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Old Dec 28th 2013, 8:41 pm
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
Nope. Online dating recognises no frontiers. ..... It worked for me!
Would you mind telling me the sequence then? Eg you found someone, went on a few holidays then got a visa (before being married?)…..
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Originally Posted by Pulaski
As a single person you have a option.
Is it maybe optimistic to think that there is always an American willing to marry a single British bloke?
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Nope. Online dating recognises no frontiers. ..... It worked for me!
And me!
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Is it maybe optimistic to think that there is always an American willing to marry a single British bloke?
Well there is wotshername from the other thread...
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Is it maybe optimistic to think that there is always an American willing to marry a single British bloke?
150m American women, 30m British Men. You do the math Doctor.
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Usual warning about checking whether the 'dream' is really what you want before landing yourself with a wife as well.
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Is it maybe optimistic to think that there is always an American willing to marry a single British bloke?
I can recommend a rather dodgy bar in Singapore with tons of them..that's where I met mine.....you've just got to be swift on your toes to turn it from her seeking a UK passport to you becoming a GC holder.....a few weeks in the UK (about 15 miles from Middlesbrough!) in late November worked magically for me
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Originally Posted by davids9317
Would you mind telling me the sequence then? Eg you found someone, went on a few holidays then got a visa (before being married?)…..
That's it, more or less, 'cept I didn't have (need) a visa because Mrs P came to live in the UK for a couple of years before we moved to the US.
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Nope. Online dating recognises no frontiers. ..... It worked for me!
And me!
And several other regulars here, I believe.
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Usual warning about checking whether the 'dream' is really what you want before landing yourself with a wife as well.
Bah humbug! You only live once, shoot for your dreams, or risk spending the rest of your life wondering what might have been.

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And me!
And me too, sort off.
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Saw a clip on some docu. few months that showed someone entering the US to meet someone they had only met online! She had no money, was unemployed in her own country but the story was true and they let her in!

Agree on the 5:1 ratio Mr Servant but I not sure a UK accent plus red passport is that much of a winner state side.
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Saw a clip on some docu. few months that showed someone entering the US to meet someone they had only met online! She had no money, was unemployed in her own country but the story was true and they let her in!

Agree on the 5:1 ratio Mr Servant but I not sure a UK accent plus red passport is that much of a winner state side.
A UK accent can get your foot in the door but it can't perform miracles.
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Saw a clip on some docu. few months that showed someone entering the US to meet someone they had only met online! She had no money, was unemployed in her own country but the story was true and they let her in!

Agree on the 5:1 ratio Mr Servant but I not sure a UK accent plus red passport is that much of a winner state side.
http://britishexpats.com/forum/showthread.php?t=818848

She's not the first to post on here and I'm sure she won't be the last...
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Originally Posted by notshipman
.... but I not sure a UK accent plus red passport is that much of a winner state side.
Averages don't mean much to individual experiences, but annecdotally my experience, and that of several others here, is that you're wrong. ... Of course having a good grasp of English grammar also helps tip the balance.
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A UK accent can get your foot in the door but it can't perform miracles.
Agreed, but if you're smart, educated, with a degree and/or career, a foot in the door is more than half the battle. Everyone needs an ice-breaker angle to strike up a first conversation, and IME having an English accent is as good an icebreaker as any in the US. .... twelve years in the US and it still gets me a conversation I'd estimate once every three weeks on average, but as often as 2-3 times a week even now. Also having a British accent seems to confer an appearance of sophistication and education that may be unwarranted.

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The grass is pretty green over here, but a lot of it is artificial turf or spray paint.

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You've clearly never been to Middlesbrough.
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You've clearly never been to Middlesbrough.
..... In December, when the sun sets around 3.45pm, and doesn't rise until almost 8.30am!
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