thanks manda..sorry you are experiencing the same!

if you knew our story you would understand really why she is having em...but to cut a long story short....
poor mum has had to put up with....
2 failed marriages

having my bro at 38(while in second marriage)!!mad woman..he still lives at home

my dad (mums ex hubby) died suddenly dec 98

my grandad died fairly suddenly age almost 90 god love him apr 2000

i had a tough time coping with both their losses and had tough time with hubby too
i had accident jan 2002...fractured shoulder....fell down stairs...not nice!

my older brother died suddenly oct 2002 just after we had applied to come here!...mum was next of kin so she had all his sorting out to do..sell house etc etc..

mum moved house aug 2003

we came to Oz sept 2003....difficult time to leave mum I know....

mum and brother visited feb 2004

mum sold other house may 2004

panic attacks started june 2004!!!

surprising???.....no I dont suppose so