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Old Oct 7th 2007, 10:36 pm
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I'm glad when I was growing up we just 'made do' with the local youth/football club disco.
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Old Oct 7th 2007, 10:37 pm
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Originally Posted by Elvira
Am I the only one who thinks this completely OTT and ridiculous?

Thank god my lot refused to participate in any of this nonsense...

Why can't they just have a proper party?
I agree. It seems very old fashioned and a little weird.
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I'm glad when I was growing up we just 'made do' with the local youth/football club disco.
Same here and at that age you could not have payed me to wear one of them dresses.
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Old Oct 7th 2007, 11:19 pm
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Originally Posted by simongb
I agree. It seems very old fashioned and a little weird.
It is old fashioned in a way but it's nice too, to see them dressed so smartly.
I also think it teaches them how to behave in certain social situations.

Perhaps it's just where I live but the teenagers here are so well mannered and confident and a real pleasure to be with.
My daughters friends back home were lovely and I've known all of them since they were babies and I hate to say anything horrible about them but.....they could do with a few lessons in manners.

I still want that frock.
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Old Oct 7th 2007, 11:23 pm
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Originally Posted by Elvira
Am I the only one who thinks this completely OTT and ridiculous?

Thank god my lot refused to participate in any of this nonsense...

Why can't they just have a proper party?
you are not alone ..it has gone completely OTT imo
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Old Oct 7th 2007, 11:35 pm
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Originally Posted by jumping doris
It is old fashioned in a way but it's nice too, to see them dressed so smartly.
I also think it teaches them how to behave in certain social situations.

Perhaps it's just where I live but the teenagers here are so well mannered and confident and a real pleasure to be with.
My daughters friends back home were lovely and I've known all of them since they were babies and I hate to say anything horrible about them but.....they could do with a few lessons in manners.

I still want that frock.

Cinderella......you shall go to the ball
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I hear that kids are doing this in the UK now. My sister was telling me. They hire limos and do the whole dress up thing. The UK is becoming TOO americanized imo.
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Originally Posted by simongb
I hear that kids are doing this in the UK now. My sister was telling me. They hire limos and do the whole dress up thing. The UK is becoming TOO americanized imo.
it's sad but true. everytime i go back home i see the changes
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it's sad but true. everytime i go back home i see the changes

well you might as well stay here then if you think that.........maybe it will all soon be one big US of America and Britain
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Originally Posted by Sally
Is there any special etiquette attached to them for a Freshman boy?? I have only the vaguest idea about them from movies, which usually involve a gruesome murder.
Thanks.
Make sure he's bathed and a corsage wouldn't go amiss.
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Make sure he's bathed and a corsage wouldn't go amiss.

I guess actually wearing some clothes as well might help....................
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Originally Posted by simongb
I hear that kids are doing this in the UK now. My sister was telling me. They hire limos and do the whole dress up thing. The UK is becoming TOO americanized imo.
Yes my niece just went through it all back home, of course I made a fuss of the photo's but also said to her Mum "bit of a waste of money ain't it" but unlike me they do have money to burn.
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Old Oct 8th 2007, 3:44 am
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Maybe I'm old fashioned too or just cheap? My oldest son is 4 this week, he has recently gone to some of his classmates parties which have been pretty nice. At one recent 4 year olds party they had a clown and at another a chef cooking food to order for the adults.
We called one clown and he wanted $400 to 'make it worth his while' having to drive to Santa Monica from Whittier ( about 20 miles). In LA even kids parties seem to be a 'keeping up with the Jones' event'. After some initial enquiries James is having a simple party with cake, games and a pinata in the local park. Whatever happened to pass the parcel and pin the tail on the donkey. The $400 clown can piss right off.
In addition to his low-key party James is getting a new bike too.
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Old Oct 8th 2007, 3:48 am
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You've gone and changed your avitar ............. You don't look like Stevie Wonder anymore
Aww sorry, wasn't it lovely?
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Originally Posted by tamms_1965
It dependson the regional traditions. In Ohio, they are usually semi-formal/dressy casual. Sometimes the boy gets the girl a corsage, sometimes not. At the school I teach, a student group sells carnations and roses the week before homecoming with them being delivered the Friday before. So many times, the boys (and girls) will send a flower that way. It is much more relaxed than the prom in the spring.
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