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Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
(Post 9192974)
I guess they should give up on life and focus on the shit life has thrown at them? Or maybe seek help of some sorts to help them through.....
Let's hope we never have to find out what it is like for ourselves |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by Grayling
(Post 9192977)
Easy to say from a comfortable position isn't it?
Let's hope we never have to find out what it is like for ourselves What I do know is whatever life thows you have to make the best of it and if that means getting help then get help:thumbup: |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by 77hil
(Post 9192948)
None of us are innocent bystanders in life. We make our choices or we let others make them for us. To treat him as if he's just some innocent bystander that all of this crap has happened to would be very naive. I'd like to hear what the ex-wife, old UK friends, and kids have to say about him.
Wouldn't believe too much tittle that may come from the mouth of his ex either. In life some folk are just dealt a rough deal. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
(Post 9192993)
What I do know is whatever life thows you have to make the best of it and if that means getting help then get help:thumbup:
Who are the transported orphans going to get help from? |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
(Post 9192993)
who's in a comfortable position?
What I do know is whatever life thows you have to make the best of it and if that means getting help then get help:thumbup: |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by the troubadour
(Post 9192997)
Afraid not. There are countless decent folk out there getting a raw deal through no fault of their own.
Wouldn't believe too much tittle that may come from the mouth of his ex either. In life some folk are just dealt a rough deal. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by the troubadour
(Post 9193003)
It is also being able to access the correct help when required.Being able to connect with an understanding GP to gain a referral, can bring out a depressive eposode in itself.
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Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by Grayling
(Post 9193001)
So who is he going to get help from?
Who are the transported orphans going to get help from? mate no one is saying people can undo the crap that's happened in life but they can come to terms with it so as not to destroy them.
Originally Posted by the troubadour
(Post 9193003)
It is also being able to access the correct help when required.Being able to connect with an understanding GP to gain a referral, can bring out a depressive eposode in itself.
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Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
(Post 9193004)
Agree 100% - and most of them fight back and lead courageous lives because of it mate....
Mental Hospitals are far from being unknown to such people if they get that far as they feature high in suicide stats. Even in this day and age there are many men that consider it weak to admit they are not invincible. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by Grayling
(Post 9193007)
Why are we assuming he is depressed?:confused:
First need to connect with an understanding GP as there are not a few duds out there. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by 77hil
(Post 9192948)
None of us are innocent bystanders in life. We make our choices or we let others make them for us. To treat him as if he's just some innocent bystander that all of this crap has happened to would be very naive. I'd like to hear what the ex-wife, old UK friends, and kids have to say about him.
You know, you have to put things into perspective. This bloke moved to Australia with his family before there were support networks and things such as BE. You recent expats don't know how good you've got it. In a lot of ways you are moving to Oz with a ready made life. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by iamthecreaturefromuranus
(Post 9192961)
You've never had an event happen in your life that you had no control over then?
You're either young or bloody lucky. |
Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by Deancm_MKII
(Post 9193054)
Or bloody oblivious!
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Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by sonlymewalter
(Post 9192974)
or what about the aborigines who's land we took
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Re: Very sad
Originally Posted by Grayling
(Post 9192962)
Tell that to all the £10 poms and orphan children shipped over here by the thousand, who do not want to be here, can't afford to go back, and have no one to go back to after all this time.
Many of the children shipped over here do not know their families and many were told the parents were dead. Tell them about their choices I've made choices that make me happy. It how you deal with adversity that shows your character. |
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