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If you need help with the house, why not have a bbq and invite your friends around to help. I was lucky when I had to sort the house out when I split from my husband, I flew in from another state and had only 5 days to sort it. My friends also brought their friends around and helped me pack the house up and sort it, I sold it shortly after without having to go back. The fun side was I hadn't got a clue where anything was when I unpacked. :D The other good thing was some of the things I couldn't take they were interested in it, so I gave it to them. Since I was also going to a different climate, the charity shops did very well out of my clothes....something that I did regret as when I went back to a similar climate I had to buy another wardrobe, :o oops...

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Good idea, but not sure anyone would want to wash walls and carpets with me :D a couple of years ago I could have put the house straight on the market, but life gets difficult and things get neglected, now I am bringing the sparkle back to myself and my house.

I think that the why is was so hard was about getting things done and making final decision for me. I feel happy I am at last getting things done and as I dont actually know where I am going to live I will need another trip back to finalise things, so the slow pace is okay, I just feel that at last I am on my way and have stopped holding back. I wont be putting house on market til beginning of spring so it will be 6 months or longer before I go, therefore I will keep plodding and just get help with somethings that I do need help with and oganise the rest as I go.

I will remember about the clothes though :D

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Hold on I'm new to this!!! :confused: :p ;) Here let me try, tell me if I did it okay :D

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Oh my God, I am a muppet! I cant work out how to send karma :confused: and I am replying to myself! Can anyone tell me, I'll send you some karma if you do :D

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Press the karma button on the poster you want to give it to you, not on yours, you muppet, :D:D

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A few muppets have learned something important today, I'll bet :cool:

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Did I do it correctly? :confused: I dont seem too good at this :rolleyes:

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Have more faith in yourself, :p you did it correctly. :D

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:D :D :D

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You bet - it was blank!!! :rolleyes:

Never mind - it's the thought that counts... :p :)

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Course it was!! Karma is always blank until you have 100 posts under your belt.