I know what the 'subject' on the thread is about but what happened!!!)
Please anyone!!!???
Please anyone!!!???
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I was in Bonny Scotland when this occured, got back and found life as I knew it taken away from me...................could someone who knows what happened please let me know what on earth is going on (I know what the 'subject' on the thread is about but what happened!!!)
Please anyone!!!???
Please anyone!!!???
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Can I also say if I was seeking support or whatever you want to call it on bereavement I would not come on a site that has a section as "The Barbie" as to me (my opinion) if I was that 'sensitive' it would only make it worse, to me forums are light-hearted and there are plenty of genuine sites for 'bereavement'..........This is my thoughts, I have no authority to say whether people should be offended or not.



