I dont know what to do :(
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Originally Posted by Flutterscutter
Thanks all.
Many of you know how i am feeling. Its horrible isnt it?
I have decided i am not having anymore pets. I cant really cope with all the heartache. We still have our dog but no more pets in the future. I dote on them far too much, mainly as my kids and family are so far away. I treat them like my chilren. Silly old moo i guess.
Many of you know how i am feeling. Its horrible isnt it?
I have decided i am not having anymore pets. I cant really cope with all the heartache. We still have our dog but no more pets in the future. I dote on them far too much, mainly as my kids and family are so far away. I treat them like my chilren. Silly old moo i guess.
I'm treat our cats (well, now cat) like that too.....
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This must've happened after I went off to bed. Sooo sorry flutter. Plant a little tree where you've buried him, and whenever you see it, it'll remind you of all his wee antics. I've had to leave a cat..(wasn't allowed to take it to new house)..which broke my heart, but I've never lost one and I worry how I'll react.
karma on its way if it'll let me.
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karma on its way if it'll let me.
fellow cat lover
#33
Originally Posted by logan
This must've happened after I went off to bed. Sooo sorry flutter. Plant a little tree where you've buried him, and whenever you see it, it'll remind you of all his wee antics. I've had to leave a cat..(wasn't allowed to take it to new house)..which broke my heart, but I've never lost one and I worry how I'll react.
karma on its way if it'll let me.
fellow cat lover
karma on its way if it'll let me.
fellow cat lover

Hi logan
good idea for the tree i might go buy one tomorrow. this house will be in our family for many years yet, so i shall see it grow.
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Originally Posted by Flutterscutter
Hi logan
good idea for the tree i might go buy one tomorrow. this house will be in our family for many years yet, so i shall see it grow.
good idea for the tree i might go buy one tomorrow. this house will be in our family for many years yet, so i shall see it grow.
#35
Know how you're feeling N..........I've buried 4 and left 3 more in UK
All you can do is remember the good times.....he will.
All you can do is remember the good times.....he will.
#36
so so sorry to hear this- poor little thing- at least he is at peace now- he doesnt need to be in the house, or buried right now, he knows he is loved I am sure of it- like other have said, sit down and have a good cry but try to smile as you remember what a lovely pet he was and how he would want you do that rather than cry.
Nat xxx
Nat xxx
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Originally Posted by Flutterscutter
Thanks all.
Many of you know how i am feeling. Its horrible isnt it?
I have decided i am not having anymore pets. I cant really cope with all the heartache. We still have our dog but no more pets in the future. I dote on them far too much, mainly as my kids and family are so far away. I treat them like my chilren. Silly old moo i guess.
Many of you know how i am feeling. Its horrible isnt it?
I have decided i am not having anymore pets. I cant really cope with all the heartache. We still have our dog but no more pets in the future. I dote on them far too much, mainly as my kids and family are so far away. I treat them like my chilren. Silly old moo i guess.
) so I can understand your heartache. Never say never. One day a stray little kitten might wander into your garden, bedraggled and hungry, and your heart will be lost again, captive like a little bird...Be kind to yourself. Also maybe check out www.indigo.org/rainbowbridge_ver2.html and have a bl**dy good cry. Lots of love to you at this time. TopCats 1,2 and 3




