Big (Ladies) Problem
Aug 10th 2005 | 2:22 am
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hiya babe
Best of luck for tomorrow, hope you get some good news. Remember what I said, and do your research!!!!! Make sure you feel in control of what is happening to you, ask as many questions as you can think of, and if you can't think of any, just feel free to ask me!!
My oncologist said that in all his years of experience the best way to get a good result is to have a positive mental attitude.
Take heart from all us survivors out here, there are plenty of us, this is my second time and I'm only 33, I've chosen to it holistically this time....and remember you can beat this.
Don't forget to email me...and remember if you want my number just ask!
Love, Peace and hugs babe
Sophia xxxxx
Best of luck for tomorrow, hope you get some good news. Remember what I said, and do your research!!!!! Make sure you feel in control of what is happening to you, ask as many questions as you can think of, and if you can't think of any, just feel free to ask me!!
My oncologist said that in all his years of experience the best way to get a good result is to have a positive mental attitude.
Take heart from all us survivors out here, there are plenty of us, this is my second time and I'm only 33, I've chosen to it holistically this time....and remember you can beat this.
Don't forget to email me...and remember if you want my number just ask!
Love, Peace and hugs babe
Sophia xxxxx
Aug 10th 2005 | 2:44 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Fingers crossed for you...good luck 
Aug 10th 2005 | 2:45 am
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Really just wanted to say how sorry I am and what a blow it must be. I am 37 and reading your post made me feel very vulnerable. I have been feeling very sorry for myself today (long story) and you have made me snap out of it, silly mare that I am. You are so brave and I just wanted to give you a big hug. I have sent you some karma.
Good luck for tomorrow and I agree that you shouldn't give up hope or your dreams. You will get there one day, of that I have no doubt.
Best wishes,
SArah
Good luck for tomorrow and I agree that you shouldn't give up hope or your dreams. You will get there one day, of that I have no doubt.
Best wishes,
SArah
Aug 10th 2005 | 3:46 am
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How awful for you. Really hope all goes well tomorrow.
A couple of girls I know at work have had to deal with cancer and chemo recently and they have come through fine, so please try and stay positive - I know it must be easier said than done.
K sent and hugs to you.
A couple of girls I know at work have had to deal with cancer and chemo recently and they have come through fine, so please try and stay positive - I know it must be easier said than done.
K sent and hugs to you.
Aug 10th 2005 | 5:22 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by sophia
hiya babe
Best of luck for tomorrow, hope you get some good news. Remember what I said, and do your research!!!!! Make sure you feel in control of what is happening to you, ask as many questions as you can think of, and if you can't think of any, just feel free to ask me!!
My oncologist said that in all his years of experience the best way to get a good result is to have a positive mental attitude.
Take heart from all us survivors out here, there are plenty of us, this is my second time and I'm only 33, I've chosen to it holistically this time....and remember you can beat this.
Don't forget to email me...and remember if you want my number just ask!
Love, Peace and hugs babe
Sophia xxxxx
Best of luck for tomorrow, hope you get some good news. Remember what I said, and do your research!!!!! Make sure you feel in control of what is happening to you, ask as many questions as you can think of, and if you can't think of any, just feel free to ask me!!
My oncologist said that in all his years of experience the best way to get a good result is to have a positive mental attitude.
Take heart from all us survivors out here, there are plenty of us, this is my second time and I'm only 33, I've chosen to it holistically this time....and remember you can beat this.
Don't forget to email me...and remember if you want my number just ask!
Love, Peace and hugs babe
Sophia xxxxx
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Anne
Aug 10th 2005 | 5:24 am
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Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!! 
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Aug 10th 2005 | 5:26 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
All the best
Anne x
Aug 10th 2005 | 5:29 am
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Very pleased to hear it hasnt spread. Good luck with the treatment and i'm sure youl get heaps of support on here when you feeling down.
Aug 10th 2005 | 5:45 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Lynn xxx
Aug 10th 2005 | 6:26 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
What a lovely, positive attitude
. I'm glad things aren't as bad as you had feared and that you are looking at things with such a positive slant. Your husband and sonmust be so very proud of you. Keep on smiling and hopefully we can all have a big get together when you get to Oz, with plenty of wine 
Tracey
Aug 10th 2005 | 7:55 am
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Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
All the best
B
Aug 10th 2005 | 8:06 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
That's wonderful news that the cancer hasn't spread to any other parts of your body! I just know that you have the strength and courage to get through this difficult time in your life and come out the other side - an even stronger woman than before!
Please keep posting up-dates so we know how you're doing. A big <<<<hug and kiss>>>from canada for you wishing you only the very best during the course of your treatments. We will be thinking of you!
Aug 10th 2005 | 8:15 am
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Michelle
Thoughts with you and your famliy. You sound amazingly strong and I'm sure you'll use that strength to live your dream.
God bless, prayers and karna.
Claire x
Thoughts with you and your famliy. You sound amazingly strong and I'm sure you'll use that strength to live your dream.
God bless, prayers and karna.
Claire x
Aug 10th 2005 | 10:16 am
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I can only reitterate what others have said - glad it hasn't spread.
Very uplifting to read your wonderfully positive attitude- makes me feel a bit ashamed about my complaints and whinges .
Much luck and love
Gillian x
Very uplifting to read your wonderfully positive attitude- makes me feel a bit ashamed about my complaints and whinges .
Much luck and love
Gillian x
Aug 10th 2005 | 10:18 am
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Re: Big (Ladies) Problem
Originally Posted by lelchelle
Hi, thank you for all your replies ,and i think that Karma thingy works,as got the news today at the hospital that the cancer hasn't spread anywhere else!!!
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Even after the consultant explained to me that i need six courses of chemo , a mastectomy , that i will become infertile after the treatment i still left his room with a smile on my face i think i was so relieved that it wasn't anywhere else ,after watching my partners father die of lung cancer last year.
I feel blessed that i already have a six year old son ,so instead of feeling bitter that i cant have any more ,i feel grateful as i know alot of people out there cant have children at all.
A bit annoyed about losing my hair (as a hair quite long,and i,m a teeny weeny bit vain) but will go on shopping spree to find some nice bandannas,and false eye lashes! I will also enjoy my last weekend out at my local with friends ,and have a few drinks!..God i,m going to miss my wine as well
Thanks again everyone...and believe me i,m not brave , i dont feel it , i just have to much left to do......just going to put it on hold for about three years and four months ,see you all in oz!
Michelle xxxxxxxxx
Your posting this morning really put things in perspective, and I have been thinking of you all day - I don't need to tell you that I am so, so pleased to hear the good news!!!
Nicky
