Go Back  British Expats > Living & Moving Abroad > Australia > The Barbie
Reload this Page >

public display of mammaries

Wikiposts

public display of mammaries

Thread Tools
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 8:49 am
  #46  
 
Joined: Jun 2006
Posts: 4,555
IvanM is an unknown quantity at this point
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Breast is best.

Ladies get em oot.

Breast feeding is good as well.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 9:07 am
  #47  
Dreamy's Avatar
Officially Bewildered
 
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 5,523
From: Blue Mountains, NSW
Dreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond reputeDreamy has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by nickyjohnt
All the woman will probably hate me now ! but have seen lots of mums in shopping centres etc getting there boobs out & feeding there babies in public & not even trying to cover it up ! ( food hall at shopping centres mostly !! )
Sorry , but why cant they just express the milk & feed it to the kids when they are hungry if they know they are going out for the day ?

Do not want to see that when im eating !
Waiting for the Mum's army to slate me but that is just how i feel !!

Nicky
I can't speak for anyone else but I found expressing milk to be incredibly uncomfortable and painful and took hours and hours to even get a small amount of milk. Also, if it was coming up to feed time, the smallest wail from the baby would cause gallons of milk to erupt, it was like Pavlov's dog. I'm sure my discreet feeding of my child was less offensive than forcing hundreds of people to see my milk drenched breasts as I walked around a shopping centre..

(And breast pads... what a joke)
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 9:55 am
  #48  
scottishcelts's Avatar
Chan eil aon chànan gu le
 
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 22,437
From: On the ning nang nong
scottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by nickyjohnt
All the woman will probably hate me now ! but have seen lots of mums in shopping centres etc getting there boobs out & feeding there babies in public & not even trying to cover it up ! ( food hall at shopping centres mostly !! )
Sorry , but why cant they just express the milk & feed it to the kids when they are hungry if they know they are going out for the day ?

Do not want to see that when im eating !
Waiting for the Mum's army to slate me but that is just how i feel !!

Nicky


Can't you go someplace else to eat, or simply don't watch. It's one of the most natural acts in the history of the world.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 10:19 am
  #49  
GarryP's Avatar
snɐןɔ ʎʇıuɐs
 
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 6,558
GarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by scottishcelts


Can't you go someplace else to eat, or simply don't watch. It's one of the most natural acts in the history of the world.
Well, actually there are a whole class of behaviours that are "the most natural acts in the history of the world" that we don't do in public - mostly those that remind us we are animals.

And your "go someplace else to" could equally well apply to breastfeeding.

The biggest problem I see with public breastfeeding is the usage of it as a militant act - the woman who chooses the most public spot to whap'um out and looks to dare anyone else to say something. The 'look, I'm special' mindset designed as a dominance behaviour - they deserve to get called on it.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 10:33 am
  #50  
scottishcelts's Avatar
Chan eil aon chànan gu le
 
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 22,437
From: On the ning nang nong
scottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by GarryP
Well, actually there are a whole class of behaviours that are "the most natural acts in the history of the world" that we don't do in public - mostly those that remind us we are animals.

And your "go someplace else to" could equally well apply to breastfeeding.

The biggest problem I see with public breastfeeding is the usage of it as a militant act - the woman who chooses the most public spot to whap'um out and looks to dare anyone else to say something. The 'look, I'm special' mindset designed as a dominance behaviour - they deserve to get called on it.
Oh please. You are accusing outdoor breastfeeders of being a bunch of militant activists, their goal being to encourage enraged philistines to make a fool of themselves in public.

Where do these women get the time to go to all these group meetings I wonder?
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 10:35 am
  #51  
Lost in BE Cyberspace
 
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 41,517
Sally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond reputeSally Redux has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by Dreamy
I can't speak for anyone else but I found expressing milk to be incredibly uncomfortable and painful and took hours and hours to even get a small amount of milk. Also, if it was coming up to feed time, the smallest wail from the baby would cause gallons of milk to erupt, it was like Pavlov's dog. I'm sure my discreet feeding of my child was less offensive than forcing hundreds of people to see my milk drenched breasts as I walked around a shopping centre..

(And breast pads... what a joke)
Yes same here.

Also it's best not to keep switching between breast and bottle, as the sucking actions are different for each (breast is also beneficial for the baby's jaw development).
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 10:46 am
  #52  
GarryP's Avatar
snɐןɔ ʎʇıuɐs
 
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 6,558
GarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Oh please. You are accusing outdoor breastfeeders of being a bunch of militant activists, their goal being to encourage enraged philistines to make a fool of themselves in public.

Where do these women get the time to go to all these group meetings I wonder?
Way to build a strawman, rather than address the issues.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 11:35 am
  #53  
scottishcelts's Avatar
Chan eil aon chànan gu le
 
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 22,437
From: On the ning nang nong
scottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by GarryP
Way to build a strawman, rather than address the issues.
Issues?
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 11:50 am
  #54  
GarryP's Avatar
snɐןɔ ʎʇıuɐs
 
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 6,558
GarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Issues?
  • Just because its natural doesn't mean anything special, rather we tend to not carry out 'natural' functions in public, generally.
  • Saying someone else should change/move invites the response that you can equally change/move.
  • There are a group of what I would classify as 'militants', who seem hell bent on trying to push against what other people think - that also doesn't give them any special rights.
So far you haven't exactly made the case as to why being discrete is a bad idea, or unreasonable.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 11:56 am
  #55  
scottishcelts's Avatar
Chan eil aon chànan gu le
 
Joined: Feb 2009
Posts: 22,437
From: On the ning nang nong
scottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond reputescottishcelts has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by GarryP
  • Just because its natural doesn't mean anything special, rather we tend to not carry out 'natural' functions in public, generally.
  • Saying someone else should change/move invites the response that you can equally change/move.
  • There are a group of what I would classify as 'militants', who seem hell bent on trying to push against what other people think - that also doesn't give them any special rights.
So far you haven't exactly made the case as to why being discrete is a bad idea, or unreasonable.
Why do I need to make a case? It's natural, the problem lies within the people who are too prudish to cope with witnessing a baby feeding naturally from a breast.

Most women I see breastfeeding outside ARE discreet anyway. In fact, I haven't yet seen a woman taking her t.shirt off, taking her bra off, fondling her breasts, even swinging them around like some sort of circus act (so that everyone can see she has breasts, or something ).
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 12:28 pm
  #56  
GarryP's Avatar
snɐןɔ ʎʇıuɐs
 
Joined: Nov 2006
Posts: 6,558
GarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond reputeGarryP has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Why do I need to make a case? It's natural, the problem lies within the people who are too prudish to cope with witnessing a baby feeding naturally from a breast.
As I pointed out a few times, 'natural' doesn't mean anything. Lots of things are natural, but don't get done in public. It's not a reason why its ok and your views should override someone else's.

Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Most women I see breastfeeding outside ARE discreet anyway. In fact, I haven't yet seen a woman taking her t.shirt off, taking her bra off, fondling her breasts, even swinging them around like some sort of circus act (so that everyone can see she has breasts, or something ).
Indeed, and I think most people (men included) are OK with discreet. However, I can think of situations, one in particular comes to mind, where that 'militant' descriptor would have been appropriate.

Hell, look at this. That's a militant "do as we say or else" behaviour if I ever saw one.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 12:32 pm
  #57  
Geordie George's Avatar
Cup of tea, Father?
 
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 6,895
From: Underground, overground, wombling free
Geordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond reputeGeordie George has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by nickyjohnt
All the woman will probably hate me now ! but have seen lots of mums in shopping centres etc getting there boobs out & feeding there babies in public & not even trying to cover it up ! ( food hall at shopping centres mostly !! )
Sorry , but why cant they just express the milk & feed it to the kids when they are hungry if they know they are going out for the day ?

Do not want to see that when im eating !
Waiting for the Mum's army to slate me but that is just how i feel !!

Nicky
So you're offended that in a place designed for people to eat, a person is eating? Or do babies not count as people? How should women cover up when feeding? I can't say I've ever seen someone feeding in public not fully clothed, but maybe I go to the wrong places. Unless you mean their child should be covered with a muslin or something when they are feeding. In which case, fine, so long as you do the same - practice what you preach and all that. Eat with a blanket over your head and report back as to how convenient and comfortable the whole experience was.

Both my children have been exclusively breastfed. With my daughter, I did try offering her bottles of EBM. She refused. Repeatedly. We tried different bottles, different times for feeding, different people feeding her. She wouldn't entertain the idea at all. I gave up with giving her a bottle and stuck with breastfeeding. After all, I could see her point - why suck on something rubbery and artificial when the good stuff is right on tap, at the right temperature and doesn't require any waiting? With my son, I didn't even bother trying him with a bottle. I didn't want a repeat of the screaming and wailing we got whenever we forced the issue with my daughter.

I don't get why some people are offended by breastfeeding. It seems a very strange thing to be offended by - particularly given the huge range of infinitely more offensive things out there.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 12:39 pm
  #58  
cresta57's Avatar
MODERATOR
 
Joined: Nov 2002
Posts: 9,932
From: Redneck Wonderland
cresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by GarryP
  • Just because its natural doesn't mean anything special, rather we tend to not carry out 'natural' functions in public, generally.
  • Saying someone else should change/move invites the response that you can equally change/move.
  • There are a group of what I would classify as 'militants', who seem hell bent on trying to push against what other people think - that also doesn't give them any special rights.
So far you haven't exactly made the case as to why being discrete is a bad idea, or unreasonable.
Are you attempting to equate the breastfeeding of a child with taking a dump perchance?
Next you'll be suggesting they feed them in the toilet.
What's to complain about, does it make you feel uncomfortable?
Why?
Is it offensive to you?
If your uncomfortable with breastfeeding that is your problem not the mothers. The vast majority are so discreet you'd have to be staring to notice.
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 12:42 pm
  #59  
cresta57's Avatar
MODERATOR
 
Joined: Nov 2002
Posts: 9,932
From: Redneck Wonderland
cresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond reputecresta57 has a reputation beyond repute
Default Re: public display of mammaries

Originally Posted by scottishcelts
Why do I need to make a case? It's natural, the problem lies within the people who are too prudish to cope with witnessing a baby feeding naturally from a breast.

Most women I see breastfeeding outside ARE discreet anyway. In fact, I haven't yet seen a woman taking her t.shirt off, taking her bra off, fondling her breasts, even swinging them around like some sort of circus act (so that everyone can see she has breasts, or something ).
Have you not been to Logan Hyperdome
 
Old Feb 26th 2013 | 12:45 pm
  #60  
linloo's Avatar
Forum Regular
 
Joined: Nov 2007
Posts: 207
From: Adelaide
linloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to alllinloo is a name known to all
Default Re: public display of mammaries

This issue never bothered me a jot, like most people its never been shoved in my face, mums I know are always discreet, as a friend said "my boobs are for my baby to feed and my hubby to fantasize over, not for perverts to get a kick!"
What I did have an issue with, was when in Coles not so long ago, A 2 year old in the trolly seat started yelling and mum just lobbed her boob out in the fruit and veg aisle and feed him while she carried on shopping and the child was still in the seat. Too me that's just rude! I am no prude but WTF
 


Contact Us - Archive - Advertising - Cookie Policy - Privacy Statement - Terms of Service - Your Privacy Choices

Copyright © 2026 MH Sub I, LLC dba Internet Brands. All rights reserved. Use of this site indicates your consent to the Terms of Use.