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ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 8:52 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123373)
I asked DH the other day (mostly after reading posts on here) what we would do when we were old. He seemed bemused as to why it would be an issue, I explained things I read etc, still unfazed, he simply didn't get my question, maybe its down to planning, saving, medical schemes, who knows (not my forte to read or understand, I see that as his job!)

But, if its so bad, like you say, theres an awful lot of oldies here!

Everyone makes their own choices, but based on my experience..I am going back to the UK. I thought I had it all figured out too, boy was I wrong...good luck ..;)

Desdemona Jan 23rd 2011 9:03 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123373)
I asked DH the other day (mostly after reading posts on here) what we would do when we were old. He seemed bemused as to why it would be an issue, I explained things I read etc, still unfazed, he simply didn't get my question, maybe its down to planning, saving, medical schemes, who knows (not my forte to read or understand, I see that as his job!)

But, if its so bad, like you say, theres an awful lot of oldies here!

Sure there are! They plan ahead, buy gap insurance (albeit at a high price) in addition to medicare which covers all eventualities 100%; they save and make wise invesments. My grandma lived off what grandad had put aside, for years after he died! In the end, my dad had to sell some of her stocks and shares to cover expensive care for her when she developed dementia. We could have put her in some cheapie place but we didn't. I think most people think of their old age and plan ahead. That's what gets them by.

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 9:18 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Desdemona (Post 9123396)
Sure there are! They plan ahead, buy gap insurance (albeit at a high price) in addition to medicare which covers all eventualities 100%; they save and make wise invesments. My grandma lived off what grandad had put aside, for years after he died! In the end, my dad had to sell some of her stocks and shares to cover expensive care for her when she developed dementia. We could have put her in some cheapie place but we didn't. I think most people think of their old age and plan ahead. That's what gets them by.

Quite understand, thats why I asked!

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 9:25 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Desdemona (Post 9123396)
Sure there are! They plan ahead, buy gap insurance (albeit at a high price) in addition to medicare which covers all eventualities 100%; they save and make wise invesments. My grandma lived off what grandad had put aside, for years after he died! In the end, my dad had to sell some of her stocks and shares to cover expensive care for her when she developed dementia. We could have put her in some cheapie place but we didn't. I think most people think of their old age and plan ahead. That's what gets them by.

Assuming everyone has the funds to make "wise investments " and save....I think its arrogant to think everyone can do that.

dunroving Jan 23rd 2011 9:27 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123457)
Assuming everyone has the funds to make "wise investments " and save....I think its arrogant to think everyone can do that.

That's the scariest part of investing in pensions in the US - you have to decide where to invest it, and even the experts haven't a clue (supposedly).

Desdemona Jan 23rd 2011 9:30 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123457)
Assuming everyone has the funds to make "wise investments " and save....I think its arrogant to think everyone can do that.


It may appear that way to you. But it's the American way! Just trying to explain how old people in this country get by :) I'm sure they do in Britain as well ....

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 9:31 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Desdemona (Post 9123477)
It may appear that way to you. But it's the American way! Just trying to explain how old people in this country get by :) I'm sure they do in Britain as well ....

Understood..:)

Mummy in the foothills Jan 23rd 2011 9:32 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 
Savings and investments are great, but doesn't anyone remember what just happened to all those investments not too long ago? Many close to retire or already retired lost most if not all.
I know just about all our friends found those retirement savings and investments they had are now worth not much more than the cash they had started with, (we actually ended up with less) Theres no way to save enough unless you are earning way over the 6 figure mark and living like you don't. Even then it can be tough.
I have been to the homes of some of those who saved and did it all right and now in retirement are totally screwed.
I really do hope for the best, but Dh and I are now planning for the worst and keeping our fingers crossed. We are following our kids back to UK probably in 2012 (so long as the house sells, that the only thing that isn't worth less than when we bought)

Michael Jan 23rd 2011 9:32 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123373)
I asked DH the other day (mostly after reading posts on here) what we would do when we were old. He seemed bemused as to why it would be an issue, I explained things I read etc, still unfazed, he simply didn't get my question, maybe its down to planning, saving, medical schemes, who knows (not my forte to read or understand, I see that as his job!)

But, if its so bad, like you say, theres an awful lot of oldies here!

Normally once your over 65, medical is not a big issue for most people. Medicare covers 100% of your hospital stay after $1,000 deductable and 80% of your outpatient service for $96 per month. Medicare Part D (for about $30 per month) will pick up most of the cost of drugs.

If you want 100% coverage, you can normally get private supplemental or Advantage coverage for about another $100-$200 per month.

Now of course if someone never saved any money and/or worked under the table and paid little into social security and therefore get a small amount of social security benefits at retirement, even those costs can be overwhelming. However people that fall into this category are probably eligible for other government benefits (medicaid, food stamps, heating subsidies, section 8 housing, etc.) but people usually have to jump through hoops to get those benefits in the US.

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 9:36 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9123483)
Savings and investments are great, but doesn't anyone remember what just happened to all those investments not too long ago? Many close to retire or already retired lost most if not all.
I know just about all our friends found those retirement savings and investments they had are now worth not much more than the cash they had started with, (we actually ended up with less) Theres no way to save enough unless you are earning way over the 6 figure mark and living like you don't. Even then it can be tough.
I have been to the homes of some of those who saved and did it all right and now in retirement are totally screwed.
I really do hope for the best, but Dh and I are now planning for the worst and keeping our fingers crossed. We are following our kids back to UK probably in 2012 (so long as the house sells, that the only thing that isn't worth less than when we bought)

:thumbsup:

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 9:42 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Michael (Post 9123484)
Normally once your over 65, medical is not a big issue for most people. Medicare covers 100% of your hospital stay after $1,000 deductable and 80% of your outpatient service for $96 per month. Medicare Part D (for about $30 per month) will pick up most of the cost of drugs.

If you want 100% coverage, you can normally get private supplemental or Advantage coverage for about another $100-$200 per month.

Now of course if someone never saved any money and/or worked under the table and paid little into social security and therefore get a small amount of social security benefits at retirement, even those costs can be overwhelming. However people that fall into this category are probably eligible for other government benefits (medicaid, food stamps, heating subsidies, section 8 housing, etc.) but people usually have to jump through hoops to get those benefits in the US.

Thank you, nice to read it in a language I understand. Just so much doom and gloom one has to wonder how it works, again thanks.

ian-mstm Jan 23rd 2011 9:53 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Derrygal (Post 9123024)
It's a well known fact that owning a gun does not make you any safer.

No, it's not. It just depends on whose hype you happen to believe.

Ian

Desdemona Jan 23rd 2011 9:53 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by dunroving (Post 9123467)
That's the scariest part of investing in pensions in the US - you have to decide where to invest it, and even the experts haven't a clue (supposedly).

This is true! My 68 year old Dad on the other hand lost value on his IRA in the 2000 stock market crash. Today he is not as well off as he originally thought he would be but he's tough old bird. He does quite well on his social security. He is desciplined like his Dad, has worked hard all his life and nothing fazes him. He is optimistic that the present economic climate is only a temporary phase. Historically the US has always survived and overcome and he has faith in the system.
This is something that no one but an American can understand. The resilience of this nation ....

ian-mstm Jan 23rd 2011 9:55 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Bradford Lass (Post 9123073)
People are obsessed with their rghts

As well they should be. Once you allow your rights to be usurped, it's the end of civilization as we know it.

Ian

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:06 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Desdemona (Post 9123530)
This is true! My 68 year old Dad on the other hand lost value on his IRA in the 2000 stock market crash. Today he is not as well off as he originally thought he would be but he's tough old bird. He does quite well on his social security. He is desciplined like his Dad, has worked hard all his life and nothing fazes him. He is optimistic that the present economic climate is only a temporary phase. Historically the US has always survived and overcome and he has faith in the system.
This is something that no one but an American can understand. The resilience of this nation ....

I have been here 34 years and I am an American citizen. I have seen many things come and go here, I love this country, but I have many friends who cant afford health insurance, so they neglect their health....I think its a sad situation for the richest country in the world..its time for things to change here. Americans are resilient, but alot of them die to soon because they cant afford healthcare. Just my opinion.

Bob Jan 23rd 2011 10:12 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 
It is what it is.

Some good, some not so good, some crap.

Some of the country is great, some not so, some crap.

Cost of living...well you guessed it, the same theme running.

It's pretty much like that for any country though, so how great it is or isn't all depends on the whole package, what you want out of it, where you end up, how much cash you get to spend and what you do for a living.

It's certainly generally not as good being poor here though, that's pretty much one constant.

Bob Jan 23rd 2011 10:15 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ian-mstm (Post 9122967)
If that someone was an intruder in my home, I wouldn't think twice about it. The gun is in a drawer behind my pillow, clip attached, one in the chamber, and safety on!

Ian

Hope you've got a solid home and don't shoot some kid across the street in a moment of panic.

Time better spent getting out the window...

Guns are pretty cool though, and you are allowed them, so why not own one...but personal protection reason is the lamest one to have.

But that's another topic...

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:18 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123552)
I think its a sad situation for the richest country in the world..its time for things to change here. Americans are resilient, but alot of them die to soon because they cant afford healthcare. Just my opinion.

You think think after so many years away from the UK the NHS is better? They die to soon because they can't afford the healthcare or because they didn't plan for it?

I sound aggressive, truly I'm not being, I am just very interested in why people think the UK is better?

Desdemona Jan 23rd 2011 10:20 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123552)
I have been here 34 years and I am an American citizen. I have seen many things come and go here, I love this country, but I have many friends who cant afford health insurance, so they neglect their health....I think its a sad situation for the richest country in the world..its time for things to change here. Americans are resilient, but alot of them die to soon because they cant afford healthcare. Just my opinion.


This is a whole separate issue :) We are all for healthcare reform! I was watching "Meet the Press" (or was it the Chris Matthews Show) this morning. The statistics mentioned for those without healthcare was staggering. That's a crying shame.
Sorry to hear about your misfortunes after living and working in the US for 34 years :( There's nothing like losing your money at this stage of the game to put you off -- I truly am sorry!!

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:20 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123568)
You think think after so many years away from the UK the NHS is better? They die to soon because they can't afford the healthcare or because they didn't plan for it?

I sound aggressive, truly I'm not being, I am just very interested in why people think the UK is better?

I have no illusions about the NHS, I just know I wont go bankrupt should I need it.

Bob Jan 23rd 2011 10:22 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by uknobby (Post 9122460)
....As for healthcare yes it costs you here but at least you get seen too now the UK do you really want to spend 5 years on a waiting list for a serious operation hmmm lemme see I dont think so...

More likely to just get your policy cancelled on you if you're to pricey, plus you become beholden to the job. Serious illness, don't think the waiting in the UK in real terms is all that bad, can be for the not so serious, but then the US isn't that different in that regards.

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:26 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123574)
I have no illusions about the NHS, I just know I wont go bankrupt should I need it.

Ace and when did you last pay National Insurance?

Mummy in the foothills Jan 23rd 2011 10:28 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123568)
You think think after so many years away from the UK the NHS is better? They die to soon because they can't afford the healthcare or because they didn't plan for it?

I sound aggressive, truly I'm not being, I am just very interested in why people think the UK is better?

Well at least they don't cancel your insurance before you are even finished getting your final cancer scan. So if the all clear wasn't forthcoming you'd be up sh1t creek without a paddle.
How do you plan for it? We buy medical insurance or work in a job that provides it. What else is there too do. Oh yeah we have 6 months of living expenses saved. not much else people can do.
We are/were a family of 5 earning $48,000 a year, quite normal and average income even for around here.

Mummy in the foothills Jan 23rd 2011 10:29 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123584)
Ace and when did you last pay National Insurance?

She'll be heading back to work from what she's said in other conversations. So I guess she'll be paying like anyone else.

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:31 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9123593)
She'll be heading back to work from what she's said in other conversations. So I guess she'll be paying like anyone else.

With a how many year gap? Thats my gripe, the NHS is so not what so many people remember!

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:31 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123584)
Ace and when did you last pay National Insurance?

I paid into it before I left, and plan on doing so again when I get home. I am not now, and never have been a freeloader if that is what you are suggesting. I plan on working and doing my part when I get back, and god willing I wont need to use the NHS for anything serious. I will take my pension when the time comes from the US social security insurance, that I am paid up in full. I am a British citizen and an American citizen, and have never expected anything for free. I just wish it was more affordable for Americans.

Bob Jan 23rd 2011 10:32 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123568)

I sound aggressive, truly I'm not being, I am just very interested in why people think the UK is better?

Not necessarily better, but you can get BUPA for £30 a month if you really want to top up your healthcare and you aren't going to have to worry about taking this pill this week or whether to pay for heating/groceries etc.

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:32 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9123588)
Well at least they don't cancel your insurance before you are even finished getting your final cancer scan. So if the all clear wasn't forthcoming you'd be up sh1t creek without a paddle.
How do you plan for it? We buy medical insurance or work in a job that provides it. What else is there too do. Oh yeah we have 6 months of living expenses saved. not much else people can do.
We are/were a family of 5 earning $48,000 a year, quite normal and average income even for around here.

Thanks MUmmy..;)

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:33 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Mummy in the foothills (Post 9123588)
Well at least they don't cancel your insurance before you are even finished getting your final cancer scan. So if the all clear wasn't forthcoming you'd be up sh1t creek without a paddle.
How do you plan for it? We buy medical insurance or work in a job that provides it. What else is there too do. Oh yeah we have 6 months of living expenses saved. not much else people can do.
We are/were a family of 5 earning $48,000 a year, quite normal and average income even for around here.

Disgusting I agree, is the UK any better, mmmmmmmmm?

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:33 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by Bob (Post 9123597)
Not necessarily better, but you can get BUPA for £30 a month if you really want to top up your healthcare and you aren't going to have to worry about taking this pill this week or whether to pay for heating/groceries etc.

Bugger off 30 quid of Bupa might get you a plaster for your cut!

nethead Jan 23rd 2011 10:43 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123600)
Bugger off 30 quid of Bupa might get you a plaster for your cut!

As a family of 5 (then) just over 5 years ago, we paid 19 GBP a month for BUPA coverage through my husbands work.

nethead Jan 23rd 2011 10:45 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 
I'm with the, it's ok living here, we're getting on with it, some things are better, some are worse, some are about the same. But I wish we hadn't bothered moving here in the first place.

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:46 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by nethead (Post 9123609)
As a family of 5 (then) just over 5 years ago, we paid 19 GBP a month for BUPA coverage through my husbands work.

Wow as a family of 3 we paid about 350 a month, but we did get free newspapers and meals for visiting guests :rofl:

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:47 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123599)
Disgusting I agree, is the UK any better, mmmmmmmmm?

How long have you been in the US??

traceym Jan 23rd 2011 10:48 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by ldyinlv (Post 9123620)
How long have you been in the US??

A lot less than you which is why I feel able to comment!

Oh and I still pay my NHS contributions because never say never!

nethead Jan 23rd 2011 10:49 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123617)
Wow as a family of 3 we paid about 350 a month, but we did get free newspapers and meals for visiting guests :rofl:

I think maybe it was also a benefit from the company so we weren't paying the total amount.

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:49 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123622)
A lot less than you which is why I feel able to comment!

Oh and I still pay my NHS contributions because never say never!

Well, I hope you are very happy here, I was for many years...

Michael Jan 23rd 2011 10:52 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 
I consider myself fairly liberal and support universal health care but I wouldn't want to see the US go the extremes of much of Europe.

In order to give out more benefits, tax rates would need to rise. Currently the US taxes at about 28% of gdp (federal, state, and local income taxes, FICA taxes, sales tax, corporate tax, gas tax, excise tax, import duty, property tax, and all other taxes) where as the UK taxes at 39%, France at 46%, and Denmark at 50%.

If the US was taxed at the same rate as the UK, that would mean that all those taxes would need to be increased by 40%. Naturally all taxes can't be increased by that amount so Europe tends to disportionately increase VAT and gas taxes.

Instead I would prefer having the US reduce it military budget to the same percentage of gdp as the UK or France. This reduction would save about $300-$400 billion per year that could be used for benefits.

ldyinlv Jan 23rd 2011 10:59 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 

Originally Posted by traceym (Post 9123622)
A lot less than you which is why I feel able to comment!

Oh and I still pay my NHS contributions because never say never!

Good for you, I was 18 when I came here in 1976..head in the clouds..married soon after to an American...If I had known then what I know now ,maybe I to would have made payments...but we dont always know what the future will bring.

chris955 Jan 23rd 2011 11:03 am

Re: Is this really, that terrible compared to UK?
 
I think it's the same when a small number of people say things like 'The UK is going down the pan' or 'The UK is finished', both things I have read elsewhere. I don't see any evidence of the US going to rack and ruin, obviously the gun crime situation puts some off with good reason but that tends to be restricted to larger cities generally. We went to America in the 90's and loved it but I wouldn't consider living there for various reasons, that doesn't make it a terrible country to live in it just wasn't for us.


Originally Posted by ShawHawk (Post 9122336)
Allot of media and people tell you, America is a beautiful country.

Only it is better suited, for a holiday, and terrible to live.

Is this true? Is it really a country going to ruins, and has a long road ahead of it self, to rebuild it`s previous pride.

The American people, are so diverse and in general awesome, but the country, gun laws/health care look very bad.


I`d like to read some experiences, of living in the UK versus America, from some members of the board here :)



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