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#61
Are you attempting to equate the breastfeeding of a child with taking a dump perchance?
Next you'll be suggesting they feed them in the toilet.
What's to complain about, does it make you feel uncomfortable?
Why?
Is it offensive to you?
If your uncomfortable with breastfeeding that is your problem not the mothers. The vast majority are so discreet you'd have to be staring to notice.
Next you'll be suggesting they feed them in the toilet.
What's to complain about, does it make you feel uncomfortable?
Why?
Is it offensive to you?
If your uncomfortable with breastfeeding that is your problem not the mothers. The vast majority are so discreet you'd have to be staring to notice.
Then the bit that does annoy me - the militant statement behaviour. "Do as I say, because I say it, or I'll attack you" - that just gets my back up.
I'd say most people have got it about right, discreet so those sensitive souls don't flip out - everyone's happy.
#62
I'm pulling down the naff justifications. Too many people saying "people shouldn't be uncomfortable, its natural" when that misses the point twice over. Natural doesn't imply 'its right to do in public', and its not if some people should be uncomfortable or not, but that they pretty obviously are.
Then the bit that does annoy me - the militant statement behaviour. "Do as I say, because I say it, or I'll attack you" - that just gets my back up.
I'd say most people have got it about right, discreet so those sensitive souls don't flip out - everyone's happy.
Then the bit that does annoy me - the militant statement behaviour. "Do as I say, because I say it, or I'll attack you" - that just gets my back up.
I'd say most people have got it about right, discreet so those sensitive souls don't flip out - everyone's happy.
ETA: Just to cover my back! You obviously isn't intended in the personal sense here.
Last edited by Geordie George; Feb 26th 2013 at 1:10 pm.
#63
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This issue never bothered me a jot, like most people its never been shoved in my face, mums I know are always discreet, as a friend said "my boobs are for my baby to feed and my hubby to fantasize over, not for perverts to get a kick!"
What I did have an issue with, was when in Coles not so long ago, A 2 year old in the trolly seat started yelling and mum just lobbed her boob out in the fruit and veg aisle and feed him while she carried on shopping and the child was still in the seat. Too me that's just rude! I am no prude but WTF
What I did have an issue with, was when in Coles not so long ago, A 2 year old in the trolly seat started yelling and mum just lobbed her boob out in the fruit and veg aisle and feed him while she carried on shopping and the child was still in the seat. Too me that's just rude! I am no prude but WTF
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#64
As I pointed out a few times, 'natural' doesn't mean anything. Lots of things are natural, but don't get done in public. It's not a reason why its ok and your views should override someone else's.
Indeed, and I think most people (men included) are OK with discreet. However, I can think of situations, one in particular comes to mind, where that 'militant' descriptor would have been appropriate.
Hell, look at this. That's a militant "do as we say or else" behaviour if I ever saw one.
Indeed, and I think most people (men included) are OK with discreet. However, I can think of situations, one in particular comes to mind, where that 'militant' descriptor would have been appropriate.
Hell, look at this. That's a militant "do as we say or else" behaviour if I ever saw one.

#66
Some interesting opinions here also some quite vitriolic responses to others who do not think the same as some posters.
We are all entitled to an opinion, let them air it and then share yours. No need to damn someone who thinks different to you.
As for the actual topic, my response is No and No. But, as natural as breastfeeding is, and I think GarryP was trying to say before he got morally flogged by Emily Pankhursts great grandaughter, just because something is natural does not mean that it is socially acceptable to do a natural act in public. If you see someone urinating in a gutter you would be appalled and yet in some societies that is ok.
I always have advocated breastfeeding with all my kids and it has never been an issue when doing so in public, but that is because we just use common sense when doing so. We do not hide, we are not ashamed, but some elements of society just find it difficult to acknowledge. So when my wife has breastfed it has been in a place where WE are comfortable and she doesn't feel people looking at either in disgust or in titillation (no pun intended!).
It is natural and it is the best way to feed a child, but please don't go off on one and use the 'most natural act in the whole world' tirade against someone who agrees with the whole thing but is just offering, if you read what they are saying, an objective viewpoint.
With regards to expressing, also sometimes that may be convenient but again some express easily and some don't, but the option is there to use so that a mother can feed her child at any time in any place without recriminations or leering.
Some mothers just want to feed their child without hassle or grief, don't force them to go public and do it in cafes and tv studios if they don't want to or are not comfortable in doing so.
We are all entitled to an opinion, let them air it and then share yours. No need to damn someone who thinks different to you.
As for the actual topic, my response is No and No. But, as natural as breastfeeding is, and I think GarryP was trying to say before he got morally flogged by Emily Pankhursts great grandaughter, just because something is natural does not mean that it is socially acceptable to do a natural act in public. If you see someone urinating in a gutter you would be appalled and yet in some societies that is ok.
I always have advocated breastfeeding with all my kids and it has never been an issue when doing so in public, but that is because we just use common sense when doing so. We do not hide, we are not ashamed, but some elements of society just find it difficult to acknowledge. So when my wife has breastfed it has been in a place where WE are comfortable and she doesn't feel people looking at either in disgust or in titillation (no pun intended!).
It is natural and it is the best way to feed a child, but please don't go off on one and use the 'most natural act in the whole world' tirade against someone who agrees with the whole thing but is just offering, if you read what they are saying, an objective viewpoint.
With regards to expressing, also sometimes that may be convenient but again some express easily and some don't, but the option is there to use so that a mother can feed her child at any time in any place without recriminations or leering.
Some mothers just want to feed their child without hassle or grief, don't force them to go public and do it in cafes and tv studios if they don't want to or are not comfortable in doing so.
#67
Some interesting opinions here also some quite vitriolic responses to others who do not think the same as some posters.
We are all entitled to an opinion, let them air it and then share yours. No need to damn someone who thinks different to you.
As for the actual topic, my response is No and No. But, as natural as breastfeeding is, and I think GarryP was trying to say before he got morally flogged by Emily Pankhursts great grandaughter, just because something is natural does not mean that it is socially acceptable to do a natural act in public. If you see someone urinating in a gutter you would be appalled and yet in some societies that is ok.
I always have advocated breastfeeding with all my kids and it has never been an issue when doing so in public, but that is because we just use common sense when doing so. We do not hide, we are not ashamed, but some elements of society just find it difficult to acknowledge. So when my wife has breastfed it has been in a place where WE are comfortable and she doesn't feel people looking at either in disgust or in titillation (no pun intended!).
It is natural and it is the best way to feed a child, but please don't go off on one and use the 'most natural act in the whole world' tirade against someone who agrees with the whole thing but is just offering, if you read what they are saying, an objective viewpoint.
With regards to expressing, also sometimes that may be convenient but again some express easily and some don't, but the option is there to use so that a mother can feed her child at any time in any place without recriminations or leering.
Some mothers just want to feed their child without hassle or grief, don't force them to go public and do it in cafes and tv studios if they don't want to or are not comfortable in doing so.
We are all entitled to an opinion, let them air it and then share yours. No need to damn someone who thinks different to you.
As for the actual topic, my response is No and No. But, as natural as breastfeeding is, and I think GarryP was trying to say before he got morally flogged by Emily Pankhursts great grandaughter, just because something is natural does not mean that it is socially acceptable to do a natural act in public. If you see someone urinating in a gutter you would be appalled and yet in some societies that is ok.
I always have advocated breastfeeding with all my kids and it has never been an issue when doing so in public, but that is because we just use common sense when doing so. We do not hide, we are not ashamed, but some elements of society just find it difficult to acknowledge. So when my wife has breastfed it has been in a place where WE are comfortable and she doesn't feel people looking at either in disgust or in titillation (no pun intended!).
It is natural and it is the best way to feed a child, but please don't go off on one and use the 'most natural act in the whole world' tirade against someone who agrees with the whole thing but is just offering, if you read what they are saying, an objective viewpoint.
With regards to expressing, also sometimes that may be convenient but again some express easily and some don't, but the option is there to use so that a mother can feed her child at any time in any place without recriminations or leering.
Some mothers just want to feed their child without hassle or grief, don't force them to go public and do it in cafes and tv studios if they don't want to or are not comfortable in doing so.
All of the above and then you go on to agree with a man who is openly forward at being backwards regarding breastfeeding.
#68
Not at all...he was just expressing (now that WAS a pun) a different perspective
but I didn't say I agreed with him, just that he was putting forth a sound argument.
As I said, breastfeeding is good...no issues from me on that score.
but I didn't say I agreed with him, just that he was putting forth a sound argument.As I said, breastfeeding is good...no issues from me on that score.
#69
BTW does anyone have any stats on who is doing the tut, tutting in public?
Just I have this suspicion ...
Just I have this suspicion ...
#71
One problem is that we breastfeeding mothers tend to get seen in that 'militant' light, even though the vast majority of us are discreet breastfeeders. Just because I chose and was able to breatfeed both of my children, and did so in public, does not make me a 'whop 'em out, look at me' type of person. I need alcohol to do that
I agree that discreet breast feeding is probably best. Not always easy to actually do, especially if you are
well ednowed
, but it is possible. But I don't understand people who say it shouldn't be done at all. I have met people who are disgusted by the concept of BF
And yet, in most cases they would never know a mum was breast feeding. Heck, I've gone around a whole supermarket doing the weekly shop breastfeeding and no-one knew (The beauty of slings

I agree that discreet breast feeding is probably best. Not always easy to actually do, especially if you are
well ednowed
, but it is possible. But I don't understand people who say it shouldn't be done at all. I have met people who are disgusted by the concept of BF
And yet, in most cases they would never know a mum was breast feeding. Heck, I've gone around a whole supermarket doing the weekly shop breastfeeding and no-one knew (The beauty of slings
#74
Why do I need to make a case? It's natural, the problem lies within the people who are too prudish to cope with witnessing a baby feeding naturally from a breast.
Most women I see breastfeeding outside ARE discreet anyway. In fact, I haven't yet seen a woman taking her t.shirt off, taking her bra off, fondling her breasts, even swinging them around like some sort of circus act (so that everyone can see she has breasts, or something
).
Most women I see breastfeeding outside ARE discreet anyway. In fact, I haven't yet seen a woman taking her t.shirt off, taking her bra off, fondling her breasts, even swinging them around like some sort of circus act (so that everyone can see she has breasts, or something
).



