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Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 12:24 pm

What would you do????
 
OK, This evening, about 10 mins ago, I had a rather tall man, knocked at my door, and scruffily dressed. It is getting dark here in Houston, and I dont know this man, my dogs are barking, I have tinted windows, so I can peek at him through the study window, without him seeing me, and I dont know who the hell he is, or why the f//k someone is knocking at my door at this time of night. I tell my boys, dont answer the door. Anyway, he leaves, and then proceeds to go to my neighbours homes. My first point is, why the hell would someone be knocking at my door at a time when I may be having dinner with my family, and why the f//k is he knocking at my door when it is getting dark, and also we have a f//kin great sign at the entrance of our neighbourhood, that clearly say NO F///kin solicitors. How dare these people come to my home, and upset me specially when my hubs is away...

Sorry rant over, but this really pisses me off and scares me

PD

Have switched the burglar alarm on, and feel better now, oh also had a glass of wine, and talked to my brother, who just happened to call, and he is 7000 miles away, and would be of no use in an emergency, but a friendly voice always helps

Sorry, but I just feel so annoyed that I feel uncomfortable in my own space

Rushman Oct 2nd 2007 12:28 pm

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5379916)
OK, This evening, about 10 mins ago, I had a rather tall man, knock at my door, and scruffily dressed. It is getting dark here in Houston, and I dont know this man, my dogs are barking, I have tinted windows, so I can peek at him through the study window, without him seeing me, and I dont know who the hell he is, or why the f//k someone is knocking at my door at this time of night. I tell my boys, dont answer the door. Anyway, he leaves, and then proceeds to go to my neighbours homes. My first point is, why the hell would someone be knocking at my door at a time when I may be having dinner with my family, and why the f//k is he knocking at my door when it is getting dark, and also we have a f//kin great sign at the entrance of our neighbourhood, that clearly say NO F///kin solicitors. How dare these people come to my home, and upset me specially when my hubs is away...

Sorry rant over, but this really pisses me off and scares me

PD

It was the guy from "Publishers Clearing House" with a cheque for 2 million bucks and you just blew so you could eat your hambuger helper in peace.

penguinsix Oct 2nd 2007 12:29 pm

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Probably a homeless guy asking for money. I've had a few come to my door from time to time back when I lived in the city. One was really stoned and was asking me for money to help her buy some drugs at the pharmacy that the doctor ordered her to take. Didn't fall for that one.

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 12:39 pm

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Originally Posted by Rushman (Post 5379930)
It was the guy from "Publishers Clearing House" with a cheque for 2 million bucks and you just blew so you could eat your hambuger helper in peace.

Oh darn, I blew that one then

As for hamburger helper, that devill creation shall never cross my threshold

Still scared me tho

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 12:47 pm

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Originally Posted by penguinsix (Post 5379933)
Probably a homeless guy asking for money. I've had a few come to my door from time to time back when I lived in the city. One was really stoned and was asking me for money to help her buy some drugs at the pharmacy that the doctor ordered her to take. Didn't fall for that one.

Bloody hell, that guy looked liked he was on a mission, and I live in the burbs, and he would have to have a bit of a trek to get to the nearest Walgreens. Whether he was selling a magazine or whatever, I dont appreciate knocking at my door EVER, specially when it is getting dark
(unless it is my pals ofcourse) :)

Not kidding, really sent the wind up me, a couple of years ago, we had this guy come to our door, saying he was the son of one of my neighours, Dr ....., and that I should give him some money for a trip to the UK, any when I said I would think about it, he took his umbrella and started bashing my front door. I had a house full of British girls, and they all came rushing to my rescue at the front door and scared him off. Anyway, it turned out, he was not the son of my neighbour, and just a chancer.

Hey ho

PD

Thydney Oct 2nd 2007 1:06 pm

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5379966)
Bloody hell, that guy looked liked he was on a mission, and I live in the burbs, and he would have to have a bit of a trek to get to the nearest Walgreens. Whether he was selling a magazine or whatever, I dont appreciate knocking at my door EVER, specially when it is getting dark
(unless it is my pals ofcourse) :)

Not kidding, really sent the wind up me, a couple of years ago, we had this guy come to our door, saying he was the son of one of my neighours, Dr ....., and that I should give him some money for a trip to the UK, any when I said I would think about it, he took his umbrella and started bashing my front door. I had a house full of British girls, and they all came rushing to my rescue at the front door and scared him off. Anyway, it turned out, he was not the son of my neighbour, and just a chancer.

Hey ho

PD

**** me your not married to Pony are you? Talk about paranoid:rolleyes:

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:13 pm

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Pony who, care to elaborate??

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:15 pm

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Originally Posted by Thydney (Post 5379991)
**** me your not married to Pony are you? Talk about paranoid:rolleyes:

You know, I am not f///kin paranoid, just careful and stop being such a s//t, I was genuinely scared, and that was that OK, and no I wouldnt **** you

God, hope your wife/mum/sister/daughter never gets freaked out and asks you for help you, a// hole

Thydney Oct 2nd 2007 1:20 pm

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5379997)
You know, I am not f///kin paranoid, just careful and stop being such a s//t, I was genuinely scared, and that was that OK, and no I wouldnt **** you

God, hope your wife/mum/sister/daughter never gets freaked out and asks you for help you, a// hole

OK what were you scared of a man who knocked at your door for no other reason thats paranoid. You'll be getting tooled up incase some urban types come to your street. Oh and BTW theres should be two// not three in ****ing

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:27 pm

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Originally Posted by Thydney (Post 5380004)
OK what were you scared of a man who knocked at your door for no other reason thats paranoid. You'll be getting tooled up incase some urban types come to your street. Oh and BTW theres should be two// not three in ****ing

There is 3 /// if you say it with passion, and, yes I was scared of a man knocking on my door when it was nearly dark, and I would be scared if I were in the UK or the US, or wherever. So, you obviously feel that every girl should be welcoming of a knock on the door at any time of the day or night by a strange man, well I am not, and no I am not paranoid, just careful
And yes, we do have guns in the home, but only choose to use them on special occasions

Big D Oct 2nd 2007 1:30 pm

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5380013)
There is 3 /// if you say it with passion, and, yes I was scared of a man knocking on my door when it was nearly dark, and I would be scared if I were in the UK or the US, or wherever. So, you obviously feel that every girl should be welcoming of a knock on the door at any time of the day or night by a strange man, well I am not, and no I am not paranoid, just careful
And yes, we do have guns in the home, but only chose to use them on special occasions

Calm down everyone!! I can see how you would be concerned being on your own and all - but is it really that strange for someone to knock at your door? What kind of neighbourhood is it? If you are concerned then ignore it as you have done. Its not unusual to have people knock on your door surely?

scrubbedexpat097 Oct 2nd 2007 1:33 pm

Re: What would you do????
 

Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5380013)
There is 3 /// if you say it with passion, and, yes I was scared of a man knocking on my door when it was nearly dark, and I would be scared if I were in the UK or the US, or wherever. So, you obviously feel that every girl should be welcoming of a knock on the door at any time of the day or night by a strange man, well I am not, and no I am not paranoid, just careful
And yes, we do have guns in the home, but only choose to use them on special occasions

Hope you are feeling better now mate:wub:

I don't blame you for feeling scared either. Can you call your neighbour and see if they know what or who he was looking for?

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:37 pm

Re: What would you do????
 

Originally Posted by Sugarmooma (Post 5380023)
Hope you are feeling better now mate:wub:

I don't blame you for feeling scared either. Can you call your neighbour and see if they know what or who he was looking for?

Ta for that

He eventually left, as I was watching him..

I seriously was going to call our local police

Oh, how I wish I was a ruffy tuffy man ;)

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:42 pm

Re: What would you do????
 

Originally Posted by Big D (Post 5380019)
Calm down everyone!! I can see how you would be concerned being on your own and all - but is it really that strange for someone to knock at your door? What kind of neighbourhood is it? If you are concerned then ignore it as you have done. Its not unusual to have people knock on your door surely?

Big D

Yes actually, it is very unusual for anyone to be knocking on doors here. I live in a very nice, quiet neighbourhood, so when someone came knocking on my door at dusk, then I was of course worried. If my hubs was at home, he would have dealt with it, but as I said he isnt, so I did what I did, ignore it and put the alarm on.

I may be a wimp, but I would have done the same anywhere and not just in Houston

Ps That came across as harsh, and I didnt mean to

penguinsix Oct 2nd 2007 1:51 pm

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Oh, just noticed you were in Texas. Isn't someone knocking on the door at night grounds for a justifiable shooting there? You could probably just shoot first next time. ;)

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 1:55 pm

Re: What would you do????
 

Originally Posted by penguinsix (Post 5380052)
Oh, just noticed you were in Texas. Isn't someone knocking on the door at night grounds for a justifiable shooting there? You could probably just shoot first next time. ;)

Actually, you are right

I could have shot him, but then, I suppose I would have had to clean up the mess;) (cleaners days of in all) just kidding :)

BigDavyG Oct 2nd 2007 2:47 pm

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How much have you had to drink ??
Unless you live in an isolated cottage in the woods what have you got to worry about ??
If you don't want to let them in or talk to them don't open the door :rolleyes:

Ray Oct 2nd 2007 3:25 pm

Re: What would you do????
 
I always answer the door with a "yes can I help you "
But when they look done and see a pistol aimed at their
gonads... their mouth go dry and they seem unable to speak ...

Perfumdiva1 Oct 2nd 2007 11:09 pm

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Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5380174)
I always answer the door with a "yes can I help you "
But when they look done and see a pistol aimed at their
gonads... their mouth go dry and they seem unable to speak ...


:)

another bloody yank Oct 2nd 2007 11:25 pm

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Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5380174)
I always answer the door with a "yes can I help you "
But when they look done and see a pistol aimed at their
gonads... their mouth go dry and they seem unable to speak ...

I bet those Cub Scouts won't be back anytime soon...

Titchski Oct 2nd 2007 11:27 pm

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Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 5381209)
I bet those Cub Scouts won't be back anytime soon...

"Bob a job Week Mist.... ****inghellee'sgorragunleggit" :eek:

franc11s Oct 3rd 2007 2:05 am

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In a land (subdivisions) where "knocking" on doors is rare, home invasion aren't and guns run amok... I too would be scared.. and I'm 6'2", big bloke. Not scared just for me, but for my family. As for this lady, on her own, at dusk, being scared... too f//king right she should be, and it kept her safe.. go girl.

I would just tell the guy to go away, without opening the door and engage alarm.

another bloody yank Oct 3rd 2007 2:27 am

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Where's Jerseygirl? Didn't the same thing happen to her a few weeks ago and it turned out to be an escaped criminal or something?

britvic Oct 3rd 2007 2:37 am

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Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 5382037)
Where's Jerseygirl? Didn't the same thing happen to her a few weeks ago and it turned out to be an escaped criminal or something?

JG's gone to the UK for two week's.

Perfumdiva1 Oct 3rd 2007 2:45 am

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Originally Posted by another bloody yank (Post 5382037)
Where's Jerseygirl? Didn't the same thing happen to her a few weeks ago and it turned out to be an escaped criminal or something?


Oh My God

Hope she didnt answer the door

britvic Oct 3rd 2007 2:47 am

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5382092)
Oh My God

Hope she didnt answer the door

No she didn't and her OH was at home as well.

TruBrit Oct 3rd 2007 2:59 am

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Originally Posted by Perfumdiva1 (Post 5379916)

Sorry, but I just feel so annoyed that I feel uncomfortable in my own space

yes and i would have been scared also :eek:

my OH is away a lot and the only way i stay here on my own is coz our subdivison although not gated has a 24hr guard and cctv everywhere. our pool guy had to climb over the side gate coz i'd forgotten to unlock it last week for him to get in and he was spotted on the monitor and approached by the security guy.

houston is full of down and outs, even more so since katrina.

hope you are feeling better this morning :)

Ray Oct 3rd 2007 3:16 am

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A simple can of pepper spray by the front door has
always been a good idea ..

nethead Oct 3rd 2007 3:17 am

Re: What would you do????
 

Originally Posted by franc11s (Post 5381976)
In a land (subdivisions) where "knocking" on doors is rare, home invasion aren't and guns run amok... I too would be scared.. and I'm 6'2", big bloke. Not scared just for me, but for my family. As for this lady, on her own, at dusk, being scared... too f//king right she should be, and it kept her safe.. go girl.

I would just tell the guy to go away, without opening the door and engage alarm.

But surely they wouldn't have knocked on the door first?

TruBrit Oct 3rd 2007 3:23 am

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Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5382211)
A simple can of pepper spray by the front door has
always been a good idea ..

i have mace everywhere :unsure:

nethead Oct 3rd 2007 3:23 am

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To answer the initial question, yes I would answer the door.

Ray Oct 3rd 2007 3:24 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5382227)
i have mace everywhere :unsure:

Good girl .but replace it every two years .....

TruBrit Oct 3rd 2007 3:26 am

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Originally Posted by Ray (Post 5382237)
Good girl .but replace it every two years .....

i didn't know that. the one in my car has been there for about 3 yrs and infact all the others probably need replacing as well so will add that to my shopping list...tks for that info.

TruBrit Oct 3rd 2007 3:29 am

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Originally Posted by nethead (Post 5382236)
To answer the initial question, yes I would answer the door.

brave lady that's all i can say although you might think twice about opening the door if you lived in houston where the OP lives.

Ray Oct 3rd 2007 3:29 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5382246)
i didn't know that. the one in my car has been there for about 3 yrs and infact all the others probably need replacing as well so will add that to my shopping list...tks for that info.

Like all aerosols they can get hinkey after a few years..
Reliability is what you must have ..

nethead Oct 3rd 2007 3:35 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5382259)
brave lady that's all i can say although you might think twice about opening the door if you lived in houston where the OP lives.

No I'm not brave but I live in a very safe neighbourhood in the suburbs with houses all around and there is always people about. If it was someone knocking at the door after 10pmish I may think twice about answering, I don't know.

britvic Oct 3rd 2007 3:41 am

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Originally Posted by nethead (Post 5382282)
No I'm not brave but I live in a very safe neighbourhood in the suburbs with houses all around and there is always people about. If it was someone knocking at the door after 10pmish I may think twice about answering, I don't know.

After dark which is around 7 o clock here, I surly would think twice about answering the door while on my own.

TruBrit Oct 3rd 2007 3:59 am

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Originally Posted by nethead (Post 5382282)
No I'm not brave but I live in a very safe neighbourhood in the suburbs with houses all around and there is always people about. If it was someone knocking at the door after 10pmish I may think twice about answering, I don't know.

i was meaning you would be brave opening the door given the circumstances the OP was in and given her location.

in the uk we live in a very safe area like you i wouldn't think twice about opening the door until say 10pmish.

nethead Oct 3rd 2007 4:06 am

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Originally Posted by TruBrit (Post 5382376)
i was meaning you would be brave opening the door given the circumstances the OP was in and given her location.

in the uk we live in a very safe area like you i wouldn't think twice about opening the door until say 10pmish.

Yeah well I don't know as I'd open the door where she lives either.

lapin_windstar Oct 3rd 2007 4:42 am

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BE SCARED! FEAR! FEAR! THEY ARE COMING!!!


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