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Old Jan 13th 2004, 3:33 pm
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Originally posted by OzTennis
I'll second those observations Jon. I find the same thing with shop assistants UK vs Melbourne. And why does it always seem to be here that when you want help there is no shop assistant to be seen but when you just want to have a browse they are at you like vultures?

The British obsession with queueing never ceases to amaze me. For example, I recently went to the butcher's in our local town and it was p****g down. There was a queue from the counter out into the street. I came along and thought s*d this, I'm not standing in the rain. I asked whether it would not be better for everyone to go inside the shop as there was room for everyone and I said surely you know who is first and so on. You should have seen the looks I got for having the temerity to suggest something so outlandish. And yes, they kept queueing in the rain so I went to do some other things and came back later.

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Perhaps they were waiting for a bus Oztennis, just a thought

Seriously,

The aussie children i have met, are indeed quite vocal , but and this is a huge BUT < sorry wifey > but, they are DAMN polite.

Im talkin Brissy kids, and i think its the socialisation skills over in oz, i mean TV is just another flat object to hang a vase on and lets face it AUSSIE TV SUX big time,.... all old american sitcoms , although the news is Hilarious, when we was in brissy, i am sure i heard a tv presenter use the word bastard, which i must admit shocked me...

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english people complain when they go into a shop and get asked if they need any help when they dont and also complain when they dont get enough help when they do actually need some help. you just cant please everyone can you.
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Originally posted by Fuzzyness
english people complain when they go into a shop and get asked if they need any help when they dont and also complain when they dont get enough help when they do actually need some help. you just cant please everyone can you.

Im still looking up the word TEMERITY

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Surely a , Hey hows it going is a tad easier to deal with than may i help you sir....
perhaps people see it the same , im afraid i dont !
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Originally posted by Timber Floor Au
Im still looking up the word TEMERITY

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Surely a , Hey hows it going is a tad easier to deal with than may i help you sir....
perhaps people see it the same , im afraid i dont !
is that attitude not contributing to why shop assistants now hardly bother to acknowledge their customers for fear of pissing them off. i find it easy to say "no thanks" when i'm asked. if people are polite to you then i have no problem with being polite back, however much it may annoy me being asked in the first place. i mean they are only doing their job and for that i feel deserve at a least common curtesy.
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Originally posted by Fuzzyness
is that attitude not contributing to why shop assistants now hardly bother to acknowledge their customers for fear of pissing them off. i find it easy to say "no thanks" when i'm asked. if people are polite to you then i have no problem with being polite back, however much it may annoy me being asked in the first place. i mean they are only doing their job and for that i feel deserve at a least common curtesy.

Hey its not an attitude thread,

Quite seriously, this started off as p's and q's and i fully concur that showing some common courtesy is deserved.

However painful ignorance rude manners and sloppy service, are actualities within england... and I find it appallingly frustrating by comparison with the excellent service and approach from aussie equivalents ...

The comment to which you remarked, was a point of approach , and was part of a deeper thought i was having and forgot to type OooOpspps....

In essence My point was when you *eventually* get served in uk, the can i help you sir , kinda frustrates the crap outta me, when that same person for 10 minutes has been yappin to there mate about ZILCH... this comment was indeed spurned by the thread, when you want service you cant find anyone... and when you dont, they are round ya like meat ants on a rats corpse...

apologies for the misunderstanding >> hav a beer
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sorry have to respond to wat seemed to be a good chunk of thread from stormz,was reading with interest until hte part where it says 'aboriganies get every thing' does this include caucasion disease, alcaholism,poverty & humiliation?? now i am just an ignorant outsider & av never efen been to oz,but from wat i know if i was an ozzy & I had nothing posative to say about these ppl i would take comfort in embarassed silence.like i said its just my opinion & if any 1 can tell me something to contradict my opinion i will listen with interest.p.s not tryiing to srtir,its an opinion is all
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Originally posted by userjay
sorry have to respond to wat seemed to be a good chunk of thread from stormz,was reading with interest until hte part where it says 'aboriganies get every thing' does this include caucasion disease, alcaholism,poverty & humiliation?? now i am just an ignorant outsider & av never efen been to oz,but from wat i know if i was an ozzy & I had nothing posative to say about these ppl i would take comfort in embarassed silence.like i said its just my opinion & if any 1 can tell me something to contradict my opinion i will listen with interest.p.s not tryiing to srtir,its an opinion is all
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You're right. Aboriginies do get Western Disease, this can't be helped. But tell me, what can we do with the aboriginal couple that get drunk and pass out, every night on the doorstep of my workplace? I work night shifts, and if I want to go outside for any reason, I need to step over them to get outside. Being the younger, built male of the workplace, I am the one who escorts the girls to the train station when they finish their shift because the aboriginals make it unsafe for them to go by themselves. Admittedly, I do nightshift in what is considered the "Red Light District" of Brisbane.

Being vocal about issues, which seems to be the concensus about us aussies in this post is exactly what the post is about. Aboriginies get their own public welfare system. Example: Caucasion students get Austudy. Aboriginals get Abstudy.

Getting back to the point, aboriginies get a lot more handed to them than caucasions, and what do they do with it? Piss it up against the wall. They unfortunately seem to be stuck in a culture where they know they can get away with this sort of behaviour because they are aboriginal. It is reverse-racism.

With this taken into account, there is also a share of the native population who do manage to make something of themselves.

You would think this would give younger aboriginies something to aspire to, but no. While they keep getting their higher than normal welfare, they continue to live off it. Put them back on the breadline like other families on welfare and let's see what happens.

Ok I've rambled enough.
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Originally posted by Stormz
As an Aussie who has lived in the UK for the last 10 years, I hope I can make some observations:

Aussies are much more forward, and WILL complain or make their point known if you please or displease them. The English (as I can`t speak for the Scots or Welsh), will just put up with any old crap from the govt., shop assistants, taxi drivers, whatever....
Sometimes this means the Aussies come across as being rude.... I prefer to think we are just more matter-of-fact about things, and straight-forward. I constantly see the English being stuck in a rut (as with the queu in the rain mentioned by OzTennis)... with little common sense.

As part of the above, Aussies also say things and don`t hold a grudge, eg if an Aussie is pissed off about something, he`ll say so at the first opportunity, and then he`ll forget about it and get on with his life. It`s not a personal thing... it`s just a statement of fact. In England, people REALLY hold grudges for centuries over the stupidest of things. My wife`s family in the UK are a perfect example of sections not speaking to the others for 40 years because of an argument way back when..... grow up ppl.

I`m a real stickler for good manners, and generally in the UK I think ppl (outside of stores) have better manners (from what I remember of Aus 10 yrs ago). Of course, there are still LOADS of rude and ignorant people here also.... my wife works for Jessops and she get`s her fair share of really shitty customers.... and it makes her sick. I think staff in stores in Aus are generally better behaved as they know the customers wouldn`t have a problem shouting at them (as they are more straight-forward).

I think the education system is better in Oz.

I think the chocolate is better in Aus (more cocoa), and believe it or not there is much more choice.... which shocked me when I came here as I thought the UK would have had more choice.

Travel is definitely better and cheaper in Oz (trains and buses that is).

Aborigines (on the whole) are what let Aus down, possibly because they get everything or perhaps because they are bitter at whites taking over their country. Also the attitudes of many of the Italian immigrants who are stuck in their ways. The 2nd generation of those Italians will be able to be more open-minded though, so it`ll all work out.... much the same as it is working out with 2nd/3rd generation Pakistanis in England.

At least in Oz the street signs aren`t in Chinese or anything yet (are they?), like the Urdu here in Slough and Southall.
Probably sounds like I`m racist, but I`m not. Just being truthful. I have Indian, Pakistani and black friends btw.

I think the Aus media is disgusting when it comes to sports and stuff..... quite immature and derogatory. They let themselves down and don`t speak for a nation. The UK sports press are alot fairer, whereas the Aus press is very arrogant. Dissapoints me alot and I feel quite ashamed.

WOW ,

talk about a stormz in a tea cup, missed this thread initially.

Having read your post, at first i saw it as quite crass and racist, then having had a cuppa and read it again, i decided hmm lets jump in...

Australia, is made up of one of the most diverse array of cultures religions and nationalities on the planet.

Italians, first emigrating to oz via skills in the 50/60s helping with the building of the snowey river damn project , many of whom lost their lives, account for the 2nd biggest population of italians outside of italy.

Aborigines from my recollection were the first settlers or indeed were IN AUSTRALIA, prior to good old cook popping his head round the BAY !!

As far as i know Oz state handouts to aborigines is and will be always a cause for complaint and whinging but ... hmm they were here first springs to mind...


Grudges, poms dont hold grudges.. i for one dont , we also dont have chips on our shoulders, and i concur as generations cum to the fore then attitudes etc change..

As for pakistanis etc, wot has that got to do with the price of cheese, the national dish in the uk is now CURRY, i live in a community that is shared with a few differing nationalities, and like it or lump it THATS LIFE MATE, get over it and Move on >> thats my attitude


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Originally posted by gavo
UserJay,

You're right. Aboriginies do get Western Disease, this can't be helped. But tell me, what can we do with the aboriginal couple that get drunk and pass out, every night on the doorstep of my workplace? I work night shifts, and if I want to go outside for any reason, I need to step over them to get outside. Being the younger, built male of the workplace, I am the one who escorts the girls to the train station when they finish their shift because the aboriginals make it unsafe for them to go by themselves. Admittedly, I do nightshift in what is considered the "Red Light District" of Brisbane.

Being vocal about issues, which seems to be the concensus about us aussies in this post is exactly what the post is about. Aboriginies get their own public welfare system. Example: Caucasion students get Austudy. Aboriginals get Abstudy.

Getting back to the point, aboriginies get a lot more handed to them than caucasions, and what do they do with it? Piss it up against the wall. They unfortunately seem to be stuck in a culture where they know they can get away with this sort of behaviour because they are aboriginal. It is reverse-racism.

With this taken into account, there is also a share of the native population who do manage to make something of themselves.

You would think this would give younger aboriginies something to aspire to, but no. While they keep getting their higher than normal welfare, they continue to live off it. Put them back on the breadline like other families on welfare and let's see what happens.

Ok I've rambled enough.
oyu are missing the point my friend,whilst i sympathys with your work situ(& i bet u hate walkin the girls to the station) you have to remember who put the bottle in thier hands?obviously not yourself but you know wat i mean,yes individual ppl can aspire to good things regardless but the powers that be set rather a large amount of rot into quite a big apple!! could take a while for things to heal.puting them back on the bread line might just make your journeys to & from work a tad more intresting!!!! food for thought
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Originally posted by gavo
They unfortunately seem to be stuck in a culture where they know they can get away with this sort of behaviour because they are aboriginal.
maybe that's because it's not their culture? i.e. They're trying to adopt the way they've lived for centuries to the culture of a bunch a freshly arrived white folk who live in an entirely different culture.


With this taken into account, there is also a share of the native population who do manage to make something of themselves.
those would be the ones who've adapted to the western way and fit into the style of society which happens to match yours....
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Originally posted by gavo
UserJay,

You're right. Aboriginies do get Western Disease, this can't be helped. But tell me, what can we do with the aboriginal couple that get drunk and pass out, every night on the doorstep of my workplace? I work night shifts, and if I want to go outside for any reason, I need to step over them to get outside. Being the younger, built male of the workplace, I am the one who escorts the girls to the train station when they finish their shift because the aboriginals make it unsafe for them to go by themselves. Admittedly, I do nightshift in what is considered the "Red Light District" of Brisbane.

Being vocal about issues, which seems to be the concensus about us aussies in this post is exactly what the post is about. Aboriginies get their own public welfare system. Example: Caucasion students get Austudy. Aboriginals get Abstudy.

Getting back to the point, aboriginies get a lot more handed to them than caucasions, and what do they do with it? Piss it up against the wall. They unfortunately seem to be stuck in a culture where they know they can get away with this sort of behaviour because they are aboriginal. It is reverse-racism.

With this taken into account, there is also a share of the native population who do manage to make something of themselves.

You would think this would give younger aboriginies something to aspire to, but no. While they keep getting their higher than normal welfare, they continue to live off it. Put them back on the breadline like other families on welfare and let's see what happens.

Ok I've rambled enough.
I didnt start this thread with the intent to say that ozzies have bad manners, it was just a humourous observation of mine of hearing many here use "thanks" in a sentance that should have the word "please", nothing more.

I will say a few words about aboriginals though. Yes they get government help left right and centre, I say why not ?

The aboriginals arent a race of people that like to settle. Survival of their ancesters was dependant on their constantly moving around the country for food and water. Making them conform to white mans standards is wrong and you have to understand that you cant change their culture.

I lived in Canada for many years and on the east coast there are the native people called Innuit and Innu. They are very similar to the aboriginals in as much as they dont value the material things that are handed to them by the government. So when they smash the front of their government house to be able to ride their snow-mobile into their living room, we see it as disgusting and they see it as practical.

My take is that we (white man) stole these native peoples homes, introduced alcohol and other bad things, expected these natives to tow the line and become one of us. How would you react to an invasion of your country by some weird looking ruthless people ? If I know the brit attitude, I know the answer to that question: "It just aint f******g happening mate"

Lastly, why mention that the drunks outside of your workplace are aboriginals ? They could be anyone at all that live on the street, including the allmighty white man
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i aknowledge your initial reason for thread but just like every thing it evolves,saying that i totoly agree with your response to the race issue.i did respond to your initial gripe with interest i just had to take issue with stormz comment sorry for spoiling your thread.
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Originally posted by jandjuk
maybe that's because it's not their culture? i.e. They're trying to adopt the way they've lived for centuries to the culture of a bunch a freshly arrived white folk who live in an entirely different culture.



those would be the ones who've adapted to the western way and fit into the style of society which happens to match yours....
I totally agree with this post.

And also the last post, by Luke.

When I read the comments on here about aboriginals, I got very mad. Am still. I'm actually trembling while I type right now, and am sweating heaps. (believe me or not, but it's the truth.)
I nearly didn't want to respond cos I'm not good at explaining stuff, and post usually end up long and confusing. Luckily some other people responded with what I would've tried to say.
Just want to add two things:
- there's lots of generalisations being made (ie the aboriganals on the doorstep)
- some aboriganals still lived in the desert 30 years ago, literally, and of course it's very hard for us to understand how it must be now, all of a sudden living in the western industrialised world, while 'they' were still at the 'stage' of hunters and gatherers, nomads even. And yes, English came to Oz about 200 years ago, but even 200 years is nothing compared to the 100's of thousands of years it took us to get to this stage (including our bodies getting used to alcohol)

Just an example: In 1992 I lived in a small aboriginal/mining town in the northwest. The aboriginals had gotten housed of the government, but they didn't really want them. Most rooms they didn't even use! Which I think is logical, if you're not used to it, it takes time, a lot of time. Anyway my point was going to be, they also had gas stoves, but some of them used them to build wood fires on. Now some people would say: bloody idiots, wrecking stuff 'given' to them, but there's also a whole different perspective to look at it from.
Gavo, I can also see it from your point of view, always seeing them drunk etc, and when everybody starts saying things, others are sheep.
But try to look at it deeper, and maybe do a bit of research, especially before making racist remarks like yours.

And what userjay said: embarrassed silence might be best for you. Don't think you're ready for the 'sorry' website yet.....


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Luke the idea behind a forum is that a conversation via thread system, does infact evolve and other avenues open up, so pat on the back for starting athread that had such diverse cnnotations



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Wow, and I didn't even mention The Lost/missing generation(s) yet!
Or even the fact that the brits considered Australia terra nutralis or something like that.
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