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Old Nov 28th 2012, 10:52 am
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Originally Posted by Montfan72
You're right that many Americans are gregarious and friendly but up here in the frozen north things are decidedly chilly. The natives are very clannish and don't venture out of their established family/social structures. I've noticed a strange non-curious/interested attitude towards my being a furriner and even a little distrust. Not many folks ask about my background, family or even what country I'm from. Of course I don't expect any of that of course but it's considered polite among 'friends' surely? And that is why all of my close friends are expats.
Maybe they can't understand your accent, assume you are Russian, and don't want to ask incase you accuse them of being racist.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 10:54 am
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Originally Posted by UkWinds5353
I'm sensing a few hang-overs during the holidays!
Yeah. Ethel and I arranged a rendezvous, but he stood me up. I'm going to drown my sorrows at the local.

I don't think he understood me, when I said lets rock up. I hope he hasn't ODed

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Old Nov 28th 2012, 1:18 pm
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Originally Posted by JRG67
Maybe they can't understand your accent, assume you are Russian, and don't want to ask incase you accuse them of being racist.
Why would they assume I'm Russian? Must be my Slavic cheekbones, Nordic coloring and willowy stature that gives it away.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:07 pm
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Originally Posted by JRG67
Yeah. Ethel and I arranged a rendezvous, but he stood me up. I'm going to drown my sorrows at the local.

I don't think he understood me, when I said lets rock up. I hope he hasn't ODed
I stood you up because you accused me of being a former Nazi! You should know me by now. I thought we were cool, even though you used to be a man?

I forgive you though. No hard feelings, except between my legs.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:16 pm
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you guys are crazy!!! Funny, but crazy.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:21 pm
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Default Re: Difficult to make friends in America?

Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
I stood you up because you accused me of being a former Nazi! You should know me by now. I thought we were cool, even though you used to be a man?

I forgive you though. No hard feelings, except between my legs.
Ethel!!!! You've returned!
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:22 pm
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Originally Posted by UkWinds5353
Americans love to party hard and we enjoy spending time making new friends. I've seen nothing but positive reactions from Americans when meeting Brits.And you're right,the various British accents do go over well in America.I remember being in NYC one day and while placing an order at a Dunkin Donuts, there was a British guy standing at the counter placing his order.Right behind him was a person that over heard him and noticed the accent, and commented how much they admired his British accent.Everyone in line smiled and the british dude loved all the attention. Americans are a friendly lot.
This is all well and good when on holiday, but making friends in a foreign country isn't about accents. It all seems to fall flat after "OMG I love UR accent". No criticism meant, just 9 years worth of experience. Being a tourist is not the same. Everything seems awesome when you're on holiday.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:26 pm
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Originally Posted by JRG67
Ethel!!!! You've returned!
Miss me?
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:27 pm
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Originally Posted by MarkCowan
you guys are crazy!!! Funny, but crazy.
Bat shit crazy actually.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:29 pm
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Originally Posted by Ethelred_the_Unready
Miss me?
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...icle-1.1208649

I was worried that this was you.
You mentioned times were tough, so I thought maybe you had resorted to eating cockroaches and died
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:31 pm
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Originally Posted by MarkCowan
you guys are crazy!!! Funny, but crazy.
So, what's your story big boy!
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 3:37 pm
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Originally Posted by JRG67
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/nati...icle-1.1208649

I was worried that this was you.
You mentioned times were tough, so I thought maybe you had resorted to eating cockroaches and died
Only in Floriduh LOL!

Something must have really been bugging that poor dude.
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 4:05 pm
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So Ethel, do YOU have any STDs??

What's going on in Florida. I saw that on woman there was arrested for masturbating in a Starbucks? Wasn't you was it?
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 4:23 pm
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Originally Posted by JRG67
So, what's your story big boy!
I am defo just as crazy, some quality comments, shit I am surprised half these comments are approved but they are frickin hilarious
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Old Nov 28th 2012, 4:27 pm
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Originally Posted by MarkCowan
I am defo just as crazy, some quality comments, shit I am surprised half these comments are approved but they are frickin hilarious
SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! It's our little secret
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