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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Desdemona
(Post 9128143)
The UK is a lovely place, I don't blame you for missing it. The people are lovely, love their happy-go-lucky approach to life. We were there during the 2010 World Cup, so you can imagine the carnival atmosphere in every pub we went to. If there was another country I would choose to live in it would be England. I haven't been to Ireland (just flew over it getting to Heathrow on our Delta flight from from St. Paul's Minneapolis). But I imagine it's no different.
Can't speak much for the rest of the island. Outside of Dublin airport I don't know it too well. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Leslie66
(Post 9128101)
In what context exactly? :confused:
(sits waiting in fear of the inevitable answer but cannot help but to ask) |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Sally Redux
(Post 9128169)
I can't remember exactly how the thread had started out, but it got to the inevitable, "I'm not at all racist, but there are too many darkies in the UK."
I found that quite ironic :) |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 9128073)
They kept slaves, yes... but it was never a right. This is one of the reasons why I suggested that people don't fully understand the meaning of the word.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
(Post 9128155)
Northern Ireland is a law unto itself. Apparently it is the only corner of the UK that hasn't gone to the dogs yet ;)
Can't speak much for the rest of the island. Outside of Dublin airport I don't know it too well. As Sally said though, there are other countries that have a great deal to offer. Certainly the UK would be one of the countries on my top five list where I could live; but Scandanavia and Croatia as well as a few others are very tempting....... Im not slamming the UK here - so please dont take my comments in the wrong context....... |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Sally Redux
(Post 9128169)
I can't remember exactly how the thread had started out, but it got to the inevitable, "I'm not at all racist, but there are too many darkies in the UK."
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by zargof
(Post 9128095)
So, what do you understand as the meaning of rights.
I think part of the problem here, is that people are confusing the terms "legal" and "right". Lots of things are legal and are allowed... or were legal (such as owning slaves) and are no longer allowed. There are very few things which are actual rights and are enumerated as such. Owning a slave, for example, may have been legal but it was never a right - because it was never included or added to the Constitution. Before you answer bear in mind my other post about how the Constitution is great until it becomes inconvienient. Ian |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by SultanOfSwing
(Post 9128173)
Wasn't it that someone who had emigrated made the point that there were too many immigrants in the UK as one of the reasons they wouldn't go back?
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by willmore
(Post 9128188)
I thought they hated the poles?;)
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Sally Redux
(Post 9128197)
Well that's one of the great BE cliches isn't it - like "Life's what you make it" except that doesn't apply to living in the UK, "We're doing it for the kids", "Just **** off if you don't like it" and "Will an NVQ get me into Florida?"
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by airways
(Post 9126897)
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move. Pointing out flaws in either country is not a bad thing, better to be open about them than brush them under the carpet. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Giantaxe
(Post 9128182)
Are you aware that the Supreme Court's Dred Scott decision ruled there was "a substantive constitutional right to own slaves"?
As I have maintained throughout in this thread, rights have always been expanded and enumerated. Ian |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Giantaxe
(Post 9127615)
My right to own slaves has certainly been removed.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Sally Redux
(Post 9128197)
Well that's one of the great BE cliches isn't it - like "Life's what you make it" except that doesn't apply to living in the UK, "We're doing it for the kids", "Just **** off if you don't like it" and "Will an NVQ get me into Florida?"
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Giantaxe
(Post 9126148)
Not really. To reach age 65 and Medicare you have to get through that decade and a half of vulnerability to job and/or health insurance loss just at the time that crap starts to happen way more frequently from a medical point of view. If you're bereft of insurance in your early '50's, the fact that you'll get Medicare at age 65 is kind of moot: your lack of insurance before then often forms a large barrier to their "growing old" in the US, especially when they can get single-payer healthcare in the UK. It's no wonder that so many Brits think of moving back around that age or earlier. I know I wouldn't live here absent good health insurance in that age bracket.
The fact that you can get stuck at anytime in your working life without insurance in the US is the problem which needs correcting. The problems that can cause can be at anytime. To say that growing old in the US is a bigger problem than the UK isn't so because once people reach 65 they are not worse off. I speak as someone who moved to the US at 58 to retire, and has found the cost of health care to be affordable and the treatment I have received when needed far exceeding anything I received in my life in the UK. The US excludes people who don't have medical insurance, the UK includes everyone but doesn't charge enough in tax to pay for the NHS so everyone gets crap service. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by lansbury
(Post 9128350)
But that isn't "growing old". It is still part of your working life.
The fact that you can get stuck at anytime in your working life without insurance in the US is the problem which needs correcting. The problems that can cause can be at anytime. To say that growing old in the US is a bigger problem than the UK isn't so because once people reach 65 they are not worse off. I speak as someone who moved to the US at 58 to retire, and has found the cost of health care to be affordable and the treatment I have received when needed far exceeding anything I received in my life in the UK. The US excludes people who don't have medical insurance, the UK includes everyone but doesn't charge enough in tax to pay for the NHS so everyone gets crap service. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Desdemona
(Post 9127645)
Like I said before, oldies like my Dad and his generation would have a problem with having their "rights" taken away. They own guns, always have and know how to use them responsibly. My hubby on the other hand has always been a city dweller and would probably agree with you. He's never owned a gun and quite frankly the idea of using one on a burgler would scare him half to death :lol:
What is wrong with getting a medical note to say you are of sound mind, not suffering depression and getting a criminal background check to own a weapon? Sure it'll take more than a few days and be a inconvenience, but isn't that a small price? It's not like buying a coffee machine, yet the whole gun debate seems to equate it to the same significance. It is all very amusing...people here would hate the government stance in Austria if they think people are so over baring on this issue, over there, if you fail your driving test 3 times, you've got to take a medical to prove you are of sound mind because they can't believe anyone could possibly not have issues or be stupid to fail that often. I've seen the theory book, it's 3 inches thick :lol: |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by nethead
(Post 9128047)
They do that much more in the Oz forum :p
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by lansbury
(Post 9128350)
But that isn't "growing old". It is still part of your working life.
The fact that you can get stuck at anytime in your working life without insurance in the US is the problem which needs correcting. The problems that can cause can be at anytime. To say that growing old in the US is a bigger problem than the UK isn't so because once people reach 65 they are not worse off. I speak as someone who moved to the US at 58 to retire, and has found the cost of health care to be affordable and the treatment I have received when needed far exceeding anything I received in my life in the UK. The US excludes people who don't have medical insurance, the UK includes everyone but doesn't charge enough in tax to pay for the NHS so everyone gets crap service. Not just health, but even gun laws. Things can be great in one state, but polar opposite next door. It's very hard for there to be a change and equal comparison if someone were at the top end and thinking they might lose out, compared to someone on the other end of the scale who would have most to gain, etc. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 9128195)
That's as fair a question as could be asked. I'm sure many people have their own views on what might be considered a right, but to me a right is an abstract concept that is protected both by law and by members of the armed forces.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 9128338)
Do you know why? The Supreme Court held that they were not protected under the US Constitution. The 14th Amendment to the Constitution fixed that, fortunately.
As I have maintained throughout in this thread, rights have always been expanded and enumerated.
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 9128338)
As I have maintained throughout in this thread, rights have always been expanded and enumerated.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by lansbury
(Post 9128350)
The fact that you can get stuck at anytime in your working life without insurance in the US is the problem which needs correcting. The problems that can cause can be at anytime. To say that growing old in the US is a bigger problem than the UK isn't so because once people reach 65 they are not worse off.
Originally Posted by lansbury
(Post 9128350)
The US excludes people who don't have medical insurance, the UK includes everyone but doesn't charge enough in tax to pay for the NHS so everyone gets crap service.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by airways
(Post 9126897)
This forum is polarized into people who love the USA and this who have not had a good time. Unfortunately the balance of posting is from those who had a bad time winging about it and trying to convince others it's all crap and they should leave or not even bother making the move. A lot depends on your circumstances of moving here and where you move to. If my UK employers hadn't closed the data center I was going to manage 2 weeks before our move, I'm sure my experience would have been different and a lot more positive. As it was, I arrived in the US in January 2002 with my wife, 2 cats, a dog and no job. No big deal I thought. I hadn't interviewed for a position in the UK for over 10 years. Companies came to me, not the other way around. I had a good degree from one of the top universities in the UK. But guess what? I found out that UK work experience doesn't count for squat in the US. That's not whinging, it's a fact. My degree in theoretical physics is useless when looking for IT jobs. They'd rather you had a 30 year old computer science degree. I ended up selling cars for over a year just to get some money in. Then, I did land a nice IT job through contacts I had made there (in my experience, the US is all about networking, especially employment wise). Great I thought. A nice network engineering gig at $35 per hour and medical for the family. My paycheck come up at the end of my second week. It was more than a little light. Upshot was that they decided they couldn't afford the $35 an hour so they were paying me $12 an hour and I could like it or lump it. By the way, they back-tracked on the medical too. My options? Leave or sue. No real employment protection here. Just to rub salt on the wound, I found out they were charging a premium to clients for my services because of my knowledge and experience. Nowadays, I'm running my own consulting business. I don't make great money, but it's comfortable. I live in a geographically beautiful part of the world. As others have said, the US is very, very diverse, even within a state. I live in Oregon. To most people, that will bring up a vision of a tree covered, rainy, liberal bastion in the north west. Not if you cross to east of the Cascade mountains where I live. I have a friend here who moved from rural Louisiana. He says this is the most "redneck" place he has ever lived. It's very right wing and xenophobic, not just to foreigners, but to anyone from outside the area. Pretty ironic considering that tourism is the main industry. Why am I here? My wife moved here to be close to an old friend. They no longer talk. Oh joy! So, in summary, my experience is that if you move here with a good job lined up and to a place you feel you fit in, then it could be a good move. Just be aware that it is a foreign country. Things are done differently and attitudes are very, very different. It's a culture shock, no matter how much American TV, films or other culture you drink down. As I said, it's not a case of whinging, it's making people who haven't made the move aware of some of the pitfalls. Would I still move? Yes I would, but only with a decent job and to one of the more cosmopolitan areas. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Giantaxe
(Post 9128506)
You're being obtuse. The court found that there was "a substantive constitutional right to own slaves". How much clearer a right - in US terms - is there?
At any rate, I stand by my assertion... you're welcome to disagree! Ian |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by ian-mstm
(Post 9128824)
"Substantive" ranks right up there with "virtually". You get virtually spotless dishes with Wow Detergent! People see "virtually spotless" and think "spotless"... but they don't mean the same thing. People see "substantive constitutional right" and they think "constitutional right"... but they don't mean the same thing!
At any rate, I stand by my assertion... you're welcome to disagree! Ian |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by zargof
(Post 9127996)
There is no clique (it's be renamed the community).
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by cluedweasel
(Post 9128531)
I live in Oregon. To most people, that will bring up a vision of a tree covered, rainy, liberal bastion in the north west. Not if you cross to east of the Cascade mountains where I live. I have a friend here who moved from rural Louisiana. He says this is the most "redneck" place he has ever lived. It's very right wing and xenophobic, not just to foreigners, but to anyone from outside the area.
http://forum.skyscraperpage.com/showthread.php?t=179479 |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by HumphreyC
(Post 9130059)
Wow. If someone from rural Louisiana says that your neighbourhood is the most redneck place he has ever been - it must be pretty darn redneck. Can't be worse than Arkansas though (if this thread is anything to go by). Check out the weird Confederate shrine in the photo at the bottom of the page.
http://forum.skyscraperpage.com/showthread.php?t=179479 |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by nethead
(Post 9130085)
Seriously, maybe apart from the confederate flags, you could take photos like that in any part of the US I've visited.
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4031/...a653c996_o.jpg Most redneck place I've seen so far was in Vermont of all places - I think it was called Searsburg. It was all the more surprising as it comes at you out of the blue after a couple of pristine villages then all of a sudden it's like you have been transplanted to the Ozarks. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
I think the post 17 on that thread summed it up for me....at least on the states I've been to.
Quote You can find similar trashy scenes in many, if not most, states in the country (including California and Sarah Palin's Alaska). I've seen areas of Hawaii that would totally shock most people. The extent of it varies from state to state, though. From my travels, it's most noticeable in the south, and I don't think that should be a surprise considering the amount of poverty. There are probably people all over the world who would never guess we have such poverty in this country (including cultural poverty). Unquote |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
(Post 9127890)
You could try be a little more understanding and calm down a wee bit. Some aren't in the US by choice...they are trapped. Some find themselves having to choose between their marriage/children or the UK. Many of our members have fallen in love with an American or have moved because of their spouse's job and cannot just upsticks and return. Some are really struggling financially to keep their heads above water.
I recommend you read some of the heartbreaking posts in the MBTTUK forum. People who have been so unhappy in their adopted country that they have returned to the UK leaving their spouses and sometimes their children/grandchildren behind. We moved here because of my husband's job. We had a good life in the UK and we moved to a good life in the US...but that didn't prevent homesickness. The only thing that kept me here was by husband's attitude...he said I only had to say the word and we would be on the next flight back to the UK. Knowing that I had that option gave me something to cling onto...many do not have that option. We have homes in the UK/US/Canada...I am lucky I can come and go as I please...many cannot. What is the saying..."walk a mile in a man's shoes before you judge them". Edit: Please remember that there are hundreds of thousands of Brits who move to other countries and love their new life. Most of them are out enjoying themselves and are not posting on internet forums. Most of our membership are people who don't fit into that category. We come on here so we can have a good moan and share a laugh with fellow Brits...we have long before you joined and will continue to do so long after you have left. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
There are 11 States I have not been to; predominantly up in NE, Idaho and WY.
The most poverty stricken of all that I've seen is MS, I was stunned. I stayed in Greenville, MS and traveled the levee roads down to Vicksburg. Met folk who observe MLK Day and those who call that day, Robert E. Lee's Birthday. But as touched on previously, it's a Southern (Confederate) State... so no surprise! The poverty in places here far exceeds that in the UK and I would include Hawai'i in that too... for those of you that have been to Moloka'i, you'll understand what I mean! Hence many native Hawai'ians want back under the Union Flag (UK). |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by HumphreyC
(Post 9130153)
What? - Even this
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4031/...a653c996_o.jpg Most redneck place I've seen so far was in Vermont of all places - I think it was called Searsburg. It was all the more surprising as it comes at you out of the blue after a couple of pristine villages then all of a sudden it's like you have been transplanted to the Ozarks. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by Bob
(Post 9128357)
I'm of the opinion that there's nothing wrong with guns. I just think that with ownership comes great responsibility and I don't see why people kick up a fuss about need some stricter controls in small arms ownership.
What is wrong with getting a medical note to say you are of sound mind, not suffering depression and getting a criminal background check to own a weapon? Sure it'll take more than a few days and be a inconvenience, but isn't that a small price? It's not like buying a coffee machine, yet the whole gun debate seems to equate it to the same significance. It is all very amusing...people here would hate the government stance in Austria if they think people are so over baring on this issue, over there, if you fail your driving test 3 times, you've got to take a medical to prove you are of sound mind because they can't believe anyone could possibly not have issues or be stupid to fail that often. I've seen the theory book, it's 3 inches thick :lol: |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by AmerLisa
(Post 9129138)
I'd heard it was renamed as well....:D
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by HumphreyC
(Post 9130153)
What? - Even this
http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4031/...a653c996_o.jpg Most redneck place I've seen so far was in Vermont of all places - I think it was called Searsburg. It was all the more surprising as it comes at you out of the blue after a couple of pristine villages then all of a sudden it's like you have been transplanted to the Ozarks. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by airways
I also don't appreciate having segments of my posts highlighted and taken out of context to make a point or an argument. When I write something I expect the whole post to be taking in context.
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Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by airways
(Post 9127965)
I also don't appreciate having segments of my posts highlighted and taken out of context to make a point or an argument. When I write something I expect the whole post to be taking in context.
Ian |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by airways
(Post 9127965)
I also don't appreciate having segments of my posts highlighted and taken out of context to make a point or an argument. When I write something I expect the whole post to be taking in context. |
Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
Originally Posted by HumphreyC
(Post 9130059)
Wow. If someone from rural Louisiana says that your neighbourhood is the most redneck place he has ever been - it must be pretty darn redneck. Can't be worse than Arkansas though (if this thread is anything to go by). Check out the weird Confederate shrine in the photo at the bottom of the page.
http://forum.skyscraperpage.com/showthread.php?t=179479 |
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