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Old Feb 4th 2011 | 3:33 am
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Originally Posted by Sally Redux
Were you standing in a checkout job at 9 months pregnant though?
No...were you?
 
Old Feb 4th 2011 | 3:37 am
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Seriously people? Are we really arguing about whether a pregnant woman should be allowed have a chair at work? Seriously? Have any of you ever even seen a pregnant woman?

I worked with one woman through her pregnancy who did have a chair and she was still miserable. She kept bringing more and more pillows for her chair until the chair couldn't hold any more pillows. They were falling all over the floor and causing a hazard. We finally duct-taped like six pillows to this puny little office chair. It was hilarious. We took pictures.

Poor thing.
 
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Originally Posted by Leslie66
Yeah, my bank's chairs are way swanky.

Not the $99 crapola from Home Depot that I have to use.
Quit braggin - I've got a $29 IKEA jobbie
 
Old Feb 4th 2011 | 3:39 am
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Originally Posted by Jerseygirl
No...were you?
No, but that's what we're talking about

I also had no problems, but I felt big and uncomfortable and my feet swelled up, luckily I was able to go on maternity leave from teaching 6 weeks before the birth. That's why I'm empathising with women who have to carry on without being able to sit down.
 
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Originally Posted by Leslie66
Seriously people? Are we really arguing about whether a pregnant woman should be allowed have a chair at work? Seriously? Have any of you ever even seen a pregnant woman?
Yeah, I think there was one on the cover of Vanity Fair once, wasn't there....?

Each time my wife got pregnant (3 times!) I sent her to live with an aunt in the country. She was only allowed back when the kids were potty trained, she'd regained her pre-pregnancy fitness, and was able to reclain her (standing) position behind the checkout at Walmart without fainting every 5 minutes...
 
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Yeah, I think there was one on the cover of Vanity Fair once, wasn't there....?

Each time my wife got pregnant (3 times!) I sent her to live with an aunt in the country. She was only allowed back when the kids were potty trained, she'd regained her pre-pregnancy fitness, and was able to reclain her (standing) position behind the checkout at Walmart without fainting every 5 minutes...
I think women should be allowed to sleep throughout their entire pregnancies. As a matter of fact, there are many difficult experiences in life that can be slept though. More than you might think.

If people were bears I might have had some children.
 
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Originally Posted by Leslie66
Seriously people? Are we really arguing about whether a pregnant woman should be allowed have a chair at work? Seriously? Have any of you ever even seen a pregnant woman?

I worked with one woman through her pregnancy who did have a chair and she was still miserable. She kept bringing more and more pillows for her chair until the chair couldn't hold any more pillows. They were falling all over the floor and causing a hazard. We finally duct-taped like six pillows to this puny little office chair. It was hilarious. We took pictures.

Poor thing.
Yes ,poor thing ...pregnancy does make some women uncomfortable .

Some days sitting will be better ,some days not .

Unless you gave that lady a 'magic' chair it won't have done *that* much ,other than relieve her on that day of her (perhaps) squashed bladder and agonizing spine pain !!!!!

Pregnancy symtoms are not a a "done deal " they change constantly ...employers need to be flexible ...sorry, it will always be that way .
 
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Originally Posted by AmerLisa
One of the first jobs I had in the UK was working at Morrison's as a checkout person. We had to sit in a cubicle (this was the only job we were hired to do) and scan groceries. The cubicle was so small that you could not stand (with the chair in the cubicle as well) to do the scanning. While no one told us we had to sit down, there was little option. Besides the problem of being cooped up in a cubicle and sitting (this was even worse when it was slow, then you had to listen to the incessant loop of music and read the ads on the wall for excitement....) there was nothing else to do. I didn't see very many happy checkout people around me. I managed to find an administrative assistant job after 4 months, so I wasn't there too long.

However, after I had my daughter, I didn't want to put her into childcare, so I went to work at Sainsburys in the evenings. I can say they had better options for their checkout people. You could either stand or sit ( I stood most times because sitting and scanning actually hurts) and they wanted you to interact with the customers. If it was slow they would have you go and help stock groceries. It wasn't fantastic work, but keeping busy always helps to pass the time.
Thank you for explaining ...that sounds tough .
 
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Originally Posted by Leslie66
I think women should be allowed to sleep throughout their entire pregnancies. As a matter of fact, there are many difficult experiences in life that can be slept though. More than you might think.

If people were bears I might have had some children.
My wife slept thru her deliveries - does that count? Her routine was epidural on arrival (after midnight each time!), she zonked out, I paced for the required number of hours, she woke up to push, and rip my hand to shreds, 3 grunts later out pops sprog, she goes back to sleep and I go to ER to get my lacerations tended....
 
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Originally Posted by Gabgoeshome
Yes ,poor thing ...pregnancy does make some women uncomfortable .

Some days sitting will be better ,some days not .

Unless you gave that lady a 'magic' chair it won't have done *that* much ,other than relieve her on that day of her (perhaps) squashed bladder and agonizing spine pain !!!!!

Pregnancy symtoms are not a a "done deal " they change constantly ...employers need to be flexible ...sorry, it will always be that way .
Those pillows were like crack to her. They seemed to help quite a bit though, she said she was carrying this pregnancy in her back. I have no idea what that means.
 
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Originally Posted by Desdemona
...I'm amazed at how you lot nitpick about every little thing in your host country even about if checkout clerks should do their jobs standing or seated Mind boggling
I don't really care if they want to stand or not, nor how it reflects the quality of their work.

I just think it very weird that such a mundane job that isn't hindered by being seated would have people so vehemently against the comfort.
 
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I just think it very weird that such a mundane job that isn't hindered by being seated would have people so vehemently against the comfort.[/QUOTE]

An excellent point .

Strange that some people need to have that extra level of 'service' .

Sometimes I think those that are against it, are also the type of personality that would talk down to workers in ANY type of service position ???

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Originally Posted by Yorkieabroad
Each time my wife got pregnant (3 times!) I sent her to live with an aunt in the country. She was only allowed back when the kids were potty trained, she'd regained her pre-pregnancy fitness, and was able to reclain her (standing) position behind the checkout at Walmart without fainting every 5 minutes...
I think that was uncommonly decent of you! Kudos.

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I think that was uncommonly decent of you! Kudos.

Ian
Thank You. I thought so, too. Would have been so cruel of me to make her give up her career....
 


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