gorgeousgal

Haven't posted a great deal as Oh has been sorting our emigration out......
Anyway, he's left me and our two kids (in limbo land) and is shagging (sorry if I can't say that) someone from work. He want's nothing more to do with me, says Im a fat ugly ****.
Not even sure what visa rights me and the kids have? I know he'd got it all sorted, but......?

Wendy

So sorry to hear that.

Were you going on his skills?

asher

I'm really sorry babe!

wha a nasty thing to say

sending ((((((HUGS)))))))

Fly Away

Oh hun,

Sending you a virtual hug. ((((()))))

You must be going through hell. What a sh1t your ex is. I had to respond to your post. I'm sorry that I can only offer you sympathy and hope that when you have your head a bit sorted you can look into your visa position.

BE is always here for you to ask questions and I'm sure that everyone will help as much as they can.

Hope everything works out for you.

kez81

what a arsehole your better off without him!!:curse:

cant help about your visa just wanted to say chin up and show him you can have a better life without him!!

gorgeousgal

Hi Wendy!
We were going on his skills, unfortunately......although I do have the skills too??

Reedy

Agreed....

Sending you (((((((Hugs and ))))))) too....

L xx

quoll

Well, we dont want HIM here! See what you can do about getting a visa on your own skills, we do want YOU here!

What a prat!

Tiggs+Graz

so sorry for you!
what a nasty, hurtful thing for him to say.
i just dont understand some people at all - not only has he left you and your kids but he has tried to knock you down as he has gone.
Dont let him 'win'. Pick yourself up and show him that you dont need him to succeed in your dreams.

As far as visas go i would reccommend talking to an agent - they generally do an initial consultation for free and will be able to tell you if your skills will get you a visa.
Even if you cant go as things stand - change things so that you can - or spend some time thinking about what YOU and your kids want to do (oz or otherwise) and go from there.

sandav

oh you poor thing sorry cant help with the visa. why dont you talk to one of the agents that post here regularly.
sending you a hug.

Sandra

Wendy

I'll help all I can - you can PM me if you like and I'll see what I can find out.

sharon45

Sorry to here your news sending (((((((Hugs)))))take care
Sharon xx

bridie

Sorry to hear your news, but honestly you will be better without a selfish git like that in the long run.

I agree with what some others have said, pick up the phone and speak to a some agents, find out if you can go under your own skills and then go for it.

Good luck

moneypenny20

What a weak jerk. He's trying to justify his behaviour by blaming you. Definitely get on to a good agent and ask their advice. Stay strong.

SarahJane2007

:curse:What a w*nker!! Have a chat to an agent to see if you can get over here on your skills...sounds like he doesnt have any skills at all...especially people skills. All the best and hope you can move on and fullfill your dreams.((((HUGS)))).