The call came
Apr 16th 2012 | 10:29 am
#16
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Mar 2008
Posts: 7,580
From: Sydney, NSW
Re: The call came
Your mum died surrounded by love. Massive hugs to you.
After a 5 month battle with cancer induced dementia my dad died in my sister's arms- I was not able to be there- and at the end he went in peace, which was a comfort to me.
Remember all the good times and happy things about your mum, not the awful last part of her life. (Sorry if this is not coming over right, I'm crying too much to think about it properly- it is coming from the heart.)
After a 5 month battle with cancer induced dementia my dad died in my sister's arms- I was not able to be there- and at the end he went in peace, which was a comfort to me.
Remember all the good times and happy things about your mum, not the awful last part of her life. (Sorry if this is not coming over right, I'm crying too much to think about it properly- it is coming from the heart.)
Apr 16th 2012 | 11:05 am
#17
Back home at last!
Joined: Mar 2012
Posts: 259
From: UK to AUS to USA, now home in UK
Re: The call came
Your mum died surrounded by love. Massive hugs to you.
After a 5 month battle with cancer induced dementia my dad died in my sister's arms- I was not able to be there- and at the end he went in peace, which was a comfort to me.
Remember all the good times and happy things about your mum, not the awful last part of her life. (Sorry if this is not coming over right, I'm crying too much to think about it properly- it is coming from the heart.)
After a 5 month battle with cancer induced dementia my dad died in my sister's arms- I was not able to be there- and at the end he went in peace, which was a comfort to me.
Remember all the good times and happy things about your mum, not the awful last part of her life. (Sorry if this is not coming over right, I'm crying too much to think about it properly- it is coming from the heart.)
Apr 17th 2012 | 8:47 am
#18
Thread Starter
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From: Western burbs, Melbourne
Re: The call came
As a parent I would not worry about my offspring being near at my end...just happy that they are happy....so don't worry about not being with your dad in his final hours. I'm sure he would be happy you are settled.
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:12 pm
#19
Lost in BE Cyberspace
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Posts: 14,284
From: UK
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:17 pm
#20
Lost in BE Cyberspace
Joined: Mar 2008
Posts: 7,580
From: Sydney, NSW
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
(((massive hugs)))
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:18 pm
#21
Brisbane's friendly cop
Joined: Jan 2007
Posts: 1,766
From: Brisbane
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
Thinking of you <<hugs>>
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:29 pm
#22
Not actually a squirrel
Joined: Apr 2010
Posts: 3,446
From: England
Re: The call came
Your loss is very sad.
Be kind to yourself.
Be kind to yourself.
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:34 pm
#23
...giving optimism a go?!
Joined: Jun 2007
Posts: 2,202
From: Brisbane (leafy, hilly western suburbs)
Re: The call came
Thats a terrible thing to hear.
bb is right - dont beat yourself up.
bb is right - dont beat yourself up.
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:46 pm
#24
Back home at last!
Joined: Mar 2012
Posts: 259
From: UK to AUS to USA, now home in UK
Re: The call came
So sorry to hear your news, how awful for you.
Take care of yourself xx
Take care of yourself xx
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:53 pm
#25
Home and Happy
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 94,305
From: Keep true friends and puppets close, trust no-one else...
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
x
Jul 11th 2012 | 2:56 pm
#26
Gutter Gob!!
Joined: Feb 2005
Posts: 13,098
From: Perth
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
Jul 11th 2012 | 3:15 pm
#27
Capt Hilts
Joined: Jan 2008
Posts: 1,573
From: Sunny Adelaide :)
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
Our condolence are with you,
Cooler
Jul 11th 2012 | 3:40 pm
#28
Feeble Minded
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 1,612
From: Cairns, QLD
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
Jul 11th 2012 | 3:52 pm
#29
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From: Limerick-Shropshire- Perth.
Re: The call came
That is so sad.Sent shivers through me.Her suffering and pain is over.Take care of yourself.You must be in shock.
Jul 11th 2012 | 4:24 pm
#30
Joined: Jan 2006
Posts: 28,998
Re: The call came
Today at 7.25am my call came.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
My younger sister took her own life yesterday at the age of 39. She was a troubled soul who has battled depression and mental health issues for many years. I don't know what to do with myself today whilst the UK sleeps, I might as well be on another planet.
